fancy4eve:
well said

Hmmm you seem not to get it tho

TonyeBarcanista:


Hmmm you seem not to get it tho

i do my dear, we all hv reasons 4 doing anytin, as long as u re ohk wit it.

fancy4eve:
i do my dear, we all hv reasons 4 doing anytin, as long as u re ohk wit it.

Unfortunately, I'm not okay with marriage...


I used to be crazy about it when I was with my first girlfriend... Beauty + Brain but it came to an end... Though I had chance to reignite it but refused to against expectations of friends and siblings from both sides

Babacele:
I'm good, and you?

Very well.

TonyeBarcanista:

Unfortunately, I'm not okay with marriage...


I used to be crazy about it when I was with my first girlfriend... Beauty + Brain but it came to an end... Though I had chance to reignite it but refused to against expectations of friends and siblings from both sides

dere re better gals 2 tangle wit in abuja, just Gv urself d chance of meetn dem nd u will b happy again. But Hei, am not talkn u into takn turns on gals.

fancy4eve:
dere re better gals 2 tangle wit in abuja, just Gv urself d chance of meetn dem nd u will b happy again. But Hei, am not talkn u into takn turns on gals.

Unfortunately, ladies aren't among top 20 priority in my life right now (and in near future) though I have a couple of them around and outside Abuja...

I'm single but my girl friend think I'm not

aaronson:
The only way to know is to suspend every perks she enjoys dating you and see if she still remains loyal and respectful. And come up with a convincing reason, like if you give her money before, tell here this are bad times financially for you.


Bro, if you do cut off all perks and she still remain loyal and respectful, Do not waste your time in marrying that girl and give her everything in the world she requests after marriage.

I've tried that many times she doesn't complain. I try to pick up quarrel she ends up apologizing. She cares but sometimes she acts like a baby. Any small thing she'll say I hurt her. She tries to please me but I want her to be herself. I feel she's not showing me her true self.

vuc1:

I've tried that many times she doesn't complain. I try to pick up quarrel she ends up apologizing. She cares but sometimes she acts like a baby. Any small thing she'll say I hurt her. She tries to please me but I want her to be herself. I feel she's not showing me her true self.

Do not lose that girl bro. She is the one. she acting like a baby because she feels vulnerable around you and you only.

Congratulations, You have found her.

unclefamous:
Tell us what u hate about your current relationship

What's relationship pls? The last time I check I didn't see that in ma dictionary

This

She's too stubborn and jealous

I've been reading posts and comments, and I discovered that many people are enduring relationships.
This is terrible!
Till when na?
Yes you can't be jumping up and down, but you might need to take a break, see the world, then know which part of it you want for yourself.
There is life after a breakup.
Most of the folks who posted things above were Men, I know if the women are to really purgate their emotions, tell their stories, we'll be left sobbing.
Look, the ultimate purpose of any relationship is COMPLIMENTARY, and HAPPINESS.
S/he must be able to fill in your emptiness, be strong in your weakness. This way you compliment each other.
Above all happiness is key.
Never think of what others will say because my sisters and brothers, YOU'RE YOUR OWN BOSS!

austyn0:
Laughs... Dated someone like that,, was one of the reasons I let the pretty bird fly,, boring to the core.


.... For how long will you keep asking her questions? forever? She is supposed to help liven up the relationship sometimes,, he should try to push her into working on her boring state.

bro the truth is most girls don't know the essence of relationship,ask ursef how many knows the dos and don'ts of spicing up relationship? most believe u been the guy na u alone go make the relationship work... therefore u gat play all the roles even the ones meant for them... abi no be most Nigeria girls we dey talk abt here ? if u like turn ursef to questionnaire some boring girls will still not come out of their boring shell....

What is a relationship? Please Op we don't know about that here until we crawl outta our abject abysmal poverty in this country then we can start doing those Oyibo things.

TonyeBarcanista:
I did mention that I never knew how sweet single life was until I ended my last relationship.

I don't want to play the blame game but there is this thing about marriage these days that makes me believe that it isn't worth it. Nagging, troubles, wahala, infidelity, disruption of peace and other associated problems.

That doesn't mean I won't get married though (heck! my parents, especially my sweetest momma always remind me and want me to marry ASAP) but if I have my way, I Won't marry.

I don't understand the hype marriage carries these days, especially when you see how bad it can get.

My lady cannot speak in english. I pray i have enough to send her back to school cos i love her

no need for relationship. just day phork day go

I hate that I am not in a relationship

Babacele:
hmmm was that her only sin? then you have deliberately thrown away a golden diamond....it is her nature , well different strokes for different folks.

DeadRat:




I Broke Their Hearts



I Needed To Focus Of A Greater Me, for A Greater Tomorrow and Better Women

This is so me right now, although I didn't break their hearts. I just vanished into thin air. #TeamNoRelationships

locust:


you were dumped?

Smh

fancy4eve:
so wat happens 2 marriage

Women are interested in marriage, men are interested in freedom. We're wired differently.

kalu61:
l wish I was in one right now. introvert is no no

then you prefer a parrot abi? tomorrow dont come and complain she nags too much o

Rude, disrespectful, hates correction. She even refused to share the password to her phone with me, doesn't know how to apologise.

vuc1:
We hardly fight or argue. She's too respectful, loyal and humble. She loves me too much and it scares me whether that is normal. A typical naija babe is opposite of what she is. I feel it's all a scam.

Hmmm...too good to be true?.... bro...even if you think so.... keep such thoughts wayyyy at the back of your mind...... your words.....or actions...... don't ever take her for granted. .. do whatever it takes for her to always be respectful, loyal and humble. You'll never miss the water until the well runs dry.

vuc1:

I've tried that many times she doesn't complain. I try to pick up quarrel she ends up apologizing. She cares but sometimes she acts like a baby. Any small thing she'll say I hurt her. She tries to please me but I want her to be herself. I feel she's not showing me her true self.

You can't know her true intentions but you can have a hint at it.

How does she treat her family members?
How does she treat people below her in class or wealth?
When you go out, how does she treat those who serve you?

Most people in relationships are hiding their true personalities from their partners. They only display it when they're already married.

maleekfrenzy:
Rude, disrespectful, hates correction. She even refused to share the password to her phone with me, doesn't know how to apologise.

You're dating Ceec?

unclefamous:
then to make it interesting ask her questions that requires long answers

What if she replies you just like Nina does

TonyeBarcanista:
I did mention that I never knew how sweet single life was until I ended my last relationship.

I don't want to play the blame game but there is this thing about marriage these days that makes me believe that it isn't worth it. Nagging, troubles, wahala, infidelity, disruption of peace and other associated problems.

That doesn't mean I won't get married though (heck! my parents, especially my sweetest momma always remind me and want me to marry ASAP) but if I have my way, I Won't marry.

Finally Finally!!! I've something in common with my nairaland role model... Jeez! I'm super excited. This write up is so me, only difference is I'd have my grandma on my neck instead of my mum.