hello house what should i do ?i just discovered that the guy that my two years igbo fiancy introduced to me as her brother for two years now was actually her bedmate.haven't discovered this on the day of our introduction from the family , i now changed my mind that i will not marry her again for cheating on me.she is now begging for forgiveness that she was going out with him before she met me and did know how to end the relationship with him, so as not to hurt him. what should i do?please i need your advise.

Why do you have to mention her ethnicity? Was that all needed, or are you trying to insinuate that all Igbo women are like that?

Dnt build on a false foundation boyfriend.Let her go and you must move on

free her and let her go because she will still do worst thing later after you get married.

straight 2d point, you either continue with the relationship and die early or dump her now like fresh potato and live a very long life.

@ UcheUwadi_ as u hear d guy, he talk say Him Igbo girl, wetin concern u.

Hey Ge. Uche is vry ryt,d poster doesnt have any gud reason 2includ d ethnicity of hs gal,and jst like Uche pointd out,it does seem like evry ibo chick acts dat way.

Ethnicity thread again? Na only ibo girls they d thing wey d poster talk? Wil u guyz stop this jor.

let the stupid igbo girl go. she was not sure u wanted to settle down with her. so the guy was for security

@poster
Must u mention her tribe? Leave d "igbo girl" & go marry a girl from ur tribe. I.d.i.o.t!

dump her

See d foolish question wey dis one dey ask,do we still need to tell u wat to do?drop her jare.

Be a man. Don't be too swift to act , this is an inperfect world. DUMPING is when other measures have failed, it is last action.

All the Igbos in the House dey VEXXX

now where that amaka and platimunk!!

niyi! how e be u like say ibo girl go marry u? oga, abeg dump her silly, senseless, useless azz.

shaking my head at topic in VA

Guy move on with you life, you should forgive her, marrying her would have grieve consequence .

krissykriss or whatever you call your name i really see no reasons why you should call me an idiot on this thread just because i seek for advise from reasonable and matured mind in the house.Anyway i have forgiven you.i actually mentioned her ethnicity for the house to know and tell me if such act is an inherited culture or not and for them to know the enormous amount of money involved. you know krissty that the igbos more or less sell out their duaghther when they give their hand out in marraige.tell me krissy how you will feel if you have paid the first and second stage dowry of the girl you what to marry from the east, knowing how expensive it is and you discover this game.i believe you might want to take your misarable life.

I think you better use your head and not your heart.Picture this,she introduced her boyfriend of two years as her brother because she did not want to hurt him.That means,this particular girl is still in love with the guy and not you.End the relationship before she hurts you more.

olaniyi .o:

krissykriss or whatever you call your name i really see no reasons why you should call me an idiot on this thread just because i seek for advise from reasonable and matured mind in the house.Anyway i have forgiven you.i actually mentioned her ethnicity for the house to know and tell me if such act is an inherited culture or not and for them to know the enormous amount of money involved. you know krissty that the igbos more or less sell out their duaghther when they give their hand out in marraige.tell me krissy how you will feel if you have paid the first and second stage dowry of the girl you what to marry from the east, knowing how expensive it is and you discover this game.i believe you might want to take your misarable life.

Says who? How can u say u want to know if it is an inherited culture?

Another dumb I.D.I.O.T probably from Yoruba land, Ofe Nmanu, U better go look for ur stinky Pu**y Tribe girls and leave Igbo girl alone. TRIBAL TRIGER, LONG HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

hahahahaha. This is a fake thread. The op is having a laugh. Really got y'all going. Stupid op

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I thought as much, but all the same the post is a tribalistic slowpoke,

i once dated this yoruba gal. had like 4 other guys that i knew of and still wanted me to marry her. i believe it is in their culture to be this loose and promiscuos.

Reality101 for you insulting me  i would rather describe you as a first class idiot born with your testes still hang up there in your mothers womb.i wounder why the useless so called igbos are always so aggressive.Butch of fools.Thanks main guys and babes in the house for your advise.i have made up my mind to let let her go.you can see how senseless and aggressive her people could be over the missbehaviour of their sister. instead of saying please lets have her number so that we can talk and advise her,instead they her busy insulting me after their dubious sister have cheated me. anyway it is obvious that such act is in their spoilt, rotten and  arrogant blood.

olaniyi .o:

krissykriss or whatever you call your name i really see no reasons why you should call me an idiot on this thread just because i seek for advise from reasonable and matured mind in the house.Anyway i have forgiven you.i actually mentioned her ethnicity for the house to know and tell me if such act is an inherited culture or not and for them to know the enormous amount of money involved. you know krissty that the igbos more or less sell out their duaghther when they give their hand out in marraige.tell me krissy how you will feel if you have paid the first and second stage dowry of the girl you what to marry from the east, knowing how expensive it is and you discover this game.i believe you might want to take your misarable life.

I wanted to reply to your post but for the comment above, I guess I will not

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Just out of curiosity @ poster, do u call and advise ur own people when they misbehave? Especially strangers, ,?

olaniyi .o:

Reality101 for you insulting me  i would rather describe you as a first class idiot born with your testes still hang up there in your mothers womb.i wounder why the useless so called igbos are always so aggressive.Butch of fools.Thanks main guys and babes in the house for your advise.i have made up my mind to let let her go.you can see how senseless and aggressive her people could be over the missbehaviour of their sister. instead of saying please lets have her number so that we can talk and advise her,instead they her busy insulting me after their dubious sister have cheated me. anyway it is obvious that such act is in their spoilt, rotten and  arrogant blood.

Your comments here show you're the one with issues. I think your Igbo girlfriend had a lucky escape, imagine being married to someone like you, who views his wife's people in such a way, and makes such sweeping statements?

From your posts, you have no idea what makes a man, or what makes a relationship work. You feel Nairalanders should ask you for your fiancee's number, which you would no doubt give, so they could "advise her"? Whatever happened to privacy? Am I glad your fiancee got away from you, she shouldn't be begging you to take her back, I guess she doesn't realise how lucky she is, you two didn't tie the knot!

@OP, you need to stop acting as if Igbo girls are the only ones who two time or lie. Secondly, if she was your fiance, did you not follow "culture" and do an investigation on her family? If you did would you not have found out that the man in question was not her brother or related to her? That is part of the Igbo culture, to do INVESTIGATIONS, if you had followed that INHERITED CULTURE instead of trying to castigate all Igbo women , you would not have ended up on Nairaland sounding like a wounded person.

The fact that you want complete strangers to you and the girl to use their credit and call her, tells us all that you are in no way ready for marriage or any adult relationship. I mean what kind of fool will see Igbos as "useless" and "aggressive" but still mumu himself to go and make one his fiance,  for TWO YEARS, lol

londoner:

The fact that you want complete strangers to you and the girl to use their credit and call her, tells us all that you are in no way ready for marriage or any adult relationship. I mean what kind of fool will see Igbos as "useless" and "aggressive" but still mumu himself to go and make one his fiance,  for TWO YEARS, lol

Good question!

On behalf of every poster including yourz sincerely who'v made a post b4 nw I ask 4 forgvness.Plz forgve our inadequacies.
Now please,kindly post her number lets get her side of d story and deal with d offendin party whch goin by ur post she's guilty.
Post it plz.