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| How Tolerant Are You by ayettymama(f): 10:35pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
I know there are prolly 1001 cheating threads but i wanted to ask anyways As a woman- how do you react emotionally to your man cheating on you WHEN DATING!!! YOU HAVE TO DATE A CHEAT TO MARRY ONE!!!!! does it bother you? do you shrug it off as the way men behave?? does it hit your esteem?? do you look for the nearest shotgun  what are your emotional reactions to your partners unfaithfulness? |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
My immediate reaction is to cut his balls off, mince it and feed it to him. But common sense always rules and I just walk far, far away. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by ayettymama(f): 10:44pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
@post in nigeria that put that idea in your head that men are generally unfaithful creatures and its normal for them to cheat truth is i cant stand it- even a simple lie ill leave trey songz himself!!!! emotionally i feel betrayed, but i dont blame myself i blame the #lyingcheatinggoodfornothingtypeofbrother!!! so no im not tolerant at all at all at all at all!!!!!! o yea ill prolly find a bball bat to kiss his windsheild with b4 i pack off thouigh! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by queeneve: 10:47pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
There are ONE THING that I will divorce my husband for is ADULTERY. There is no reason why he should commit adultery. If men and women spend time with the individual before rushing for marriage, they will learn alot about that person who they are dating and make a informed decision. My fiance and I agree that ADULTERY will be the only reason, ANYTHING ELSE WE SUCK IT UP AND WORK ON IT, Check it boo! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by ayettymama(f): 10:48pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
^^ even Jesus allowed it!  |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by meggieblac: 10:58pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
One person's going to die & it aint gonna be me. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Kgdavid(m): 11:15pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
lol yea ull kill him and smash his car but remember that although hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, it equally has no fury like the wrath of the law. women too go to jail |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Jaideyone(m): 11:25pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
ayettymama:it won't be easy for you to leave especially when you have kids for him already |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by ayettymama(f): 11:37pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
Jaidey-one: when u have kids its a different story im speaking generally even women with no kids hang on like there is i really wonder why |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by daduke2k(m): 11:42pm On Mar 30, 2010 |
Wot i ll do . . . . Ehm giv it a lil try and move on. . . Dats y was mostly d sucker then, bt nw? Am playin d game. D duke of dukes. . . |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 12:01am On Mar 31, 2010 |
@ ayetymamama Hope the Guy doesn't drive a Benthley. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by ayettymama(f): 12:10am On Mar 31, 2010 |
^^ for his sakes i hope soo too! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Tinksh(f): 2:05am On Mar 31, 2010 |
If you look at my posts you will see almost all are anti cheating, lol!!! For me, i just dissappear from them. No contact at all!! Like a ghost, i am gone. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Pweety4me(f): 2:48am On Mar 31, 2010 |
He would be dead meat i pity dat guy whoever try am. . .  |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by na2day2(m): 4:57am On Mar 31, 2010 |
ayettymama: well, since u didnt finish ur post, let me help u complete it. men, how do u react when ur woman cheats on u, lies her teeth out, always tryna deceive u, when she nags like hell, spends all ur money on shoes, clothes, make-up while she sends hers to her parents back home. how do u react when she is mad at u forgetting her birthday(we only do that once in a year) but she keeps forgetting(every single week) to leave the TV alone when u have a game going, and she is wondering why u are upset etc. does it bother u? do you shrug it off as the way women behave? does it hit your esteem? do you look for the nearest shotgun, cutlass, hammer etc what are your emotional reactions to this problem they call "WOMAN", her unfaithfulness, inclusive? there u go, hope that helps u welcome! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by iice(f): 5:45am On Mar 31, 2010 |
Hurt yes but more disappointed at such a weak person. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by na2day2(m): 6:02am On Mar 31, 2010 |
iice: will u marry me? for the uptenth time!  |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by femfem3: 9:18am On Mar 31, 2010 |
I get the hell out of that relationship (Forgiveness is a sin), @ least no be by force but before leaving i will make sure i bleep the hell out of her , |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by googles: 9:57am On Mar 31, 2010 |
I cant tolerate a cheating padner. . . . . .i can never trust such person again |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 31, 2010 |
I once had an ex who cheated on me, I didn't walk . . . big mistake! I guess I thought I was being tolerant  Anyway, in the end, he got a girl pregnant and I damned 'tolerance'! There's only so much a person can take. If a man is too weak to control himself around a woman, then he's just not worth the whole wahala! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 10:45am On Mar 31, 2010 |
Gurl you bad. How many hearts have you broken like the one splattering all over the floor on your profile. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by galatico(m): 11:15am On Mar 31, 2010 |
ayettymama: As a guy it doesn't bother !!! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 12:31pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
generally ladies who shout the loudest here in NL and in real life are the one's who fail to act when faced with the same situation in real life. its one thing to pontificate on what you would do,its another thing to do it when the time comes. IMO,society has conditioned nigerian ladies to accept infidelity as part and parcel of married/dating life.The gut reaction of most ladies is this: that bitch will not steal my man,i will fight it out,i will stay with him and make sure i win. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by deluxecad(m): 12:33pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
Ujujoan: NO WONDER. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by otukpo(f): 12:49pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
i can't tolerate a cheating partner. I will just pack my things and leave. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 12:53pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
MrPrsdent: Yeah, I too get that impression, just like hitting hard on each other in threads meanwhile pretending to be good folks on the other side, alot of pretenders!!! I keep it real both sides |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by otukpo(f): 12:53pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
na2day?: Go and open another thread for that. we'll also want to know ur reactions. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by kosovo(m): 12:55pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
Short answer [size=15pt]99.7%[/size] |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by talkmarkay(m): 12:56pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
@ Poster, No one has wright to cheat on another in the house of Love, but with Love issue can be easily resolved, else separation is the final option |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Spyker: 1:11pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
Cheating topic again. Well, let me see what is obtainable here in Nigeria where i am presently residing. If a man cheats, its because he is a man If a woman cheat, it is because she is a slot. The entire scenario does not give give the woman any advantage. For me, if my wife cheats, that is the end of the marriage, i only pray that God should help me to accept her back otherwise, "for better, she stays, for worse, she packs". Church no go solve this problem at all. |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Chrisbenogor(m): 1:12pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
All these girls that make noise here have either tolerated it until they were finally dumped or have never really faced it in real life, all they do is nag about it. mscheeeeeew next! |
| Re: How Tolerant Are You by Nobody: 1:26pm On Mar 31, 2010 |
deluxecad: No wonder what  |
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