I have heard a lot of people say that in these 21st century hardwork have no place but rather smart work some even site examples of bill gate and mark as people who are smart
but yet we still hear our parent and older once keep advising us even in our relationship to work hard and build it well that anything took you are great time of hard labour to build you will value that relationship well.
now ladies who would you date?
the smart dude or the hardworking dude?

mod pls help us push to fp.

Okay.

ladies of nowadays no dey follow hardworking guys with nothing to show oo. Na smart guy wey fit add zero to to the back of 6 zero dem like pass....but when the guy dey go jail, dem go turn to igi da eiye fo straight...

habsydiamond:
ladies of nowadays no dey follow hardworking guys with nothing to show oo. Na smart guy wey fit add zero to to the back of 6 zero dem like pass....but when the guy dey go jail, dem go turn to igi da eiye fo straight...

that means the girl doesn't mean well for you, marriage should be 2 become 1

Hard working is very sexy so I choose hard working.

Which one is "Smart" or "Hardwork" again?. Can't a guy be smart and hardworking at the same time?.

kimbraa:
Which one is "Smart" or "Hardwork" again?. Can't a guy be smart and hardworking at the same time?.

Smart working is: Banking, paper pushing, hustlers, anyone who only uses their smarts and no physical labour.

While hardworking is the manual workers and those who work long hours and days to make their hustle legit.

Smart workers use skills such as manipulation and deception sometimes while hardworkers have/try to work ethically. Sweat of their brow rather than off the back of others.

You dig

Dimples129:




Smart working is: Banking, paper pushing, hustlers, anyone who only uses their smarts and no physical labour.

While hardworking is the manual workers and those who work long hours and days to make their hustle legit.

Smart workers use skills such as manipulation and deception sometimes while hardworkers have/try to work ethically. Sweat of their brow rather than off the back of others.

You dig

Hmmm!. I dig now.

kimbraa:
Hmmm!. I dig now.

You sure

Knowing you you have more to say
You want a legitimate, hardworking, hustler whose income is legal and ethical

Girl, you want it all

Dimples129:


You sure

Knowing you you have more to say
You want a legitimate, hardworking, hustler whose income is legal and ethical

Girl, you want it all

I wouldn't settle for someone whose source of income is questionable. As a matter of factly, guys who're into illegitimate means of livelihood are a turn off.

kimbraa:
I wouldn't settle for someone whose source of income is questionable. As a matter of factly, guys who're into illegitimate means of livelihood are a turn off.

How will you know? Did Evans wife know the intricacies of his life?

kimbraa:
I wouldn't settle for someone whose source of income is questionable. As a matter of factly, guys who're into illegitimate means of livelihood are a turn off.

I know a number of girls from my area, who married the top shot drug dealers. These girls arrived in designer wedding dresses and even a helicopter, so you can imagine the wedding. Their mothers are living below the poverty line, benefits and all.
Fast forward just 2/3yrs and 1 or 2 children and it's over. Reality popped the bubble because HE gets caught and does 4 to 5 years behind bars and everything is taken off him (house, cars,jewels, everything becomes evidence) and she's back in her single room in her mother's house with a child or two.

She then has to go through the benefits system because most of these damn girls can't spell their name because they banked on their looks. Sad state of affairs.

Dimples129:


I know a number of girls from my area, who married the top shot drug dealers. These girls arrived in designer wedding dresses and even a helicopter, so you can imagine the wedding. Their mothers are living below the poverty line, benefits and all.
Fast forward just 2/3yrs and 1 or 2 children and it's over. Reality popped the bubble because HE gets caught and does 4 to 5 years behind bars and everything is taken off him (house, cars,jewels, everything becomes evidence) and she's back in her single room in her mother's house with a child or two.

She then has to go through the benefits system because most of these damn girls can't spell their name because they banked on their looks. Sad state of affairs.

shit

KreativGenius:


shit

Toilet >>>>>>

The combo is better. Hardwork + smartwork means faster accomplishment.

megareal:
The combo is better. Hardwork + smartwork means faster accomplishment.

so you don't mind doing a fraudulent guy?

Dimples129:
Hard working is very sexy so I choose hard working.

