God will bless you OP


Don't be in a haste you will surely make it some day

may God show you the way

You won't be happy as long as you remain in the Army. Take that bold step, follow your dream though it will be challenging but you will definitely pull through.

Resign baby

EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

You didn't mention the country's army. But if is US army must mange. If it's Nigeria army, Bros run when running, let your leg be touching the back of your head.

Almost a similar experience with me right now. In fact mine is worst. If you were in my shoes you probably wouldn't be living by now.

Lol, and the love of my life is in the military. It is well.

Damfostopper:
Hmmmmmm life anagaga.... the same army I want to join via dssc

Oga run for your life o.

Damfostopper:
Hmmmmmm life anagaga.... the same army I want to join via dssc

Oga run for your life o.

EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

Have you thought of applying for study leave? Like 5 years with pay? Try it. Then come back and work on getting commissioned though if you are a southerner in this dispensation, it will be very hard indeed.
By then, you would have passed the 10 year mark. If they don't commission you, drop the uniform. At least you will be collecting pension. Then you can pursue your dream or start a security company. There are many short courses in South Africa run by Israelis that teach security skills and other stuff used by ex combatants.

Blackwater in the US was setup by an ex marine. Personnel have all had some military experience. They provide security for embassies and logistics for refugee food and stuff, all paid for in millions of dollars.

See your time in the army as a time to pick up skills that may not benefit you india mike mike in terms of money or promotion, but will feed u later. Skills in weapons and tactics, recce, surveillance, tracking, int, etc.

Do a lot of research. You will have a reason to live and you will not mind the present stress. It is a means to an end.

Thank me later.

There is nothing like doing what you love most, what you enjoy doing most and making money through it.

Resign from the Army and pursue your dream, it's only then your life will have a meaning!

resign and cross to industrial security(chief security Officer) . before you resign if possible apply for professional security courses . you will thank me later

taylor89:




The worst is the country he's fighting for doesn't care about him in life and death









Oga carry your two left legs commot from the Army

and when leaves hope u will replace him

taylor89:




Oga officer run for your dear life with your two slippers on your hand before Shekau and APC Nigeria Ltd locates you








I rather die on top of woman in a hotel with my Diick standing erect than die as a soldier



I love you bro

ur family will be really proud of u fool

Emmysteve:
Almost a similar experience with me right now. In fact mine is worst. If you were in my shoes you probably wouldn't be living by now.

Does it mean you can be dead?

stagger:


Have you thought of applying for study leave? Like 5 years with pay? Try it. Then come back and work on getting commissioned though if you are a southerner in this dispensation, it will be very hard indeed.
By then, you would have passed the 10 year mark. If they don't commission you, drop the uniform. At least you will be collecting pension. Then you can pursue your dream or start a security company. There are many short courses in South Africa run by Israelis that teach security skills and other stuff used by ex combatants.

Blackwater in the US was setup by an ex marine. Personnel have all had some military experience. They provide security for embassies and logistics for refugee food and stuff, all paid for in millions of dollars.

See your time in the army as a time to pick up skills that may not benefit you india mike mike in terms of money or promotion, but will feed u later. Skills in weapons and tactics, recce, surveillance, tracking, int, etc.

Do a lot of research. You will have a reason to live and you will not mind the present stress. It is a means to an end.

Thank me later.

Don't you know he's a RECRUIT and will not learn all those things.
Only the big boys in NDA have such opportunity.

EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

your problem is you are in the military and want to be living like civilians, why not apply noun and get ur degree tactically then u are good to go

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EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

relate with your ogas and obtain a study leave. Make sure you hold something to fall back on before you comot o. Make hunger no wire you later. I know some soldiers wey dey go school

taylor89:
Hmmm



Bro i feel ur pain and i know 90% of those in the Army was due to unemployment



Now I've two questions to ask theee...



Are you among those that killed the armless IPOB agitators?



Are you in the military to intimate the civilians?


