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Why Celebrity Marriages Crash by Powerhousemm: 2:07pm On Oct 24, 2017
One wonders why are celebrity marriages failing globally? The cause is in two words, "LOVE" and "RESPECT". The foundation of marriage is laid on love and respect.

It takes love on the part of a man to marry a woman, most men know that they will never marry a woman they are not in love with, even when a man marries a woman he is not really in love with, he will not bother much about his relationship with her. Thus the increase in number of baby mamas tells you that men are abandoning their provider and protecting roles because they do not truly love those ladies. If a man truly loves a woman he will declare to the world that the woman is his both in words and deed - a signal to other men that she is taken.

And when a woman finds a man she loves, a man she truly loves, she will respect him. She will honour him and care for him regardless of what he earns or brings home. When a woman is forced into marrying a man she does not love, she will abandon her primary role of an helpmate which reflects in her I-don't-care way of relating with her husband.

That said, celebrity husband most times don't truly love their wife, only few do. One sure way of detecting if a man truly loves his wife is through fidelity, expecially sexual faithfulness. As a man grows in political and social status, or becomes more finanancially prosperous, exposure to sexual temptations become extremely high, if the man is not disciplined enough to flee all tempting situations he will fall for it.

It is understandable but not an excuse when a man due to one reason or another let down is guards and fall into extra marital affair at a point in time in is marital life. But when a married man keeps a string of side chicks, to the point of telling his wife that his outside sexual excapade is his personal problem and not hers most times leads to divorce. And as we all know, a lot of celebrity husbands are constantly seeking sexual escapades.
Please read this: "So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself." Ephesians 5:28

On the flip side, most celebrity married ladies have issues with respecting their husband. Truth be told, a lot of celebrity ladies enagage in status marriage, not neccessarily out of love. They engage in marriage just for the title "Mrs." some will even hang on till they have a kid, there after go solo.
For a woman to successfully raise her children she needs time and resources to do this, so she needs a man to protect and provide her while she nurse the child into adulthood. But when she becomes financially independent, she can as well foot the bill without demanding financially backing for the training and nursing of the child from her husband.

So when a celebrity woman with strong financial base does not truly love the man she marries, for her to sincerely respect him and submit to his leadership will be very difficult, she will call his bluff if he threatens her to send her packing. This explanation is one major reason why mothers who are single parent is rampant in western world. Unfortunately the trend is fast becoming a norm among celebrity ladies in our nation.

God knew that civilization will empower women and place them on the same financial pedestal with men and it will only take respect on the part of women to enjoy a lasting marriage. This is why God said " Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord." Colossians 3:18

Re: Why Celebrity Marriages Crash by ImaIma1(f): 1:02pm On Oct 25, 2017
Celeb marriages crash because they are still under the illusion that they are celebs at home.

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