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What Were You Doing In An Empty Room, The First Question To Ask A Rape Victim? by Lilzmalcolm(m): 4:52pm On Jan 15, 2018 |
part 2. If we are the most vehement propagators of travelling with a mahram, then it doesn’t align with our ideas that we search for holes to pick on in rape stories. We can learn and warn others from a victim’s mistake, but if we really hope to see her get back to living a normal life, we must not make picking on her own mistakes the first thing we do when we listen to her.The feeling it wrenches in her is that she deserved to be raped because of the mistake. Does anyone deserve to be raped? Well, I think it is time we stopped thinking of rape as solely being the victim's fault, meanwhile, she deserves little to nothing of the blame. None of us would plead guilty to the charge, but are we not really guilty of it? How many parents teach their boys how bad and brazen it is to rape? They only teach the girls how to dress chastely and not stay out late to avoid being raped. it shows that we believe that rape is all about the girl, if she dresses chastely and adheres strictly to Allah's laws, she doesn’t get raped, but if she doesn’t, she forces an’innocent’ boy into a precarious situation where the only way out is to rape her, meanwhile, we boys should be taught simultaneously not to rape. A good example: A muslim is ordered to lower his gaze while the Muslimah is ordered to dress chastely (simultaneously), but if the Muslimah fails to comply, does that then permits the man to look at her lustrously? and if he does that, does the severity of his punishment plummet because the lady failed to dress appropriately? If it is as it is, then we have a long way to go with our kids, for what but sound knowledge of Islam instills in them that righteousness that suppresses the natural will to rape? Someone would say it is not natural, but this article is for theists. Nextperson! Abdurrahman Alhasan Adedokun. (Lan Rey Hasan) |
Re: What Were You Doing In An Empty Room, The First Question To Ask A Rape Victim? by Awesomeking: 3:27pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
It saddens me whenever i hear people say such things,i once came across a post concerning a rape video and such comments like "what is she doing in his house" and "she shouldn't have dressed immorally" flood the place..its crazy-i see girls dressed in barely nothing walk past the street everyday-its nothing,its the girls choice to wear whatever she chooses,wether shez a muslim or christian doesnt matter-the male however has a choice too,he either minds his freaking business and keeps on going or he behaves foolishly by having forceful intercourse with her-the case is even worsened by the laws guiding this issue,-its obvious that if medical reports prove that the man really did have forceful intercourse with her then the maximum punishment should be the death penalty..but our sick � country is too backward to focus on the important issues affecting women and children |
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