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Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by deluxecad(m): 5:33pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
If it's my galfriend, I'll man up to d dude(if he's someone I can handle) poking her and deliver several painful jabs to his cheek for straying into a croc's territory. I'll go home and help myself to some chilled cans of Guinness. I'll play along with my girl as soon as she apologises, but she'll never make it to the altar with me after I must have had enough of her I'd love to. If na my wife, she'd better start going to her father's house from there. No scenes will be created. After providing her all she needs. She has all d blames, not her cheating mate. |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Mhismole(f): 6:15pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
ayettymama: OK. Let me simmer it down for you. I have heard that all men cheat. If this is true, then one man would eventually cheat on me. What can be done to stop it from happening[b] twice? [/b] get it now?? kpolli: Lol not just women alone. I would actually love to hear a guy's view. deluxecad: keep your cool? and then what? what happens after the test results come out? say they are negative. how do stop him/her from doin it again? |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by chamotex(m): 6:18pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
What constitutes cheating sef? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by kizito902(m): 6:32pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
i just have to forgive her. ive cheated on her before.maybe na me cause am to do me back ;( |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ayettymama(f): 6:35pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Mhismole: no not at all, uve even made it worst, wats the difference between him cheating once and cheating again? |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Spyker: 6:41pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Men and Women cheat, only that Men cheat opening (i.e. never covers their tracks) while women cheat discretely and secretly. Men can be liken to dogs, they want to do it anywhere, anytime, anyday. You see then on the streets, parks, roadside, markets, church, they are always ready to cheat at the slightest opportunity. Women on the other hand can be liken to cats. I have never seen a cat mating but they always give birth to many kittens. They are very secretive, you handly see them, every woman is always a potential virgin once approach by a man for the first time. So, the best way to react if you see your spouse cheating depends on the individuals involve. Some ladies get beaten up by the men, some men's properties like electronics, cars are destroyed by the women. Some react violently while others non-violent. It surely depends on upbringing. For me, i will call it quits and try to recover from the shock. Also, i might forgive her depending on my state of mind. Thirdly, i will start a fresh relationship (as backup) even though i have forgiven her and i will do it openly so that she knows that i am really planning on dumping her if she fu-ucks up again. |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Mhismole(f): 6:49pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
ayettymama: A lot. Once could be a mistake, twice exasperating, thrice. . .you'r on your own. kizito902: LMAO! i like how you said that. . .but i dont think you should let her know she's free because you cheated on her before. The child that the father instructed to steal will not sneak in, he will kick the door open. chamotex: That hasn't even being established concretely. I think its when i'm giving you my 'all' and you cheat me by sharing your's with some one else. |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ibabalol: 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
stone yourself to death ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by chamotex(m): 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Mhismole: What if I only had the thought of 'sharing' 'it' with some one else? Is that cheating? |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Mhismole(f): 6:59pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
chamotex: God has a reason for looking at hearts. If you'r already considering it, then its only a matter of time before it happens. Your mind is your motivator, your personal adviser, your action-generator. So you thinking it is as good as you doing it. ibabalol: Chai! na so the love be? loooool |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by AYODEJI4LOVE(m): 7:05pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
for me ooo.i wi make sure she notice i caught them.guess what i will do next.well i will then pretend as if i did not see anything&start relating wit her d normal way.i wi even go 2 d extent of being exceptionally nice 2 her and calin her those sweet names.wen her conscience start disturbin her she wi burst out.if she did not i wi make her fall so deeply in lov wit me by showin her much care den i wi revenge by letin her notice anoda girl wit me |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by chamotex(m): 7:10pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Mhismole: So all my fantasies with Halle Berry and Naomi Ryan are acts of cheating? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm soooo sorry ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Mhismole(f): 7:14pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
