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Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by walepackage(m): 7:45pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
=babtaima post=61108083] Yeah you might be right... she looks very introverted.. she's had a very rough childhood and was abused severally and almost had an incestuous abuse from her family member, could this be a reason? she opens up with me about a lot of things and I've met her family on different accounts.. could this be why she's taking advantage of me wanting me to initiate all the contact? sorry bro if it seemed that way... I'm bp. she still hasn't called, she wasn't in her work place yesterday, maybe she has issues? or oh, the holidays... ... at this point I'm fed up with her. Maybe she doesn't love me.. she's just feeding off my energy and attention from every meeting we make. [/quote]ok my man,but the truth is dont quickly give up on her.Thou,its kinda strange not hearing from someone who claim to be inlove with you,cos ladies are more emotional.But,have you ever tought of her rough childhood experienced may precipitate her cold attitude towards you.I sugest you should talk to her now. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 7:54pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
ibkayee:Thanks for your positive response.. When i spoke to her about it she apologized whole heartedly, started calling again then now she's slowed down again.. it's like a game and I'm not playing with that silliness. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by ibkayee(f): 8:02pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
babtaima:No problem, hmm, maybe mention it again and if she improves and then slows down again, start mirroring all her actions. If she calls, you call and if not you do the same, if it becomes ridiculous and it's clear that she won't change....you may need to consider leaving, since it clearly bothers you as much as it does and I personally don't think you're even asking for too much 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 8:13pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
ibkayee:Hahaha you're right.. i really admire your intelligence! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 7:26pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Hahaha guys guys... she just called 10 minutes ago though her credit was really low (according to her) so i called back.. She didn't ask me why I haven't called her for like 4 days now lol she was really soft and sweet with the phone call.. she says she's not feeling too well.. i asked why she called and she said: Nothing.. just wanted to hear your voice hahaha... she lost.. anyway she's probably learnt her lesson and said again on the phone call that she'll call tomorrow when she loads her phone.. i lied to her though, i told her i was sick as well yesterday and was vomiting too.. she was now telling me to get well soon and all that... i told her to get well soon as well and that I'll call her tomorrow.. Hopefully all the guys will learn from me and adopt this mindset that will make them get the respect they deserve from their SO. Peace. ibkayee, walepackage, sekxy, Maiconyoung, wh33z, Apina, IamKashyBaby, fayded, dingbang, Titheman |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima:happy for you..better treat her right and avoid those things that promote break ups. . btw,mellow your shoulders too. 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 7:58pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima: White knight, beta hmmmmm Red Pillerr and MGTOW spotted |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 8:46pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
sekxy:Gucci on your feet... guess who bought you that? me.. sekxy ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 8:52pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
pcguru1:hahaha... you seem like a cool guy that used the Internet back in the days just like me.. i started using forums before nl became popular so this are slangs we use alot back in the days ![]() |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 8:55pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima:Don't call her tomorrow. Call her next tomorrow or sunday evening 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima:as in we don't old for this forum, I know a lot about those slings I used to be a member there and read a lot of the articles that's why I made the shout out nice signature bro, though not a Nodejs fan too much dependency and packages wahala 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 9:02pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
ibkayee:lol you deserve a gift you're special and intelligent unlike that kashy who posts for likes.. she was forming shit.. she gave up and called when she realized I'm not ready for games.. hats off to you milady.. for being so knowledgeable. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 9:03pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Betmaster3:oga but that's wickedness the four days no contact never do. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() forget all my ego.. i actually love this girl but I won't show it fully yet till I'm sure. i don't want to screw things by not calling tommorow.. I need to strike a balance between trustworthy/honest and WiseMan. |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 9:08pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
pcguru1:Lol NodeJs really cool hahaha.. i got paid really good as a node developer this year.. i wanna settle down with a good girl hahaha |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 9:13pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima:Girls always call back if you don't call them as before, it's just normal. You don't know the game well, yet you claim to know, I didn't speak with my babe for 1 month plus straight on one occasion and 2 months plus straight on the other occasion, she was the one that first called me back on those two occasions, Calling her tomorrow will make her feel you can't do without her and you'll have yourself to be blamed, learn from the elders. Call her on Sunday boy! 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by babtaima(m): 9:17pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Betmaster3:lol nice analysis.. but bro please don't be rude to me.. i wasn't rude to you. I'll call on Saturday then. ![]() |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by ibkayee(f): 9:22pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima:Aww thanks ![]() Congrats ![]() Best way to handle people like that is to mirror their actions. Also, don't let her know you were trying to test her etc, if she switches back to not putting any effort in, just act indifferent lol I wouldn't advise you keep up this act forever though, if she keeps going back to old habits, at some point you've got to put in the towel, let her go and try your luck with someone else, else you'll just be tired lol 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
babtaima: I won't lie am bothered too , wanna settle down too yeah NodeJS pays I write node but mostly CLI and to automate stuff not Web, but am liking Golang I dey reason resign and do all these remote jobs or relocation but mehn really need to get a gig that pays well. Let's see how it goes I go follow you and buzz from time to time, nice one and congrats on the settling down part too. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by wh33z(m): 9:47pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Enjoy broda...try swallow ur pride sometimes make he no go choke u 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Want To Initiate Contact! by wh33z(m): 9:49pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
ibkayee:see sense...u get sense abeg |
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