I met this lady when i was still serving and we have been dating ever since. But something happen she came visiting and when she left i ensure she saw her period before she leaves so as not to hear story that touch. Since she say she was not ready and as a nursing student it is forbidden in their school. Well after about 1 month she came to see me and we did the thing but i was careful not to come inside her. Fast forward after 2 month she called that she was pregnant and need money to terminate it since it was early. i inquired she do a test to confirm stage of the pregnancy. After the test she sent me a personal handwritten result that she was two month gone. but after she did the procedure the picture i saw do not look like a two month old fetus but almost full baby. I got mad and inquired why she lied she denial it completely later on i got to know from the mother who didn't know she has told me earlier that it was 3 month and some weeks pregnancy and she was there when u did the test. I kept this close to my heart and decide to move on because i genuinely love this girl honestly. Then later in year she call that she want to come around i allowed her come because she was always helpful and makes me happy cos i love her so much. When she came she told me she saw her period d previous month i didst bother becos i knw i had been always careful when sleeping with her. But this time i notice her virginal was smelly and each time we make love i always pull out before ejaculating. I call her to go for a test she agrees which is normal cos we both express ourselves always. before we went she has been in my place for 1 month and some days. On getting to the hospital the doctors confirm she has candida and she is pregnant. what surprise me was that the doctor said it was a strong pregnancy. I was shock this lady denial and swear i am responsible and even started causing me with all sort of female nagging words. Well i was confuse because i know i didn't release inside her. Well to cut the story short i call my doctor friend who suggested i do other test to know if i am infected or not. Come and see fear in my heart, i did all test u can imagine including her thankfully it all came negative. Now to treatment proper i told her what she want she just rebuke me and say she will abort. I felt bad but she was adamant. Next come and commence treatment in Lagos this lady rejected it saying she prefers to do it in her school that she has friends who can treat her perfectly. I told her professionals are the once to treat her instead of her fake nurse friends she again refuse and say i should give her money to go and and do it over there. I obliged and gave her so as to avoid whahala. what pains me the most was that when she got there she said her friend is charging her some money which is more than the amount charge by the specialist hospital i took her to in Lagos. I got angry and told her to treat herself for i dont care anymore. She rain all manner of insult on me i have to call her mother that i hv a friend who is a doctor close by in other state if she want to treat herself let her go there becos i cannot let quacks treat her n if something happens it will be on me. The mom disagree n say she dont know the doctor n i should send morney to her she herself we treat her cos the lady is complaining abt itching on are private part. By this time i was confuse meanwhile my doctor friends has already collected her number so as to try to persuade her to come over. I hv to send another money even when i knew deep down the pregnancy was nt mine. After a week i call the mum to know how far she has gone and also to informed her that i sent her daughter money for the procedure. She shouted in amazement that the daughter never told her anytin but told her instead that i refuse to send her money. I was shock i called her but she dismissed it with insult as usual. This time i was just praying she get done so i dumb her for once. I ask if she has remove the pregnancy she says no i ask y she says the money is not enough n dat she cannot go n meet a doctor she dont know. When i call my doctor friend it was then he told me that this lady came to see him n told him i refuse to give her money, n he has to used his own money n treat her. N that he was even in touch with the mother. I hv to send him his money back. Then i got mad i called the mother to know y they r doing things on my back since they claim i was responsible she rebuke me n ask me to ask the daughter n not disturb her. Wen i called the daughter she started begging n pleading. I ask her if she has do everything n treated her infection she said yes. Then i told her i am not interested anymore n i dont trust her again n that nor of the pregnancies was ever mine. She kept denying n pleading but i hv made up my mind. From that time to now she has been calling, texting n pleading. I have forgiven her but it can not be d same again. The painful part was that i love this girl wholeheartedly n has never deny her anything nor raise my hands on her. Yet this happen. I have decided to move on but any tine she text she keeps telling me the pregnancies was mine i know deep inside me it is not true. Is she doing it to get back at me or saying the truth? i strongly doubt the later. Even if i accept i cannot stand the mother because i cannot afford such in laws. As for her i do miss her but i cannot be with her anymore it pains but that is the truth.

hmmm

your child or not... as u guys are not ready yet why not use condoms. all these children una dey kill is not the best...and she is damaging herself for the person that will finally land her.

It's better to quit the relationship if u guys can't protect yourselves, Don't damage her for her future husband !!!

Just couldn't read his post

You just can't get enough of raw sex. That's the Genesis of your problem.

*I should get paid for reading through this piece.

Wonderful piece...your prospective MIL is happy to let her daughter do an abortion? Wow, what a new age family you are about to marry into.

gabinogem:
Just couldn't read his post

Lol, it was hard but I read from beginning to end.

The meat of the gist:

Op na mumu.


Op you be mumu o.

Dem Don discover your mumu button.

Oya listen.

They have been milking you dry. Stop sending abortion money. It's a sin! Also stop because you are being tricked because of your niceness.


You never marry this girl. Keep away from her. If she asks to come to visit you do not agree. All this love you are forming for this girl if she enter your life permanently na you go dey beat am up and down you sef no go believe am.

