madlady:


@Poster I just used those ladies as an example.

   Lots of peeps help each other, male to female, female to male.
   

eazyman:

@ JENI, what do you expect when a lady tells you that [b]she wont date a guy with less money than her? [/b]please dont bother convincing anyone to give as many wont buy your idea, especially ladies who feel its written that men should always be giving to them and not vice-versa, you obviously have a kind and generous heart and i want you to keep that up, just give when your conscience prompts you to do so.

queeneve:

The real men won't ask their women or wives for money.  They are naturally providers and it hurts their ego to ask a woman, a helpmate for money.  My fiance never asks me for money and one day I offer to take him out to dinner for a treat.  I pulled out my wallet to pay, his eyes went big and he curled his eyebrow.  I didn't know if a bug came out or what.  He motioned me to put my wallet back in my purse and said let him be the man.  I then realized that I "made" him feel lesser of a man.  I apologized and we were okay after that.  WHEW!

He felt the need to "lecture" me about man and the manhood thing.  I politely listened and thanked him.  


The whole point of my post is that REAL MEN don't ask their women or wives for anything.  IF they don't have it, then they go hunt for it.  

Chea!

queeneve:

The real men won't ask their women or wives for money.  They are naturally providers and it hurts their ego to ask a woman, a helpmate for money.  My fiance never asks me for money and one day I offer to take him out to dinner for a treat.  I pulled out my wallet to pay, his eyes went big and he curled his eyebrow.  I didn't know if a bug came out or what.  He motioned me to put my wallet back in my purse and said let him be the man.  I then realized that I "made" him feel lesser of a man.  I apologized and we were okay after that.  WHEW!

He felt the need to "lecture" me about man and the manhood thing.  I politely listened and thanked him.  


The whole point of my post is that REAL MEN don't ask their women or wives for anything.  IF they don't have it, then they go hunt for it.  

Chea!

ayettymama:

yes but theres no real men on this thread

ive said those exact same words b4 and it got me into trouble here!

let genny preach to the unfortunate women who cant get 'real men'!


oya ladies *rings bells* i declare unto u- to give give give

google the nearest money gram western union center

clear your bank accounts- your bobo's in nigeria must spend!

queeneve:

The real men won't ask their women or wives for money.  They are naturally providers and it hurts their ego to ask a woman, a helpmate for money.  My fiance never asks me for money and one day I offer to take him out to dinner for a treat.  I pulled out my wallet to pay, his eyes went big and he curled his eyebrow.  I didn't know if a bug came out or what.  He motioned me to put my wallet back in my purse and said let him be the man.  I then realized that I "made" him feel lesser of a man.  I apologized and we were okay after that.  WHEW!

He felt the need to "lecture" me about man and the manhood thing.  I politely listened and thanked him.  


The whole point of my post is that REAL MEN don't ask their women or wives for anything.  IF they don't have it, then they go hunt for it.  

Chea!

8inch+:

Op: As much as i agree with givin to peeps in need, one should avoid over doing it cos it can also have a negative effect on the person you are helping. As the saying goes "Give a man a fish, u'l feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and u'l feed him for life".

na2day?:

so REAL WOMEN always ask their men for anything. tomorrow u will complain about men's ego, when it comes to money, he should be a man, when it comes to he being domineering u complain, or him not showing emotions u complain.

queeneve:

Thanks!  I thank GOD every chance for my fiance.  He is not like them BEASTS over there.  He is truly a gem.  I tell him that all the time.  He is Nigerian and don't act like that.  THANK YOU, LORD!

queeneve:

Wasn't talking to you Na9ja,

Mind your business!

 Do not fight here plz

queeneve:

The real men won't ask their women or wives for money.  They are naturally providers and it hurts their ego to ask a woman, a helpmate for money.  My fiance never asks me

The whole point of my post is that REAL MEN don't ask their women or wives for anything.  IF they don't have it, then they go hunt for it.  

Siena:

A real man knows when he needs help, and if he feels comfortable enough with his girlfriend, he'll ask her for assistance.
A real man knows any relationship is about give and take.
A real man would date a real woman, comfortable in the knowledge if he was short for whatever reason, his girlfriend will come up trumps, and support him.
A real man lives in the real world, and knows that trends are changing. This is not 1975.

A real woman would financially assist her boyfriend, without him asking. She'd know without being prompted.

Most important - a real man can put pride aside, and admit to his girlfriend things are not as rosy as they could be, financially. There's no shame in it. A real man would ask his girlfriend for assistance first, before asking his mates or family. If he can't discuss finance with his girlfriend, who can he confide in?

jenibayo:

Plzzzzzzzzzz no insult here i beg una, honey pls dont insult.

Siena:

A real man knows when he needs help, and if he feels comfortable enough with his girlfriend, he'll ask her for assistance.
A real man knows any relationship is about give and take.
A real man would date a real woman, comfortable in the knowledge if he was short for whatever reason, his girlfriend will come up trumps, and support him.
A real man lives in the real world, and knows that trends are changing. This is not 1975.

A real woman would financially assist her boyfriend, without him asking. She'd know without being prompted.

Most important - a real man can put pride aside, and admit to his girlfriend things are not as rosy as they could be, financially. There's no shame in it. A real man would ask his girlfriend for assistance first, before asking his mates or family. If he can't discuss finance with his girlfriend, who can he confide in?

real man knows when he needs help, and if he feels comfortable enough with his girlfriend, he'll ask her for assistance.
A real man knows any relationship is about give and take.
A real man would date a real woman, comfortable in the knowledge if he was short for whatever reason, his girlfriend will come up trumps, and support him.
A real man lives in the real world, and knows that trends are changing. This is not 1975.

A real woman would financially assist her boyfriend, without him asking. She'd know without being prompted.

Most important - a real man can put pride aside, and admit to his girlfriend things are not as rosy as they could be, financially. There's no shame in it. A real man would ask his girlfriend for assistance first, before asking his mates or family. If he can't discuss finance with his girlfriend, who can he confide in?

queeneve:

Odia, I thought I told you to jump off something?!! You still here?

queeneve:

Na2day,

You should have been took your arse to bed!  GOOD RIDDANCE!