I have been having gay feelings for over, all my life actually and started having homosexual sex since 2005. I have slept with over five guys and still have the urge to have more but feel somehow bad about the whole tin. I dont really like what I'm doing and dont feel like stopping at the same time. What should I do? Please someone help!!!

hmmm
well is good
u no that what Ur doing is wrong
so that shud answer ur thread title

bamasala:

I have been having gay feelings for over, all my life actually and started having homosexual sex since 2005. I have slept with over five guys and still have the urge to have more but feel somehow bad about the whole tin. I don't really like what I'm doing and don't feel like stopping at the same time. What should I do? Please someone help!!!

U are not only having feeling but i just want to tell u that U ARE GAY.
damn u already had sex with 5 guys NA WA OOOO , SO U HAD IT FROM UR ANUS . SO PLZ DON'T TAKE IT OFFENDED CAN U FOLLOW THIS LINK AND COMMENT ON IT https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-44042.0.html
_{just curious, do gay do MouthAction too}

what u need is talk to someone that can help u

u need to pray and fast to the Lord, for it's Forgiveness.

BEEN GAY IS BAD, HELL FIRE IS WAITING FOR HOMOS

Omo Eko:

U are not only having feeling but i just want to tell u that U ARE GAY.
damn u already had sex with 5 guys NA WA OOOO , SO U HAD IT FROM UR ANUS . SO PLZ DON'T TAKE IT OFFENDED CAN U FOLLOW THIS LINK AND COMMENT ON IT https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-44042.0.html
_{just curious, do gay do MouthAction too}

what u need is talk to someone that can help u

u need to pray and fast to the Lord, for it's Forgiveness.

BEEN GAY IS BAD, HELL FIRE IS WAITING FOR HOMOS

@Omo Eko
WOW how could say that.
thats not right


@bamasala

Theres nothing wrong with being gay.and It is not bad

You do not need to ask forgiveness from god, God loves everyone straight or gay.

If you are gay you are gay there not much you can do.

Just try and find someone who you can talk to the will not judge you and that will understand you

Ilovemyhus:


Theres nothing wrong with being gay.and It is not bad

You do not need to ask forgiveness from god, God loves everyone straight or gay.

If you are gay you are gay there not much you can do.

Just try and find someone who you can talk to the will not judge you and that will understand you

Well said.

@ Omo Eko: The person that really needs forgiveness from God is the one that stands in judgment of another person.

God created ADAM and EVE as heterosexuals not as homosexuals, gays or lesbians.

So being GAY is very negative.It is disgusting.If you get married to the same gender how can you have kids?, just think about it.

I did recommend you go to a mixed school with lots of girls.

You socialize with girls mostly.

Watch porn movies which comprises of heterosexual acts, not homosexuals like gays,lesbians or bisexual.

And above all,am not cracking any jokes here,but am very frank here :

Get arrested and jailed.Make sure they put you with the ladies,as in you sleep in the same room with the ladies.NOT THE MEN'S ROOM OR ELSE THAT WILL WORSEN THE SITUATION.Stay in there for at least a year.

That will positively elevate your situation.

georget:

God created ADAM and EVE as heterosexuals not as homosexuals, gays or lesbians.

So being GAY is very negative.It is disgusting.If you get married to the same gender how can you have kids?, just think about it.

I did recommend you go to a mixed school with lots of girls.

You socialize with girls mostly.

Watch porn movies which comprises of heterosexual acts, not homosexuals like gays,lesbians or bisexual.

And above all,am not cracking any jokes here,but am very frank here :

Get arrested and jailed.Make sure they put you with the ladies,as in you sleep in the same room with the ladies.NOT THE MEN'S ROOM OR ELSE THAT WILL WORSEN THE SITUATION.Stay in there for at least a year.

That will positively elevate your situation.

Roll eyes


Stupid


@georget

Well if you get married to someone of the same gender,
You can adopt children. Just think about it.