Also for goodness sake, stop doing sex raw. She has accused you of pregnancy twice and has even brought infection, you are still doing pull-out method. How much be gold circle condom? Guy, no carry Wetin you no go fit carry o!

Stop having sex generally sef. At least for now. From the write-up there it's obvious you know little about a woman 's fertile cycle.

Block her and her mother. Don't let them call you.


Keep away from her o!!!

sisisioge:
Wonderful piece...your prospective MIL is happy to let her daughter do an abortion? Wow, what a new age family you are about to marry into.

Good morning Missy.

All the while, I was forcing my patience, struggling intensively to read this eyesore. Op, you've already decided your fate, why the stress? Mtchwwwww!!

d only tin Dat surprised me is dat her mother is in support of Dat abortion, dat wonderfully shows she brought up a wayward daughter, as for both of u, I reserve my comment.

please modify your post. I can't read this.

Prognose:


Good morning Missy.

Goodest morning Oga, wanna hire me now?

You ensured she saw her period and couldn't ensure you protected your self while having fun... Biology 101 fall on you. Science may come to your rescue. Pele

jeffizy:
You just can't get enough of raw sex. That's the Genesis of your problem.

*I should get paid for reading through this piece.

sorry about the errors. you can read again i have do some editing.

sisisioge:


Goodest morning Oga, wanna hire me now?

Do you know how to get rid of blood stains on clothes?

wisdompeters35:


sorry about the errors. you can read again i have do some editing.

I don't know why I found this funny

Pls don't edit it jare. The tale is wonderfully told in its pure form.

Prognose:


Do you know how to get rid of blood stains on clothes?

Jisos !

OK, I see I'm grossly unqualified. May there be peace around you .

BTW, blood is water soluble...or just jik it out

Prognose:


Lol, it was hard but I read from beginning to end.

The meat of the gist:

Op na mumu.


Op you be mumu o.

Dem Don discover your mumu button.

Oya listen.

They have been milking you dry. Stop sending abortion money. It's a sin! Also stop because you are being tricked because of your niceness.


You never marry this girl. Keep away from her. If she asks to come to visit you do not agree. All this love you are forming for this girl if she enter your life permanently na you go dey beat am up and down you sef no go believe am.

Also for goodness sake, stop doing sex raw. She has accused you of pregnancy twice and has even brought infection, you are still doing pull-out method. How much be gold circle condom? Guy, no carry Wetin you no go fit carry o!

Stop having sex generally sef. At least for now. From the write-up there it's obvious you know little about a woman 's fertile cycle.

Block her and her mother. Don't let them call you.


Keep away from her o!!!

Thanks though, i am not a fool i made mistakes and i am willing and ready to learn from it and move on. i posted this story not because i could not keep it to myself, but because i want people learn from it and also get their opinions and advice so i and many others dont make such mistakes again. it has been a while though but i am now a better man mentally and spiritually. stay bless

I am tired

Prognose:

I don't know why I found this funny

Pls don't edit it jare. The tale is wonderfully told in its pure form.

you get mouth die...

I didnt read all, the natter tire me when I got to the part where the mum knows her daughter is pregnant and is okay with an abortion...
Wrong family bro!!! Wrong!!!!!

QueenSekxy:
please modify your post.
I can't read this.

done

sisisioge:


Jisos !

OK, I see I'm grossly unqualified. May there be peace around you .

BTW, blood is water soluble...or just jik it out

Lol, no blood is not water-soluble. Not after it has dried anyway. And Jik just turns it black.

You sure you don't want the job?

I have 2 questions for you

1. Do you know her Mother in Person? Or she has an actor playing the role of a Mother.

I dont see why the Mother should be in support of all that is going on

2. Did you confirm she was truly Pregnant ; the first and second time.

wisdompeters35:


Thanks though, i am not a fool i made mistakes and i am willing and ready to learn from it and move on. i posted this story not because i could not keep it to myself, but because i want people learn from it and also get their opinions and advice so i and many others dont make such mistakes again. it has been a while though but i am now a better man mentally and spiritually. stay bless

WTH!

Your English has suddenly improved remarkably!

Hmm.

OK sha. Be careful. All the best.

[quote author=Maychang post=63473775]I have 2 questions for you

1. Do you know her Mother in Person? Or she has an actor playing the role of a Mother.

I dont see why the Mother should be in support of all that is going on

2. Did you confirm she was truly Pregnant ; the first and second time.

I. YES

2. FIRST NO, SECOND YES

dingbang:
I am tired

What are you tired of?

Prognose:


Lol, no blood is not water-soluble. Not after it has dried anyway. And Jik just turns it black.

You sure you don't want the job?

Are you a doctor? If we are talking blood here , I honestly can't stand it outside my own AF. But, if the JD remains about willing ears and non judgemental eyes...I'm in

sisisioge:


Are you a doctor? If we are talking blood here , I honestly can't stand it outside my own AF. But, if the JD remains about willing ears and non judgemental eyes...I'm in

There are some things that once heard can never be unheard. There are some things that disvirgin the eyes for evermore.

Until we meet again. Have a great morning

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wisdompeters35:
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