The elephant in the room that some intending couples fail to properly cover is that of physical attraction. If a man says a negative comment about a part of your body, make sure you address it with him. Not every joke is a joking matter. This fair slim guy with gapped teeth with you as you are. Chiamaka is beautiful in her own way and I am sure that she can find someone to treat her better but physically, they don't match. It's not low self esteem if you pursue your physical match, it's self respect. Go and apply to Chevron with your 3rd class degree now before you understand what I am talking about. It's not only by prayers and fasting alone to choose a spouse. Also, it's like he wasn't that loaded when they met. You can't know a man's real behaviour except you have seen him when he is broke and [/b]RICH[b] . Some of his friends and family members would have pressured him to settle for a more homely looking woman because she seems like "wife material". A man wants what he wants. The guy is just recently enjoying money and the attention he's getting now is different from before. Also, she has a strong personality and insecure again. One thing people can learn from this is to keep your relationship off social media. She could have quietly left him if she had not done plenty instagram PDA. The PDA was too much and that itself was a major redflag.

Uyiii:
Lol, this isn't funny sha, but I am really forcing myself not to tear out in laughter right now.
okay I give up, can't hold anymore, I need to let it out; hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Another pained feminist advocate loading, watch out!!!
she might be the next to question and query Michelle Obama for fulfilling her wife and motherly obligations diligently.

Ehyaa, a tour guide and a social media perfect, but couldn't guide and perfect your marriage
what a perfect guidance you are

Anyways, this is a very subtle advice and an eye opener to everyone, the babes precisely, that not every image painted in social media, not every rosy and lovey dovey slammed on our faces in social media is true in reality.
In fact, social media has so disconnected us from reality. We now talk to our gadgets instead of humans around us.
Okay today is Sunday, we suppose to be spending quality time with our families, but instead we see Nwaamaikpe and donstan18 dragging NL front pages upandan to speak their yeye English.
All of us dey crase sha

P.s: what made me laugh so hard was when she said she's married to Jesus and she's sexy in the eyes of Jesus. Lol, she wants to seduce Jesus

Like wtf madame married to Jesus, Jesus is married already. please go back to your husband and leave Jesus alone.
Jesus said worship Him, you want to toast and date Jesus? all this feminist otondo sha

Ref; Tonto dikeh and Churchill season one.

Prefect not perfect

I wonder whether we get the concept of marriage anymore.

Yet most people are out there pressurizing singles to get married, what's the point, when one is just going to walk away after 10 weeks, worst of all, if they had kids, they end of jeopardizing the kids' lives.

Uyiii:
Lol, this isn't funny sha, but I am really forcing myself not to tear out in laughter right now.
okay I give up, can't hold anymore, I need to let it out; hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Another pained feminist advocate loading, watch out!!!
she might be the next to question and query Michelle Obama for fulfilling her wife and motherly obligations diligently.

Ehyaa, a tour guide and a social media perfect, but couldn't guide and perfect your marriage
what a perfect guidance you are

Anyways, this is a very subtle advice and an eye opener to everyone, the babes precisely, that not every image painted in social media, not every rosy and lovey dovey slammed on our faces in social media is true in reality.
In fact, social media has so disconnected us from reality. We now talk to our gadgets instead of humans around us.
Okay today is Sunday, we suppose to be spending quality time with our families, but instead we see Nwaamaikpe and donstan18 dragging NL front pages upandan to speak their yeye English.
All of us dey crase sha

P.s: what made me laugh so hard was when she said she's married to Jesus and she's sexy in the eyes of Jesus. Lol, she wants to seduce Jesus

Like wtf madame married to Jesus, Jesus is married already. please go back to your husband and leave Jesus alone.
Jesus said worship Him, you want to toast and date Jesus? all this feminist otondo sha

Ref; Tonto dikeh and Churchill season one.

The lady sounds too childish, now I really understand why marriage is for grown ups

I mean even if the marriage is broken, do you have to come on social media and say all that.

Biglittlelois:
Most peeps above didnt bother to read her reasons smh!!! from her write up her husband loves slim ladies, question is why did he marry her if she is not his type? some men have poo as brains honestly.

Are you saying she didn't notice the husband loves slim women while they were dating, if they dated, what she couldn't decipher during the months or years of dating, she did in 10 weeks of marriage.

Not every courtship or dating will or should end up in marriage. I mean isn't that the point of it all.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You forget that not everyone is a christian and believes this thing some couples believe in mutuality and egalitarian relationships.To each his own what works for A may not work for B.

