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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Aurelius1(m): 4:28pm On Sep 13, 2017
@ amliftedhigher, to be frank with you, your marriage might not stand the test of time. If a girl you are about to wed is behaving like this then be rest assured that she could beat your mother when you are at work. You've already married her traditionally so there's nothing you can do except to talk to her.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by chii8(f): 4:31pm On Sep 13, 2017
Op,I want to digress,why did you marry her in first place, or what did you find in her that made you decide to settle down with her.
( I believe the lady in question is very facially attractive)
Or better still, an enemy of progress has lectured her on how to deal with your family and she mumuishly believed. People are that bad oooo, try to know if her grievance holds water or she feels that since you're the only son,all family attention will be on you and she had planned having you to herself alone.

What am even saying sef...am not feeling too well jare.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by chii8(f): 4:34pm On Sep 13, 2017
Aurelius1:
@ amliftedhigher, to be frank with you, your marriage might not stand the test of time. If a girl you are about to wed is behaving like this then be rest assured that she could beat your mother when you are at work. You've already married her traditionally so there's nothing you can do except to talk to her.




Haba nah,he can go and collect his money back, will you tell your brother that?

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by enoqueen: 4:52pm On Sep 13, 2017
If you don't correct this now, u can never do it again.

Tell her u want to put the wedding on hold. And make her know that your family means alot to u.

All these devilish women everywhere.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:46pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Thanks brother. From your questions, no encounter at all between her and my family members she just hate to hear me talking with them on phone. Like you said she never showed me this before traditional marriage and my family just saw her ones before our traditional marriage if she had started this before our TM I won't have dare go to see her people talk of carrying drinks.

are you saying that the gal you decided to marry only met your family ONE SINGLE time before the trad wedding? why, how, what was wrong?!

your family never came over for dinner, and vice versa?!

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by McDee01(m): 5:57pm On Sep 13, 2017
Pidgin2:


I think I understand a bit of what is going on. My brother, you might not be able to understand if your sisters are over involving themselves in your business because they are your sisters it is someone outside that will notice it instead.

You have a point in saying your sister's option is better in this case but your wife to be must have noticed their over involvement in other issues which is upsetting her already. This doesn't mean she hates them but you might have been telling her stories about your sisters involvement in your life affairs, to you it's ok but to her it might seem odd because she's from a different family

Try to understand her more, make her feel comfortable with them by helping her to feel secure in your love, this can be done through occasional reassurance.

Good luck


Ma'am, excuse me but I don't think you are on the right path though that is your opinion and I respect it. Defending the lady in question is okay because we haven't been opportune to hear her own part of the story BUT judging from what is on ground, I don't see the reason why the lady in question have to be bitter and cold towards his husband to be family. Haba na! Who does that? If you read correctly what he said here, it clearly shows that there is no love for the family at all.

My brethren, you need to have a round table discussion/pillow talk with your wife to be. Find out what her grievances towards your family is. If okay for you, I suggest you take her to your pastor/imam for thorough counseling and discussion. Remember, this is one mistake you can't afford to make. A wrong move can ruin your life forever! May God be with you and equip you with the needed wisdom in treating the issue. Jah Bless!!

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by LordKO(m): 5:59pm On Sep 13, 2017
@OP

The last thing to expect from a self-centered person is loyalty. Today her negative actions and inaction are towards your siblings and mother, but I can assure that you're going to be her main victim in the long run. Obviously, you're yet to achieve self-realization, therefore, the reason why you married - you're married already since you have done traditional marriage - someone that is a contrast to what you need.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by toksbisola: 9:01pm On Sep 13, 2017
@OP; TICK TOCK TICK TOCK; A time bomb is ticking and this situation you have narrated here would worry most men in your shoes. I’m sure you’ve heard the slogan “GIVE A WOMAN AN INCH AND SHE TAKES A MILE”. It's only a selfish woman that when married, would want her husband to herself only and not allow him to associate with his family members going forward.

No doubt, you love your wife (as you are now married due to the traditional marriage you’ve already done) very much; but the bulk doesn’t stop with her to decide for you on how the love you have for both her and your mum/sister as well as any other family member should be split; in fact, IT SHOULDN’T BE DEBATABLE. Maybe you need to ask your wife if she will like it if you were to treat her own family members with dislike; I can just imagine how she will feel.