chamotex: LMAO. You're not well lol. I forgot to say, it has to be "REALISTIC!!!" |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ayettymama(f): 7:17pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Mhismole: interesting, so ur anticipating ur husband making an inevitable mistake clap for yaself ![]() ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by AYODEJI4LOVE(m): 7:35pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
lol.yeah.guess wat i wi do.i wi make sure she is aware i caught them and i wi just say nothing.after this i wi start being exertionally caring 4 her unti i notice she her conscience has start punishing her.if her conscience did not punish her 2 d extent i want i wi punish her by leting her notice anoda girl wi me thou noting may not b btw i and dat girl |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by msb247(m): 7:53pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
@POSTER, WHO THA HELL TOLD U CHEATING BY MEN IS INEVITABLE? JST because SOME DID SHOULD NT MEAN ALL WILL DO! ![]() ![]() ![]() ANYWAY, IF I WAS A LADY ND MY MAN CHEATS ON ME, I WONT GET VIOLENT BUT FILL IN D GAP COZ STH MUST DEFINITELY B MISSING SOMEWHERE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by donpaulo(m): 8:17pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
try and act cool and collected, BUT SHE GOES THEREAFTER, you can sure take this to the bank. |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by deneut: 8:25pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
is no news,men have been cheatin startin 4rm our forefathers,women too are not laggin behind.am very sure if there have been many people on earth in d days of adam&eve quess d rest.y do we feel cheated? 1.each and every one of us wants to have somethin they can call their own. 2.the feelins of belongin somewhere. 3.to be loved. in dis this life nothing is so sure.we are all flesh and we will remain like dat till kingdom come. think abt hw many times we have wronged God,but when it comes to humane we flip,scatter hell. @op 4 me,i will jus walk away,one day when am gone,someone is goin to have her,she hasnt wronged me but no complain if i do likewise |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by mrkoma2012: 8:46pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
Can forgive but forgetting is a different issue |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ayettymama(f): 9:16pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
deneut: yes man has been disobeying since adam murdering since cain conning since jacob betraying since judas hoing since jezebel the list can seriously go on so,because our ancestors did it , does it make it right? |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by rman: 10:19pm On Apr 15, 2010 |
I have read several posts on cheating on Nairaland and everytime someone raises the topic some people come out to kick against this reality among us. Yes, not all men and women cheat, but beleive me the chances that it is going to happen to you is very, very high. If you catch your spouse cheating? What better way to punish the person than to leave quietly after the discovery. If they still have a little conscience, he/she will come begging. What you do afterwards is up to you. If they don't come begging , don't bother asking yourself why. Realy it is a no win situation if you deeply care for them. As for me, IT IS OVER. The image can't be erased from my mind lai lai. |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by peruso: 1:10am On Apr 16, 2010 |
190: naaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh i tink cheap drugs |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Mhismole(f): 2:10am On Apr 16, 2010 |
rman: LOOL!! ok then, leave for a little while. note taken. ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Bardic: 8:19am On Apr 16, 2010 |
Its too painful to know ur girl is cheating on you especially when u are nt doing d same 2 her.As for me because she has the mind 2do that to me i wil equally have the heart to ZIP HER UP.you know how am going 2 do that i will open her legs exposing that thing that she can nt control nd pour a conc. Liquid gum inside lets see how she wil cheat again |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ayettymama(f): 10:50am On Apr 16, 2010 |
you guys are funny you talk like cheating is easy like a man will walk out of his matrimonial house and standing outside will be a woman ready to sleep with him!! i laff in chinese |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by DAVE5(m): 11:01am On Apr 16, 2010 |
@topic. The best solution is 2 tie ur man down with african magic or else cheating cant be stopped,he likes variety remember.Hahaha |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by denony(m): 12:06pm On Apr 16, 2010 |
CRY, CRY AND CRY UNTILL TEARS REFUSE TO GOSH OUT. DON'T STOP CRYING UNTIL HE FEEL THE TEARS |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by Alxmyr(m): 12:11pm On Apr 16, 2010 |
deluxecad: And if it is you? |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by LETDEMSAY(f): 4:12pm On Apr 16, 2010 |
Love (marriage) is a game in which one always cheats. ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Way To React If You Found Your Spouse Cheating? by ddiamond(f): 4:52pm On Apr 16, 2010 |
if is my bf,wel i can decide 2 take a walk bt hubby i cant jst trust me again. |
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