ReadyMan:

My answer has a slant to this question.

A woman can spot a good man by being
of good character herself. Let her good
virtues spot her. Period!

there's a bigger question to this: are there any good women around these days?

Hi, we all are good, we all are bad. The way you make your bed , u lie on it. Most ladies do not work for it and want to get the best for us. Try on…………………… You will get one . Good luck. I’m equally available for you to try!!!

i have a good man,if you are interested call me on 08081387234.

simple,
1, is it happy/bold walk on the street with you?
2, his He ashamed of intrducing U 2 his friends?
3, Does he have other girls he keeps around and called sweet names?
4,His He always say "MY mother SAY,MY FATHER  SAY"
5,His afraid of committment?
6,when you asked Him a simple QUESTION {like where are u last night?} does he become angry?
7,Does he want too stay around you always?
8, When he talks his always about himself? e.g
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pioneer1, sweetmum,
you two are getting us confused. which one of you we go choose now?

George D my brother, I never seen he cats in action before ohh, and they are no different with the she cats; but He goats, Hey, you go see beard beard, you go see long thing, you go see ugliness, you go see aggression even whey him mama no want do. No be small thing oh

Pioneer1 is absolutely correct, that is it. Most women want men in a car without knowing that somebody was behind them when they were working hard

Sorry to be jumpin' in here so late, but I just saw the thread. A sure way to spot a good man is during that time of the month!

If he sniffs you out --- not what you're thinkin' --- but if he picks up on you when you probably feel the worst with water gain, bloating, and mood changes,

he's probably a good catch!

jenivert:

Sorry to be jumpin' in here so late, but I just saw the thread. A sure way to spot a good man is during that time of the month!

If he sniffs you out --- not what you're thinkin' --- but if he picks up on you when you probably feel the worst with water gain, bloating, and mood changes,

he's probably a good catch!

no wonder ppl like u fall flat for i.d.i.o.t.s! i guess i can spot a good woman if she likes sports, right? or is willing to pick after me when i throw socks and clothes on the floor during dating, right?

I don't believe there is such a thing as a gud man, cos if there was all married people would still be waiting for "THE ONE" and so will all these youngsters who think thinking of the ideal man is to break up with every guy that doesn't fit into that category. Life throws different kind of people at you, look for whomever you Love, when I say Love I mean having patience, virtue, and endurance with prayers also to make it work no matter what. Love is sacrifice, if you really put that person into prayers, no matter how 'bad' the person is, they will change by force by fire!

It really depends on what you mean by good guys. If you want to call a guy who would always agree to your opinions, good, then you must be the most selfish gal in you village. No relationship can be perfect, so don't go living in the Romeo and Juliet fantacy. Keep it real baby.

jenivert:

Sorry to be jumpin' in here so late, but I just saw the thread. A sure way to spot a good man is during that time of the month!

If he sniffs you out --- not what you're thinkin' --- but if he picks up on you when you probably feel the worst with water gain, bloating, and mood changes,

he's probably a good catch!

jenivert,
your method is quite unique!

How Can A Woman Spot A Good Man? Be a good woman yourself, and believe it or not, a good man will love you without having had intimacy with you. Courtesans provide that sinful service already! But the key thing is that a good guy must be honest and seen to be honest with you.

[jenivert,
your method is quite unique!]

george d thanks , i admit that my method is unique
but if a man can stand to see a woman during 'that time' he has to be a keeper!

Ayettymama,
This is really a nice thread. Even though a lot of guys would have preferred the question was asked the other way round. But somehow, nature seems predispose to the guys, such that when they seem to have made wrong choices, they could easily reverse them. But indeed ‘a good man’ faces difficulties in reversing a wrong choice of wife.
Ayettymama, sincerely there are still very good men that will not disappoint in any aspect of living. Although, these days, even a good man acts deceitfully, hiding his essential qualities so as to be acceptable. But you hardly will find good men amongst those who lack in-depth knowledge and determination to comply with the “WORD”, (bible), especially that from our Lord Jesus Christ. Although, you seem not too pleased with this notion, but it surely supersedes all, because ‘LOVE’ is the greatest commandment given to mankind. Pure and undiluted love that is unconditional.
If you want to know a good man, study anyone of interest rigorously and ask questions about him from several people that might know him, even, perhaps from childhood if possible. In your conversation with him, know his opinion about other people: family members, friends, enemies, and people around. Please be nice to him, irrespective of his status (rich, poor, executive or jobless), so that he can be comfortable to reveal his real self. Also, I know of more importance to you, know his opinion about romance.
Answers to the questions above and many others, most likely will determine for you, who is a good man if they are processed

