ravenzord:

Hehe, 190 really doesn't know when to stop.

i wonder o. . . .

Mhismole:

haha for why? what will breaking the head do? that cant stop him from cheating. . .

"cept you'r talking about another 'head' . . .

googles:

i caught my ex red-handed on top of his ex in his place and i was like "waoh". . . . . i walked out as jejely as i walked in even helped the e-diots to close

the door and i went straight to my house to cook rice even tho' i just left the school canteen, buh i just had to keep myself busy so my mind would be

with me. . . . . . he came with his bestie to beg me dat night nd i offered dem rice     his besty was giving me a queer look like "wtf is wrong with you ?

rake or bring down the roof lets see some emotion" but truth is i was too numb to do anything.

googles:

i caught my ex red-handed on top of his ex in his place and i was like "waoh". . . . . i walked out as jejely as i walked in even helped the e-diots to close

the door and i went straight to my house to cook rice even tho' i just left the school canteen, buh i just had to keep myself busy so my mind would be

with me. . . . . . he came with his bestie to beg me dat night nd i offered dem rice     his besty was giving me a queer look like "wtf is wrong with you ?

rake or bring down the roof lets see some emotion" but truth is i was too numb to do anything.

InesQor:

I will drag a chair closer and sit down and watch them.

Of course the guy will scramble and leave - only without his clothes - I and my dogs will make sure of that.

Then I and my wife will have a talk.

The contents of the talk is none of y'allz business. 

P.S. If it was my girlfriend, it's definitely over. Sorry. Wife? We will make things work.

kemisuga:

Will jump inside the well.  No no just kidding.
Will clap for him and tell him to enjoy himself. 

L I F E IS GOOD - SO ENJOY TILL YOU BREAK DOWN!!!!

ayettymama:

@poster

if u believe its inevitable a man cheating

then why would u bother to do anything abt it??

by your own logic, that will simply be a waste of time!!

i weep for nigerians!

sigidi:

i wonder[b] y ppl think men can't do without cheatin,[/b] dere r guys out dere who don't.  @ topic well i dont kno if dere's a best way but for me, i'll delete all d memories we shared if u kno wat i mean n in no time i'm all good to go.

InesQor:

By your logic

Does this also mean that since it's inevitable to have malaria in Nigeria

then one should not bother to protect themselves against it?

Or plan for the eventuality of dealing with it?

Even if one does not expect to be knocked down by malaria every week?

Scratch the analogy above. I'm trying to explain that inevitability does not mean one should be taken unawares.

That is, an "inevitable" circumstance does not mean one should not prepare for it.

In fact, being inevitable is GOOD REASON to prepare for something because then you will know what to do in the certain outcomes.

P.S. For the record, I don't believe cheating is inevitable. I, for one, can not.

I think the OP was just saying it offhandedly to mean there's a chance, a possibility that must be captured and dealt with to prevent making yourself an emotional wreck if it does happen.

Mhismole link=topic=430154.msg5895758#msg5895758]
I have always wondered and pondered on this. S[b]ince it is inevitable that men would cheat[/b], then its surely goin to happen to me. iv seen soo many reactions lol, some women scream the place down, some quietly walk away, some lock up the bedroom door for days. None of them seemed to work tho, as the guys are STILL cheating. What would be the most effective reaction then?? How would you even react to such a thing?
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did u see that??

a most effective reaction to what?? show how much ur hurt??

if u think something will definitely happen to you then why will u try and stop it??

InesQor go back on op posts

i seriously dont get wat u mean, are we trying to prevent or are we trying to find the best screenplay to go??

[quote author=InesQor:

@ayettymama:
If the OP says a man will inevitably cheat on her, then in my opinion it is the BEST option to JUST as well prepare for the event! How does this differ from a person who says "Most men in Botswana (just saying) are HIV+ so if I must go and roll in the hay there, must I not wear a condom"?

Prevention is putting the best foot forward, and so EVEN if the OP says it is inevitable, it is only clear logic that this must be the reason why she wants to know how to deal with it!

"In her brain the man has done the deed", you say, but we both know its not like that. There are things you FEAR in your heart, but when they actually happen in reality, you're another person. Fearing something and being prepared to deal with its happenstance are two different things.

Mhismole:

^^^
that sounds highly sensible, thanks

Errr. . .surely??

CuteAngel:

@Post
Do nothing, if you caught them pants down just walk away jejely nothing spoil, don't shed your precious tears for any man.

baconline:

Please note that men are naturally serial monogamist,it takes the grace of God to find a man who has never cheated on his wife. My advice try not to think about it.MARRIAGE IN OUR CUSTOM FAVOURS THE MEN.
He enjoys the thrill of sleeping with a new face whether uglier or more beutiful than his wife

baconline:

Please note that men are naturally serial monogamist,it takes the grace of God to find a man who has never cheated on his wife. My advice try not to think about it.MARRIAGE IN OUR CUSTOM FAVOURS THE MEN.
He enjoys the thrill of sleeping with a new face whether uglier or more beutiful than his wife