Once again if someone is gay you can not change them by doing any of those things,They will still be gay regardless. If you like men you like men if you like women you like women, You Can't force your self to be un gay. You just have to expect that you are gay or bi-sexual. Embrace it and love who you are. There is nothing negative about being gay so don't listen to people that say that. The people that really matter in you're life will expect and love you for who you are.

Well if you get married to someone of the same gender,
You can adopt children. Just think about it.

this is why is wrong

if we were all gay then
who will hv kids for U to adopt

so das why God made male & female

bein gay is in a state of mind n' da work of da devil

dnt allow him 2 use U

Ilovemyhus:



Roll eyes


Stupid


@georget

Well if you get married to someone of the same gender,
You can adopt children. Just think about it.



Once again if someone is gay you can not change them by doing any of those things,They will still be gay regardless. If you like men you like men if you like women you like women, You Can't force your self to be un gay. You just have to expect that you are gay or bi-sexual. Embrace it and love who you are. There is nothing negative about being gay so don't listen to people that say that. The people that really matter in you're life will expect and love you for who you are.

Look here girl.Everyone have their opinions.I wasn't speaking for you or to you.If you had a brother who was gay, would you like that?, Before you address some1's post as stupid.

That's what i regard personally.

Thanks to "Free" for answering your questions you directed at me.

Does it make sense adopting a child who isn't biological to you?

Try to make sense in your post.

GAY, No Dude it ain't normal,

Get a girlfriend.

are you one?
its bad

yes

U have to change! It aint rite to be gay! Hell is real, n any homosexual who doesnt change now will be going straight to hell after death. Pls dont think u were born like dat u can change dat feelings of urs. Trust me, all u need to do is hang around gurls mostly and ask GOd to change you and help the feelings stop.

I am a Dental Surgery Student at Lagos University Teaching Hospital, that's LUTH.

Being a GAY.

If I have to talk from my belief point of view, It's absolutely an unacceptable thing. But I am sure that is not enough to desuade any body from any act.

This is my 5th year of training and I am not trying to scare you by that you are highly predisposed to a lot of health hazard which could take you away from the enjoyment you seek, fast! "Sudden embarrasing Death"

Homos have played a very serious part in the transmission of HIV/AIDS and some other diseases that should not have been contracted and transmitted if some natural laws are just humbly respected.

The RECTUM (the tubelike structure before the ANUS) is not as though as the VAGINA so when there is penetration there is a very high tendency of a bruise which opens the body to infections, HIV and all.

Please if not for your own sake, consider the people who love you and want a good tomorrow for you, don't let them down.

I'd be so glad to read that you have given being a GAY!

cya

It is wrong simple. If God wanted people to be homos he would have created ADAM & ADAM or EVE & EVE.

I co-exist with everybody gay or straight but I CAN NEVER accept it. It is unnatural and disgusting period.

hmmm, i know i got no business talkin' but i'll still talk.*clears throat* Being gay is BAD. I MEAN, IT SUCKS. IT MAKES NO SENSE WHY anyone would choose such lifestyle.God did not make a woman to be with another woman or a man to be with another man. If it were so, he would have just created another man to be with Adam, right? what other word do i need to use? ok, it's nasty, stupid, senseless. Infact, it's a waste.And what's annoyin' is that in these gay marriages, these gay people want kids and they want someone to help them. lol, So u knew u'll want a baby but u refused to do things the right way.*hisses*anywayz, Goodluck to y'all gay people out there, though. Just don't come close to me 'cause i'll

hmmmmmmmmmm yep u are gay, but please be careful u who tell, we have some cave men in nigeria