My submission is based on my own persuasions and those that identify and believe in it. You are at liberty not to subscribe to it.

Zionista:


My submission is based on my own persuasions and those that identify and believe in it. You are at liberty not to subscribe to it.

Thank you and you are also at liberty not to generalise and force your opinion down our throats.

lefulefu:
though i didn't see anything in the writeup were the guy said she should exercise...but then there's nothing wrong if he encourages her to engage in physical activity. If ur man exercises and ask u to join him.i believe he's doing dat cos he loves u and cares for ur health. So na cos d man say make she dey exercise ...na dat one come vex her and make her sue for divorce?. Wetin we no go hear.

and u think if it was just that simple , she would divorce her husband? Nah no one wants divorce!! It was beyond that

Shugavee:
and u think if it was just that simple , she would divorce her husband? Nah no one wants divorce!! It was beyond that

yea its better they divorce than to be in a loveless marriage. But then..ten weeks?..its like she even broke Kim kardeshian's record.

lefulefu:
yea its better they divorce than to be in a loveless marriage. But then..ten weeks?..its like she even broke Kim kardeshian's record.

yeah I find her kinda at fault cause i doubt it started when they got married!! So she knew and got in anyways!! All in the name of Marriage!! But i think its something they will fix tho

Ladyhippolyta88:
Thank you and you are also at liberty not to generalise and force your opinion down our throats.

Please can you show me from my initial post where I suggested or implied that it should be forced down your throat or any other person's throat?

I am 100% responsible for my posts but not responsible for how you construe it.

Zionista:


Please can you show me from my initial post where I suggested or implied that it should be forced down your throat or any other person's throat?

I am 100% responsible for my posts but not responsible for how you construe it.

Read your post sir you generalized and forced your opinion using the keyword "until".

The trials are a way forward for every couple you just have to work together. If she felt like he was not right for her or capable of allowing her to enjoy the live she lives she is right to leave.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Read your post sir you generalized and forced your opinion using the keyword "until".

My dear, " until" does not connote generalization. It's an adverbial clause of time that anyone can employ to buttress his or her OPINION.

In the final analysis, it's an opinion that I expressed. So, don't take it hook,line and sinker.
God bless you!

kristonium:



The rate at which marriages are packing up calls for serious concerns!!!

Women are now taught how to disobey men

victorian:








At the bolded, what if she doesn't like exercising?
I don't like to exercise But, there is a but with me.. I watch what I eat and I drink green tea and Detoxifying tea almost everyday to feel and be healthy. I take small walks at times but nothing spectacular jare.
I can't come and kill myself

So that's it marry slim if u like slim. Then marry fat, If u like fat.

Simple..

Isn't life simple?

CrystalMax:
No matter how scary the world makes marriage look, I will find and marry right by God's grace.
Reading all these kinda news makes marriage appear scary to me, seriously.

Amen and me too

Biglittlelois:



Are you for real? is it the lady that dragged him to the altar? obviously the guy would have hidden his physical attraction from her cos i believe a man would not marry someone he doesnt want to marry.

Yes no lady can change a man but he was the one trying to make her gym to become slim so a man cannot change a lady too

No, a lady should not live the rest of her life with him if she doesnt like something about him, divorce is allowed.

Obviously you didnt understand her write up, if not you will get that she left him so that he can continue with all the slim ladies he wants, meaning he was cheating and she was becoming depressed.

So what you're trying to postulate is that she had no idea the man had a penchant for slim ladies? Oh, please.
I have seen it again and again in ladies who tend to believe trapping an irresponsible man with marriage will make him more committed to you.
You don't believe that he only started showing symptoms of cheating and hating her shape after the wedding, do you?
10 weeks is too short a period of time for all the stuff she said to have happened to the extent of her being depressed, thinking of suicide and the rest.
I am almost too sure that he had told her severally before the marriage to watch her weight and stuff.
I am not defending the man, as he is obviously an irresponsible and trashy man who doesn't deserve a woman in his life.
And please, don't try to bring gender bias into the discussion, if you didn't catch my earlier inferences,
A MAN/WOMAN CANNOT CHANGE HIS/HER SPOUSE AFTER MARRIAGE. it's that simple!

dinachi:

Keep quiet! You belong to the gang that is turning our women to prostitutes because of money. You should be ashamed of your self's.

i don't deserve this from u,.... is it true or not?

if u know marriage will not give u happiness stay single and celibate....


I don't like reading about divorce...