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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Delivar(m): 11:19pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
Papiikush:Na because you get display photo ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:19pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
BecaciaBarbie:u learn to read and write in primary school not uni |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Pangea: 11:22pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
My brother, you don't realize the opportunity that life handed you? Every journey of a man is for a reason! My advice for you is to curate your experience and the experience of your fellow soldiers and write a blockbuster book! Hollywood will soon aproach you to turn your book into a movie! Okonjo Iweala's son that had never experience combat wrote a book by watching Liberian civil war, the book was turned into an award winning movie, Beast of no nation! Abeg, write a book and sell it to netflix, they will turn it into a movie and you will be rich and famous! 2 Likes |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by kapelvej: 11:26pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
EmmaJohn12345:in box me. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Soteriahascome: 11:27pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
I won't even advise a friend to join Nigerian army. I can only advise an enemy to join through dssc or any other advanced way. And if e no bi airforce no join ooo ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by obidaddy: 11:27pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
stagger: Thank you for the wonderful response. I can see you are a service man. But Op may naturally not have no flair whatsoever for basic infantry skills, talk more of recce et al. As has been earlier advised, he should consider study leave by hook or crook, plan his schedule well with discipline and study rigorously. Get admission into higher institution, and if possible get to the 10 years mark to guarantee him pension which would help sustain him while he find his feet. Skills like video editing and video making he can also acquire and build good rapport with civilians in the field he hopes to practice. Yomi Sars comes to mind, he is a police officer and also into show biz. Op think well and pray hard even fast for God to help you make the right decision. I am glad you survived Boko haram, but i pray you act fast before you are deployed back to north east or other flash points. Soldiers are being killed like chickens anyhow lately. The earlier you leave the better. Peace be with you sir. 2 Likes |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:29pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
BecaciaBarbie: So u termed a whole 12yrs of vigorous studies. 1 Like
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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BdorianGray(m): 11:38pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
doyinbaby: Was ganna ask same... Very good question. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by greatbuc(m): 11:43pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
For a country like this! I actually pity not fear our soldiers. Just like hunger games what this country is turning into. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by XX01(f): 11:46pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
Take study leave and go to school. I had classmates like that. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BdorianGray(m): 11:47pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Rannie...imagine the long epistle riddled with "grammer" wey u dey write for d poor Guy...This one no go confuse am more.. Is this meant to be some G&C session or what... Be careful oh... |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by dmostcheerful(f): 11:52pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
taylor89: Hahahahahaha, you are so damn naught. This got me rolling on the floor ��� 1 Like |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Mobsync(m): 11:55pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
EmmaJohn12345: You already know your problem. All you need is to turn away and leave. It will be hard especially if you have no source of income, job and skills. Family members can help you out too but not forever. I was hoping to apply for SSC when it comes out this year and become a commissioned officer but I have already changed my mind about that. I can only go for the shortlisting but it will just be for the fun of it. I won't go even if I am shortlisted. The Nigerian Armed Forces and paramilitary especially the Army and Police are too messed up for the NCOs. Even the so-called officers especially the junior ranks without strong godfathers and top-ranking parents are not finding it easy. One more thing: Ignore those IPOB dudes. All they do all day is trolling around and constituting a nuisance to themselves and the forum. 1 Like |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by YoungDaddyB: 11:59pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
honestly, leave the army but save something because when you come to the real world, it's a little harsh actually a lot harsh. my advice start a barbing saloon, mtn business, provision store just something that can hold you while you're unemployed because if you don't your adding fuel to the suicide. after starting up a small business, don't rush into acting, take your time now that you are fully invested in gunning for acting, remove all distrations, like drugs, alcohol, too much girls, negative friends, cut down on sex , excessive spending and re-strategize your life because your starting all over. follow actors and show biz people that inspire you and learn from them, watch a lot of movies and learn more acting both from local and foreign films. go for auditions every day but don't over do it because it can bring back the depression. when anybody tells you you're crazy for your life decisions, just say to you're self, I know who I am, only the lens of the camera sees accurately the picture it wants to capture. so see your picture and go for it. if you're a christian I won't tell you to go to church all day but talk to God once in while and have friends that have similar visions and dreams like you. Goodluck and God see you tru 2 Likes |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Coolgent(m): 12:01am On Mar 21, 2018 |
