Akainzo:

Now I know where your barbarism comes from.

It is not only written but you should be able to read about it once you start to read the book yourself. The Holy Book is replete with instances where the Lords prophet had more than one wife.

So in essence if the man says it is for having children, then you accept that he can have more than one? 

The bolded part above tells me where the fountain of your reply came from and thus is understandable. However, I am educated enough to know the difference between emotions and reality. And my dear, the reality is simple a lady Prof would hold onto her husband and find it easier to forgive his infidelity than a guy prof would.

I presume you are educated and therefore would also assume that you would have learnt that with education comes different perspective of the same idea or theory, it doesn't make the other person less educated or in need of more education. Use the knowledge you acquired from the education you got.

davidylan:

Ok so she knows "a lot of non african people" and from there concludes that accepting cheating husbands is purely "african mentality". She has no reputable statistics to buttress the claim, no source to rely on . . . but she expects us to take her word for it . . .

and she's surprised folks wonder if she can think at all. What a shame.

queeneve:

Men are designed by nature to be territorial so when a man see his wife or woman touched by another man it triggers the BETRAYAL mode. It doesn't matter what level of betrayal it may be. But, if a woman is compromised then a man have a harder time to forgive and forget.

Women are designed to be nurturers so we more likely to forgive our cheating spouses than the male would. It a double standard that the society placed today. If a woman cheats, she a LovePeddler. If a man cheats, he is a MAN. WTF!

H2O2:

Lol ayettymama, you clown. What a shame!

luvbooks:

Dude, you were the one who claimed that the Holy Book is where you can find the reason why men find it harder to forgive than women do. You also said that women could only be faithful to one person but on the other hand men did not have to.
All I did is disprove your argument.
And I also dont see any reason why you should imply that women have more of a responsibility to be loyal to their partners. Your argument made me very angry so that would explain the emotion bit. Being educated does not stop you from getting angry. And by the way, your argument of knowing the difference between emotions and reality is a bit silly because emotions ARE a reality. No amount of education can change that.

Also how can you claim that several prophets had more than one wife and that means others should do the same? The same Bible says that "A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave unto this wife, and they shall become one flesh".  You cannot become ONE FLESH with several other people. A kingdom divided cannot stand.

Besides, prophets if you can remember correctly, was the Old Testament. Dont pick and choose principles of the Bible. You enjoy the salvation that Jesus gave us and the fact that he freed us from having to

Akainzo:

This is a function of how the Lord have created us all.

Check all through the holy books, it is written, no two men can share a woman; for there cannot be two captains in a boat.

The reason is simple, unto whom is the woman that has cheated loyal to? the husband or the boyfriend? A man cannot live not knowing that his wife is loyal to him.

A wife on the other hand has to be loyal to someone. She can decide to be loyal to the husband and thus forgive him and moves on, or can repudiate her loyalty to him and packs out of the house.


To also give you an insight, think of this two scenarios:
Scenario 1
A man walks into his house and sees a man on top of his woman/wife. What does the BF do?

Scenario 2
A woman walks into her house and sees her man on top of another woman. What does the GF do?

In scenario 1, the BF takes off immediately knowing that any delay could result in his death while in scenario 2, most times, there ensues a shouting match between GF and Madam.

What does the above outcomes tell you about how the Lord has made us? The above reactions are natural inbred instincts and have nothing to do with your nationality or religion.