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Ladies! Dangerous Mistakes You Make That Keep You Single For A Very Long Time by Bolawilliams1(f): 4:43pm On Apr 24, 2018
Hi Ladies, brace yourself because you are about to be exposed to a very big secret... Trust me!

By the time you finish reading this article, you will discover dangerous MISTAKES most ladies make that keep them single for a very long time and you’ll also learn how you can avoid these deadly mistakes from happening to you.

A lot of single ladies have fallen for this BIG MISATKES and had big regrets at the end, but not just that…

The cr*zy part is that they return to level ONE after falling for this big mistake.
You might have even fallen for it without your knowledge… I’m sorry, I don’t mean to be harsh… it’s normal, no one is perfect.


Come with me…


#1 SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE


LET ME QUICKLY SHARE THIS STORY WITH YOU

(Please go through every word here slowly)
There is this lady who works as a petrol attendant. She’s was very beautiful and lives not too far from the petrol station. She had desire for big things, she felt it would be right that a man with big vehicles has to be her heart rob.
She never wants to settle for an average man that treks… she prefers a man that has a car. That was her choice... She detests it when a man walks up to her with his legs to ask her out. She regards them as men that can hardly feed themselves or even afford a room apartment.


LUCKILY, SHE FOUND HER DREAM MAN

Dreams do come through sometimes… one afternoon, a man came to the dispenser and as soon as she saw her and other attendant… the man got attracted to her and immediately decided she’ll be the one to dispense fuel for his jeep so, he drove towards her… a little smile crossed her beautiful face. The man started chatting her up…
In their conversation, she got to know that the man imports car from the oversea… the man started patronizing her since then and they both exchanged contacts. Meanwhile, she had now become so engrossed with the ‘Importer’ so soon while she originally came to the petrol station to raise money to further her education to the university.
She forgot her main goal at work for a new spark of romance that has became her lot. Her importer love promised her that everything she ever need would be provided for her and that she should not worry about her school, once the contract he’s working at yields, everything she needs will be sorted out including her school fees.


SHE TOLD HER PARENTS ABOUT THE MAN

She was just 21 with a womanly body… she couldn’t believe all these were really happening to her. She could no longer hid her joy; she told her parents everything
What can the parents do? They felt she was lucky to get a helper at an early age. That was their though; perhaps, the man will help her as Godsend. But what could the man want in such a young school leaver? He may not marry her afterwards, he had not actually come clear about his interest, but sincerely he won’t be doing all this without desire her at some point in time.
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That’s just enough to be read from the way…
The two lovers were just over one another. The man who was known as Mr. Jacob - the importer, is a well travelled and multi-linguist. He knows so many places and speaks more than five international languages.


SHE BECAME PRGRANANT FOR HIM

Six months into the game, she had worn a new look, her tummy is now becoming protruding and she couldn’t keep routine at her place of work any longer. Now neighbour began to wonder what could be happening to her all soon.
As days turn to weeks, it became clear that she was actually pregnant for no other man but the same, Mr. Jacob. So all her academics concern that has been her greatest priority before now must rest?
Her parents were really mad at her... This made them want to know more about the so called Mr. Jacob but ever since the turn of events Mr. Jacob became relatively scares to see. No one knows where to find him as his whereabouts was not too clear.


SHE FINALLY GOT MR DAVIDS CONTACT

She finally found the card Mr. Jacob gave to him while going through an article one morning. She told her parents about it and they decided to trace him through the card given to her.
To cut the story short, it was found that Mr. Jacob works in the embassy as a driver and he only have access to vehicles attached to the embassy, while often used to cruise around town himself as if the vehicle was really his own. He was no importer but a liar and a pretender. It was a painful experience as she couldn’t further her education and other ambitions she had.
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IMPORTANT LESSON!

The big mistake the lady in this story fell for his called “SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE”.
Most ladies fall for this big mistake everyday that’s why you see a lot of you single mother around.

It’s like a magnet!

You know all those big jeep men drives that leaves you with no option than to hop in to their car when they park beside you and say “What’s up babe…?”

Those shinning Rolex wristwatches you see on men that leaves you with no option than to say “yes”… Why? Because you know it’s GOLD and it’s worth millions.

The latest iphone in town they use and also promise to buy you one

The Brazilian human hair and all that they promised….

Guess what, 75% percent of them are deceits! They just want to fit in with the real men by attempting to look like them.

Do you know that they could higher or even borrow a car and start cruising the whole neigbourhood acting like the car is theirs?

Do you know they could borrow those shiny expensive wristwatches from their friends just to impress you?.

Dear, if a man comes to offer you help by flaunting flashy things for you to notice him or whatever thing he offers you that you never asked for, as wise lady you should really play safe and don’t be fooled by their irresistible offer or flashy items. Some are destiny DESTROYER who are just looking for the next victim. Their plan is simply to use you and dump you for the next unfortunate lady

Be a super wise lady!

As a lady It’s great to have big dreams… Nobody will ever want to settle with a poor man. Nobody! It’s actually not a sin to want the good things of life. However, don’t see those big things as a requirement to have him in your life.
Wanting great favour without an equally developed mind, is an opportunity for crafty men who are just pretenders living fake life to devour women of easy virtue on the platter of wanting to help or please them.

Don’t let material things derail your right judgments of what determines a right relationship, Instead work towards achieving those beautiful things you wish for yourself.



To be continued...
Re: Ladies! Dangerous Mistakes You Make That Keep You Single For A Very Long Time by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 24, 2018
advice to ladies that wants to get married :
close ur legs... spend on him... infact "The only way is to pretend" !!!

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