taylor89:this comment may take u to jail. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Lifesummary: 12:05am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Young man listen up, I joined army few years before you, with same intention as yours but it didn't work as I intended, I tried to secure study leave, no connection, I managed to gain admission in a nearby polytechnic (school of evening studies, spat) they frustrated me with outside duties until I went to peacekeeping mission in Liberia, came back then tried to leave, they said no, me said yes and left in peace. It is a crime to leave without proper procedures but my brother Army won't look for you as long as you didn't runaway with there rifle, and you maintain a peaceful lifestyle that won't result into investigation of any kind. You are too young in the job, they won't accept your resignation now, except you are willing to wait for 10 years (or there about) in service before submitting your resignation letter. Army work is not kinda work for those that has dreams, if you can think outside the box then army work isn't for you. As I type now, I'm few borders away from Nigeria. Why kill yourself over what you can do away with? Army work commands respect and you wouldn't like to give up such respect, if you can't stand the ..... you can make it a secret with only your family knowing about that, others will still see you as a soldier. I visited Nigeria 2015 And went straight to the police station to release my younger brother from detention with my "soldier influence", once a soldier is always a soldier. Stop giving details of your location. You know what I think? I think you are just seeking for unnecessary attention because you knows what to do but if I'm wrong, just leave in peace, and before you leave please and please make sure you plan well with some savings so as not to regret it, the worst thing is to go back to your vomit. Good luck 6 Likes |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Meekha(m): 12:06am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Bro I can feel ur pains We have all been there. we have all chased "dreams" which we later discovered are not our true passion! or have come to that point where we regret our rash decisions due to the very circumstances we were facing then! But in any case, there is still hope. Suicide is never an option. Its spells selfishness on ur part for those u are going to leave behind. You are a brave man I believe. This is the time to do and to chase whatever dreams you have for its only by doing so that this world will reward you if not you will never have that "inner peace" My heart is with u bro and for many others who are uncertain/confused about their purpose in life! You can reach me via this connection 08150842923 or mika.ms60@gmail.com Will be there for u as a frnd/companion in these time when u need direction most. Thanks to you |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Kennytexxkkk: 12:09am On Mar 21, 2018 |
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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Meekha(m): 12:11am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Bro I can feel ur pains We have all been there. we have all chased "dreams" which we later discovered are not our true passion! or have come to that point where we regret our rash decisions due to the very circumstances we were facing then! But in any case, there is still hope. Suicide is never an option. Its spells selfishness on ur part for those u are going to leave behind. You are a brave man I believe. This is the time to do and to chase whatever dreams you have for its only by doing so that this world will reward you if not you will never have that "inner peace" My heart is with u bro and for many others who are uncertain/confused about their purpose in life! You can reach me via this connection mika.ms60@gmail.com Will be there for u as a frnd/companion in these time when u need direction most. Thanks to you 1 Like |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Kennytexxkkk: 12:11am On Mar 21, 2018 |
![]() I wish you the best of luck |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by MissRaine69(f): 12:16am On Mar 21, 2018 |
BdorianGray:You again ...Jesus 1 Like |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 12:18am On Mar 21, 2018 |
taylor89: LOL |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Expl0rers: 12:32am On Mar 21, 2018 |
no be small 1 Share
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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by delerx(m): 1:04am On Mar 21, 2018 |
When everybody resign who will fight boko boys.make una continue to advice am to run |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by baby124: 1:05am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Do what makes you happy as long as you are not hurting anyone. Take a leave of absence and chase your dreams. I hope you have saved enough to sponsor yourself through school. Check what program the army has for helping you with schooling expenses. Goodluck. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Frankicent(m): 1:23am On Mar 21, 2018 |
BecaciaBarbie: Nawa see whining even a secondary school student can write that.... Smh |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Frankicent(m): 1:24am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Emmysteve: Tell me story jawe ![]() |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by hypnotic(m): 1:45am On Mar 21, 2018 |
Go and get land and start farming, |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Simbrixton(m): 1:51am On Mar 21, 2018 |
taylor89: |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by justanie(f): 1:55am On Mar 21, 2018 |
help yourself now, like right now. |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by justanie(f): 1:57am On Mar 21, 2018 |
yeyerolling:true |
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BecaciaBarbie(f): 2:13am On Mar 21, 2018 |
yeyerolling:Even you can't type well... |
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