That your mum and your sisters love her very much is not enough for your wife; and she just couldn’t resist the urge to show the stuff she’s made of by showing an unacceptable attitude back to them. (I think your wife is watching too many Nollywood movies to make her come to a conclusion that your family is controlling you; Lol).

When you were in the courting stage in your relationship (you said yourself that she was already showing her uncomfortable and grumbling attitude when you talk to your family members on the phone), and you see a situation such as this arising or any others’, you don’t overlook it; instead, you tackle them head-on. It’s rather unfortunate that some women allow themselves to be paranoid that they start to envy the love their man have for his mum/dad as well as his brother(s)/sister(s).

Your wife was not in the picture when you were growing up in your family circle; hence, you have built a strong bond with your family members before her arrival. Hopefully, yours won’t be a case where your wife starts telling you that she is not too comfortable seeing your family members in your home; then probably your eyes would clear and realise that you should have addressed this issue before marrying her.

It's sad that some women would've their own family members free to come and go as they please in their marital home; but her husband’s family members would be placed on WRITE ME A LETTER TO TELL ME YOU ARE COMING; and if/when the letter is received, YOU WOULD ONLY BE ALLOWED TO SPEND 1 DAY. Sounds funny right; but don't let your situation get to that stage as it seems to be heading that direction.

Just to clarify, I hope that you are not neglecting showing your wife love (let her continue to observe the love you have for her as real); as sometimes if you are not giving her your attention/love, she might be a little jealous; hence, her reaction of dislike to your family members. Then again, it might be that she is listening to negative talk from her friends which are beginning to cloud her judgement.

I have seen enough threads here on NL where the fiancée/wife’s attitude portrays the “YOU’LL CHOOSE BETWEEN ME AND YOUR FAMILY”. Handle this matter now that it is glaring and in the open before yours becomes part of the statistics of “HAD I KNOWN”.

I saw in one of your replies of how you tried to save money on an aspect of your wedding preparation and as the suggestion came from your sister, your wife wasn’t too pleased even though it saved money. SMH, imagine if the same type of suggestion came from your wife’s sister; would she say that her own sister is controlling her to? I don’t think so; but as it is from your own sister now, your wife has already concluded that your sister is controlling you. USE WISDOM TO ADDRESS THIS DISLIKE OF YOUR WIFE TO YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS; OTHERWISE, IT WOULD ESCALATE TO A POINT WHERE THE DISLIKE WOULD BE TRANSFERRED TO YOU AS WELL.

From the way things are going, your rendering assistance financial or otherwise to members of your family might gradually become a problem from your wife’s point of view ( I may be right as well as wrong) but only time will tell and hope you will know how to tackle that if it ever occurs; hopefully, that would not arise.

Lastly, NEVER EVER CHASE YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AWAY BECAUSE OF A SPOUSE AS THAT MIGHT BE TOTALLY WRONG. All the best and congratulations on your wedding and may you have a joyful and happy home ahead.

I rest my case

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by mrblessed(m): 9:08pm On Sep 13, 2017
Lomantics:
She might not really hate them.
My husband is from a very nice and loving family but i am not close to them, i give them their space cos i like mine
One day i had an argument with my husband about his parents and the next thing he said is "I have always known you hate my mother"
I didnt even bother to explain any thing to him i just ignored the statement.

But whatever your situation is, you have to manage it very carefully so as not to be drawn between your mom/sisters and your wife
Which good lady will snub the company of a 'good and nice family?' I think your hubby is correct; you hate his family without a reason. lf you ask me, I think you are suffering from a psychological problem.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Lexusgs430: 10:12pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

What kind of relationship did they have before introduction?

Have asked her why she hates them?
Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by GoldNiagara(m): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation


You need to slap sense into her head.She wants to isolate you from your family, resist it vehemently and she will fall in line.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by mike404(m): 10:15pm On Sep 13, 2017
SEND HER AWAY

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by evy1(m): 10:16pm On Sep 13, 2017
coolcatty:
Smh

This marriage is so so heading to the rocks.... See massive red flag.

10k bet that this marriage won't get to 1year mark.

Who's betting with me on this?
grin grin na over 1.5 either half.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by valencia25(m): 10:17pm On Sep 13, 2017
Bro, family over everything... Never underestimate what women can do, she is pure evil and not worth to have you as husband. Whether you stay away from your family or Stay close won't change anything because she will keep making your life miserable for you.