If non of the above then God will hear your cry


If you are involved in the number one above then there's a thunder currently drinking dry gin in Ejigbo waiting to do the needful


If you are free my only advice for you is to find a way and shoot BUHARI and run away



You will be handsomely rewarded here on earth and in heaven


Thanks

terrorist

If you had managed to achieve what you wanted to achieve by being in the army you would not feel this way right?
What if you had gone and done what you had hopped to do and it had not worked out I will hazard a guess and say these feelings would most likely manifest regardless.
You are depressed and in a depressed state of mind it’s very difficult to look at circumstances. You have a job at a time when most do not. Is it the job that you wanted? No! How are you going to change your circumstances run away? Or leave? If you leave how are you goong to support yourself? And are you being realistic to your self?

Get treatment for how you feel and then when you are
able to be more perceptive plan how you want to live post army life. Many are in situations that they don’t want to be, it’s purely necessity.

Keep trying to end your life and one day you might suceed there is no coming back from that or worse you might fail and end up with more physical health issues/ paralysis who will take care of you then? And where will the money come from? Our situations don’t change us we change our situations.

It is well with you in Jesus name. Please email me at: inspirationlot@gmail.com for more free private counsel. You may also wish to visit our website: inspirationmood.com

Blessings!

Emmysteve:
Almost a similar experience with me right now. In fact mine is worst. If you were in my shoes you probably wouldn't be living by now.

Everyone has tough time, if you see me today and I share my past you will never believe me. You will call me a big liar but what you need to succeed in life is to believe in yourself and pursue your dream.

Una wey say apply for study leave... U think say na beans ni. If na like that, Army go hungry u.

The Ogas will not release u. It only takes God's grace....

OP i dont know what to say to you but i know how you feel. Whateva your descion, just take a bold step.

taylor89:
Hmmm



Bro i feel ur pain and i know 90% of those in the Army was due to unemployment



Now I've two questions to ask theee...



Are you among those that killed the armless IPOB agitators?



Are you in the military to intimate the civilians?


If non of the above then God will hear your cry


If you are involved in the number one above then there's a thunder currently drinking dry gin in Ejigbo waiting to do the needful


If you are free my only advice for you is to find a way and shoot BUHARI and run away



You will be handsomely rewarded here on earth and in heaven


Thanks

You don't have to take everything for jokes.
After you blindly read that he joined the army with the aim of furthering his education
And you still went ahead to type gibberish because of 'likes'...

It's well

U can only enjoy d military as a commissioned officers

Rank and files are wack

Study leave is not eazy infact hw won't b granted study leave


I was once in his shoe

A friend of mine is also facing same issue. A very bright and intelligent student when we were in secondary school. After secondary school, his dad died, things went south and he couldn't continue with his education. He had no choice than to join the army as a recruit. He is always complaining and thinking of how to leave the work. To him, he said the work is just the typical "monkey dey work, babbon dey chop" Only the senior officers, enjoy military. He said he cant advise any bright student that has a future to join Nigeria Army through the recruit cadre.

taylor89:




Oga officer run for your dear life with your two slippers on your hand before Shekau and APC Nigeria Ltd locates you








I rather die on top of woman in a hotel with my Diick standing erect than die as a soldier



I love you bro

EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

I will give u a quote "u are the only one who can create the life u deserve"
The day understand that quote u will change ur life for the best.

I don't dilly dally about issue if it mind or heart isn't into it i drop it that very minute or start the work towards my exit from such pursuit and go for wat i really want or have a passion for. Life is filled with choices and ur choices becomes ur life. Why commit suicide when u have other choices b4 u. I don't know the process of leaving the military bt its obvious thats wat u shud do 1st and then find a newer and fulfilling life for urself.

Very small decisions people have made that have changed the course of their lives for the best because they made the best choices! Dats all

Its either u work u way to becoming an officer if dats wat u desire or leave completely and pursue another vision and u will see u life change b4 ur very eyes. Always know wat u want and begin that journey by taking rite choices amd working towards it. I had the opportunity of joining the military bt i turned it down cos i knew the direction my life wud be going and it was off my plans. So start living ur life now. Cheers

Nb: if u Read books i will recommend a great book to u that cud change ur life and clear ur confusion.

Bros but wen I was in uni, I do see some army officers come to my sch to study na. Cnt u work n sch at the same time?
Naija hard, b4 u resign, u don save money for uni wahala?