makydebbie:
Thought this guy said he was going to deactivate..?

dokwhot:
Oh please!When you're drowning,you too will clutch at straws.You no holy pass.I was down and being insulted in my own house,you expected a "welcome,ma!" Fat chance in hell.When you're not Jesus Christ,my Lord and saviour.Abeg,swallow your love and ex.I collected the phone I bought her too.You didn't see that one.Read again.From Page one.I have even told her not to ever contact me again when she wanted to re-invent her bitchiness yesterday.

supersystemsnig:



Aiite ma'am... taking the blame for this, like from mum to son...

Ishilove:
Hmmmm...woman palaver...
Pele. So na woman wan make you deactivate?
You no get mind. You ain't military minded.

SlimHan:
Smh for the ladies comments. Someone even said she can't stand sympathetic sick people. Hmmm

Palaver:

dokwhot:
Ishilove sleeps and wakes up on my thread.I'm proud.See what a little break up can do.

dokwhot:
Ladies,especially Nigerian girls of the Lagos variety, need to learn how to respect their men.It's not so hard to make a guy eat out of your palms and worship the ground you walk on.Why is there so much divorce, side chicks?Because there is a woman ready to do what keeps a man while you glorify yourself in your overinflated ego.Some girl is giving while you just want to take.

supersystemsnig:



Brother preach plz, preach it... We will worship the ground beneath their feet by love and admiration and not by manipulations and egositic exuberance... We love our sisters but they are pushing us away... Too much ego, you talk one they talk fifty. They don't know what submissiveness means and are not pliable..Correct them it's war. Abeg,e do me


Our Nigerian ladies that have traveled around are wise, sound and balanced. I have interacted with ladies from over 25 countries over the past 15 years, and i can say this, our home grown Naija ladies are proud...Unnecessarily proud... Our Christian sisters are an exemption, i will never joke with a Nigerian Christian lady never, they're worth more than gold...Any guy that finds a good one should take good care of them

dokwhot:
Ladies,especially Nigerian girls of the Lagos variety, need to learn how to respect their men.It's not so hard to make a guy eat out of your palms and worship the ground you walk on.Why is there so much divorce, side chicks?Because there is a woman ready to do what keeps a man while you glorify yourself in your overinflated ego.Some girl is giving while you just want to take.

Ishilove:

Haha! While your thread has been very entertaining, I wouldn't go so far as to say I "sleep and wake up" here

jhudit:
This one no wan give up. Trying to help what is left of his ego by quoting every post to brag. Pussy nigga...

cococandy:


Mmm mmm

Don't even try to justify married men having side chicas

dokwhot:
Ma'am,if you don't give him his due well,I daresay,there are a million and one other women who will.And you'll call them "side chicks".Actually,critical analysis shows they are the main thing.There can be no vacuum. I have a date already for Saturday.A date who is interested, interesting, more educated,more beautiful than the egoistic one that left.New girlfriends loading... I'm going back happily into the game.No vacuum in nature.

dokwhot:
More views on my "situationship" needed.Have I approached it appropriately? Read above.Thanks.

dokwhot:
Thanks for your views.I'm a good person who got scammed financially.Seeing that she was planning a break up while I was spending money on her and a proposed wedding.I know she will not go unpunished.

dokwhot:
I'm not hurt emotionally.Just that there are expectations in all relationships.Probably this is just a bad case of incompatibility and I accept it if it is.Better a break up than a divorce,right?I'm very hurt financially though.That one is painful.As to why return her belongings while ill?I was ill,got better to an extent as is normal.Even much better this morning.And I wanted to find out why this happened so rapidly(too much trying to claim smartness).And I did from the messages,chats with her friends on the phone.Thanks all for your opinions.

Juliearth:



And finally,my instinct tells me that this is a cooked up story to garner public sympathy and feminine attention( it is actually,but in a negative way)....my instinct is never wrong.

Juliearth:



Would I be wrong to call you a vindictive person? You break up with her and you:
1 returned her belongings(a sissy act to earn a point)
2 demand for the phone which you bought for her
3 Tag her an aristo baby(an attempt to malign her before the nairaland community)
4 And then the cussing...
All these are sissy acts,bro. If you exude these attributes in real life towards her,then I seriously would give her a standing ovation for leaving you. You clearly have your faultssss. Work on them and you two should salvage your relationship.

BTW, you have alot in common with a Tiv friend I met on nairaland(no pun intended)

cococandy:

I'm sorry there's no justification for that sexist line of thought in my dictionary. I call it sexist because you won't make the same argument in favor of any woman who cheats on her husband.

However I do emplore all married people to always treat their partners with love and respect and try their best to satisfy them.

dokwhot:
You can't know more about my life experiences than me.It's a compliment to me if I've been able to hold you spellbound with my diary,with my writing skills honed over years.Your instinct can't always be right; I welcome you to comment more. 08117754782 WhatsApp/call me(It's a one off deal).