So smart is what? Maybe sexy without "Y".

Gentle034:

So smart is what? Maybe sexy without "Y".

Gay

Dimples129:


Gay

And u be FAY! No reason am my lower organs are protected fully!

Gentle034:

And u be FAY! No reason am my lower organs are protected fully!

I mean smart=gay

Not you...

Dimples129:


I mean smart=gay

Not you...

Oh, now I see clearly, my head oooh. I guess this shit is really working me!! Lemme modify.

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I see, but we no get freedom of choice again? Cos if we do I choose to be smart! Stephen d ordinary Aboki man wey dey area come do hard work insyd this compound for two days from morning till evening for two days, and d him no encourage me at all. Moreover he has been doing that since I was in sec. School now I don grad uni he still doing it. And remember the hard work no grt pension.

Gentle034:

I get you but there's levels to both. You could be smart and make billions but the people you hurt and the effect of your job might bring you more misfortune than breaking your back and having a clean and clear conscious at the end of the day.

We seek happiness and money doesn't buy it. Yes it can amplify your happiness but you need to be happy first. Shiiit... I've confused myself. You got me talking grammar at this hour.

Dimples129:

I get you but there's levels to both. You could be smart and make billions but the people you hurt and the effect of your job might bring you more misfortune than breaking your back and having a clean and clear conscious at the end of the day.

We seek happiness and money doesn't buy it. Yes it can amplify your happiness but you need to be happy first. Shiiit... I've confused myself. You got me talking grammar at this hour.

No worry urself mama, money doesn't make us happy! Hmmmmmm dat wan na for historians to read. I want to be smart and clean, though I know everything has a bad side even our conscience but den ama use d good side, I don't even want billions, e go too cause problem but I sha want dat money. And for jokes if moni don't equal happiness abeg make I send u my account make u transfer all ur moni to me, I want u to be happy!!

Gentle034:

No worry urself mama, money doesn't make us happy! Hmmmmmm dat wan na for historians to read. I want to be smart and clean, though I know everything has a bad side even our conscience but den ama use d good side, I don't even want billions, e go too cause problem but I sha want dat money. And for jokes if moni don't equal happiness abeg make I send u my account make u transfer all ur moni to me, I want u to be happy!!

I find men who work with their hands and physical/strength, sexier than a man who is clean cut in a suit and he can't so much as put up a shelf, but he can afford to have 10 put up for him.

Like you said it's choices.

Dimples129:


I find men who work with their hands and physical/strength, sexier than a man who is clean cut in a suit and he can't so much as put up a shelf, but he can afford to have 10 put up for him.

Like you said it's choices.

Yeah, it is. An if d man Is smarter dose ten would still be a gateway to income!! Look around mama, it's smart people who are wise dat are running a game! I woul advice you read The richest man in Babylon if u haven't.

Dimples129:


I know a number of girls from my area, who married the top shot drug dealers. These girls arrived in designer wedding dresses and even a helicopter, so you can imagine the wedding. Their mothers are living below the poverty line, benefits and all.
Fast forward just 2/3yrs and 1 or 2 children and it's over. Reality popped the bubble because HE gets caught and does 4 to 5 years behind bars and everything is taken off him (house, cars,jewels, everything becomes evidence) and she's back in her single room in her mother's house with a child or two.

She then has to go through the benefits system because most of these damn girls can't spell their name because they banked on their looks. Sad state of affairs.

These ones don't care about what happens later 'cause they're full aware that the system is against drug money. The happiness that comes with living a life of luxury is what matters most to them. Even if they made makeshift to invest in other legitimate businesses, the government would still end up ceasing it ones it's linked to a drug cartel. They only live for the moment.

KreativGenius:



How will you know? Did Evans wife know the intricacies of his life?

Don't tell me you bought the Evans wife's tales by moonlight. Who lives with a man over years and has no idea of what he really does for a living?. She should tell that to her kids.

kimbraa:
Don't tell me you bought the Evans wife's tales by moonlight. Who lives with a man over years and has no idea of what he really does for a living?. She should tell that to her kids.

I know around five ladies that don't know what their hubbies do for a living