If you've ears, hold the two and run for your life..... NEVER SETTLE DOWN WITH A RUDE WIFE!!!

You will always regret it.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by ayamprecious: 10:17pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation


Honestly bro, call the wedding off, don't allow a woman to make u an ingrate to your siblings, your children will pay for it, n this kind of a woman she will be the type that doesn't have a plan with you in the 40yrs because she wants all to her self, she will be greedy n can go at any length to make u poor so u can now at her feet


In btw

Didn't you notice this attitude b4 until u wanted to get married

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by I888(m): 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation
Never abandon a family that have been with you since birth over someone you just met not too long ago...remember where you are coming from and if you abandon your family, be rest assured you may live to regret your actions.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by birdsview(m): 10:18pm On Sep 13, 2017
Hate her family back in Ten folds....Laws of Moses

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by mike404(m): 10:19pm On Sep 13, 2017
Oyindidi:
Why do I have the huge to insult you for your last sentence. angry
That girl is wicked for hating your family for no reason. Where was your wife when they were training you? Weak men everywhere.
YOU SOUND LIKE A WIFE MATERIALwink

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Opakan2: 10:19pm On Sep 13, 2017
You're probably a Yoruba guy that married an igbo lady.

Igbos teach their kids to hate other tribes especially Yorubas for no reason. But they expect absolute love in return.
Better carry your cross like that. Very soon, the only family your kids will know will be hers.

Sorry for you

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by free2ryhme: 10:19pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation


NLders are third parties don't involve us in your relationships

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Wizcollifa(m): 10:20pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation
i don't have much to say because you know what to do. Just leave the lady jeje and find another lady that will love your family.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by mike404(m): 10:20pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Harbeeorlar(m): 10:22pm On Sep 13, 2017
Even if your family don't train you does that warrant her to hate them... She did not even hate selected few but all of them, bro, better hit the bull by the horn now and put her where she belong.

She should be happy she is going into a family she is accepted by all instead she is finding trouble where there is none.

My candid advise, try and sit her down to know why she is acting that way, if nothing good is coming from her Jerusalem then act like a man and threaten with the wedding cos once you marry her, you will live with that forever.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Viccur(m): 10:23pm On Sep 13, 2017
This guy is damn weak...the tone of ur article is stupidly evident. Bettes suspend any prep nw or else...

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Abebelinus(f): 10:24pm On Sep 13, 2017
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation
my dear choice wisely, they are so many good ladies out there, if you have not fully married her she is behaving like these towards your family members. No one prays for dead but its inevitable God forbid let's say you are no more tomorrow that means she is going to cut off that relationship from your family members. It's a huge decision think wisely.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by allanphash7(m): 10:26pm On Sep 13, 2017
My brother !!!



There is no force in love I hope you know that



If you love me you won't throw stone at my dog




Rethink



The gods are wise
amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by Nobody: 10:27pm On Sep 13, 2017
Oyindidi:
Go sleep angry

cheesy :DYou have no chill at all.. See how you just... lipsrsealed
Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by TheTechMan: 10:29pm On Sep 13, 2017
This is serious. Your wife will succeed in alienating all your family members from you in the marriage. She is not a good person at all. You should not have gone ahead with the marriage when you noticed. Did you ask her why she hates your family? She wants to have total control over you by chasing your family away from you first . Some women are like that, I've experienced this before.

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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by phenzy(m): 10:29pm On Sep 13, 2017
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Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by AuroraB(f): 10:30pm On Sep 13, 2017
Lomantics:
She might not really hate them.
My husband is from a very nice and loving family but i am not close to them, i give them their space cos i like mine
One day i had an argument with my husband about his parents and the next thing he said is "I have always known you hate my mother"
I didnt even bother to explain any thing to him i just ignored the statement.

But whatever your situation is, you have to manage it very carefully so as not to be drawn between your mom/sisters and your wife
And every of these small online advisers have condemned the lady! See 'dump her' 'call off the wedding'
Nobody should bring his or her relationship problems on here again, marriage especially, Chai! You go fear shocked. See them Internet warriors!
I have relatives living in the same city with me, I have not visited in 4yrs. So, not visiting a suitor's sister would mean hate? I laugh
Op, better mind the advice you'll take from here ooooo
Jambites dey this NL too. You see them on FP on a regular undecided

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