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correctly. I have read quite a number of your contributions and you appeal to me as intelligent but you also seem a stickler to some general social principles that may tend to limit the adequate use of that priceless gift you possess (intelligence).
Then last but not the least, when you might have found him, make your decision based on less fleeting qualities.

jenivert:


george d thanks , i admit that my method is unique
but if a man can stand to see a woman during 'that time' he has to be a keeper!

some men could still put up with a woman at 'that time' and yet be having their fill on the side.

from george d
some men could still put up with a woman at 'that time' and yet be having their fill on the side. 

 

Don't I know that to be the truth especially when it comes to men, but of course I'm not talking about you (those other men) !

from na2day no wonder ppl like u fall flat for i.d.i.o.t.s! i guess i can spot a good woman if she likes sports, right? or is willing to pick after me when i throw socks and clothes on the floor during dating, right?

of course you can, any woman who is willing to put up with you and your dirty socks is a sure keeper, especially on a date. FYI I am no i.d.i.o.t.

jenivert:



of course you can, any woman who is willing to put up with you and your dirty socks is a sure keeper, especially on a date. FYI I am no i.d.i.o.t.

nobody said u are an i.d.i.o.t. as for the woman that picks after a man during a date dont mean she will do that after the wedding

from na2day nobody said u are an i.d.i.o.t. as for the woman that picks after a man during a date dont mean she will do that after the wedding

I appreciate you clarifying your comment. Of course this is true as there is no real guarantee that that women will continue to pick up dirty socks after the wedding. People do pretend to be who they are not in the beginning.

But I didn't do that, My philosophy is ' what you see is what you get'.

so_realguy:

Ayettymama,
This is really a nice thread.

why thank you- finally some appreciation
i dont understand why people like to deny facts
men and women can be very ingenuine- its part of what u learn in life
like the poster above me says people pretend to be what they are not
and its not even rare to see!

it's difficult except u lucky

@davidylan ur comment on page 1

i love that, thats true isnt it.

idifu:

it's difficult except u lucky

you really think so??-- thats a shame

^^Did i hear u say"Bible thumpers r not allowed". .u no sabi something. .u r dead without d Bible. .
The Bible contains reliable principles 2 help us cope with life's problems. .A book of practical wisdom. . . . .so . . . . .

In stripclubs, Brothels, Prisons, Slums and other beautiful places.

no1madman:

^^Did i hear u say"Bible thumpers r not allowed". .u no sabi something. .u r dead without d Bible. .
The Bible contains reliable principles 2 help us cope with life's problems. .A book of practical wisdom. . . . .so . . . . .

says the no1 madman!!

lol well i didnt want it to be turned to a religous debate

i wanted it to be practical- athiests still meet genuine love dont they??

so why cant one have a discussion without turnin it into bible study?

johnterry4:

[size=16pt]GOD WILL NEVER LET A BAD WOMAN SPOT A GOOD MAN.PERIOD.[/size]

amen 2 dat
so u got b good 2 spot d man of ur life
magazines can help

jenivert:

I appreciate you clarifying your comment. Of course this is true as there is no real guarantee that that women will continue to pick up dirty socks after the wedding. People do pretend to be who they are not in the beginning.

But I didn't do that, My philosophy is ' what you see is what you get'.

jenivert,
you'll need to be a transparent glass for that your philosophy to be true.

@poster,
Its not that hard actually, a genuine woman will suss out genuine guy easily. Likewise the fake ones will always end up with the players(rightly so in my opinion)

You can't spot a good man period.
Some good men have turned bad.
Some bad men have turned good.

You take your chances and go with the flow.
Hope for the best.

The definition of a good man is one with a conscience. Not many men have it.
Look around you.

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