you know what? i think being gay is your thing abi? just embrace it and make sure you do it alone, don't infect anyone with that deadly spirit, dig out a hole in your bed room, since your same sex have the same things you have, you don't need their help, gay the hell out of your P p winky through that dugged hole on the wall, when you are satisfied, eat and go to bed, wheever you feel like doing it again, go back to that wall, its going to help you,  STOP HIV, STOP CORRUPTION, STOP PROVOKING GOD WITH YOUR ATTITUDE, ANYONE THAT SUPPORTS YOU, TELL THEM IF THEY WOULD COME HELP YOU, THEY SHOULD SACRIFICE THEMSELVES FOR YOU, you can have them as long as you want, if they are not male, tell them to bring their brother or uncle or dad to you, that should help you, i bet it is Hot eh? good! i blame your mom for not wasting you in the toilet, maybe then you would go telling the faeces in the gutterway that you are gay ok? IF EVERYONE BECOMES GAYS AND LESBIANS, I GIVE THE WORLD 5 TO 30 YEARS, WE ARE ALL GONE, WE THEN LEAVE THE EARTH TO THE ANIMALS, I THINK THATS GOING TO BE BETTER, WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK? RUBBISH THINKING, AND WHEN YOU ASK THEM, THEY WILL TELL YOU THEY ARE CHRISTAINS, IF YOU LIKE, TAG ME AS BEING JUDGEMENTAL, ALL I KNOW IS THAT I AM RIGHT IN WHAT I AM SAYING

@ Topic

I think u can change that yourself. You got into it 2005 as you said so you can also get out.

i have one question for u

are u tall, dark, sexy, muscular, smart, and rich

if the answer to these questions is yes ( then no my dear u are not gay just slightly confused and fustrated at the female population)

now if u are short, overweight, unattractive, poor, and not so smart ( they yes my dear child u are probably gay and the female population could do with out U )

as a christian i think that you should give it up. , just do it ok!

maybe he likes it dat way. too bad 4 him anyway jen jen mind if i get 2 no u?

answer this question , is being gay natural or nurtural?

lol.funny, let him answer the question

Ilovemyhus, you've contributed the most help to the OP, kudos!

@ bamasala

You've heard all the reasonable words from people, A word is enough for the wise.

being gay is totally bad and against good moral and it is totally unnatural and satanic pray for total deliverance from satan and his demons

na wa o! the world dey carry go, we dey follow am. , You don begin feel guilty yet you dey ask weda the thing bad. Ya conscience na ya greatest judge. If you no fit stand on top mountain shout am say u be gay u suppose go reconsider. everybody wan free; e no go tay wey animal go begin demand for right to enjoy intercourse with man since man don give am space on top bed. Consider, why man no get where you suppose put am? why man no get breast? why na only woman get womb, abeg think; you get plenty time to straighthen up.

Let’s try and maintain an open mind, at least this individual is bold to share the skeleton in his closet with us.
And who are we to tell any adult what sexual act he or she may act upon?
Let me share a personal story.

I was visiting an old friend in the Isolo area about 2yrs ago, and as we were talking and just shooting the shit, he took off after a guy in the street. Dumbfounded, and not knowing what to do, I just waited. When he came back, I asked what that was all about. He replied that the guy he was chasing was a homosexual and that he would be the one to kill him in that area.

I laughed oh, plus teased him a little.

Apparently, the homosexual guy has been beaten up whenever he showed up in that area.

Nigeria! I have no doubt in my mind that wherever the wheels of traditional culture is turning and that of foreign culture(desperately trying to hide behind a mask of being civilized) oneday these will face us squarely in time and then we will begin to understand ourselves even better and recover our sense of peopleness.

I have to say I was quite disappointed by the replies to this post. Realise that the guy himself is obviously not overjoyed with his inclination. Why would anyone want a life style that ostracises him from "normal" society, a lifestyle that subjects him to riducule from many including several in this forum. He is not saying he wants to be gay, he is saying that he is gay.

Thats one point, the other is the myth that God has created us all to be either the macho male or lolita female. Anyone talking from this point of view is either very unobservant or being intentionally mischevious. Everyone knows that every male has a feminine side as well. There are men that are "hard" men and others break down and run at the sign of any problem. Also there are women who are very male like hence the term "tomboys". Furthermore there are even people born with physical male and female genitilia! So who the heck is to say this is natural and this is not.

Please lets try and answer posts with some intelligence and education. No offence intended, cheers.

please.