True story but not real names. . .
Kayla is 21, jobless, not in school, no relationship. . . Why? Because she stays at home and act as a nanny for her elder sist who don't really care. She takes care of the kids like her own, she struggled and gained admission to a private poly, nobody cares, nobody contributed. She couldn't continue so she stopped came back home and continue nanny job. Now she has the opportunity of a life time in lag but her sist is terribly ill, nobody to look after the kid. . . She's faced with a dilemma. . . What should she do? Should she make another sacrifices that'll probably cost her future and probably get no thanks or should she think of herself? Her mom says she's selfish by leaving, her sist says she wicked. . . She's lost. . . Show her light. . .

Kayla´s story is a sad one really but it is time for no more remorse. She has done enough for her sister and it is time she starts thinking about her future. If her sister is too sick then she should probably wait a bit for recovery and try to do something with her life, if she is not that sick, she must leave right away and do something useful with her life or she won´t have anything to offer to her own kids someday in the future. iF HER MOTHER DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THIS, SHE IS REALLY SELFISH, FRIENDS

African_queen:

True story but not real names. . .
Kayla is 21, jobless, not in school, no relationship. . . Why? Because she stays at home and act as a nanny for her elder sist who don't really care. She takes care of the kids like her own, she struggled and gained admission to a private poly, nobody cares, nobody contributed. She couldn't continue so she stopped came back home and continue nanny job. Now she has the opportunity of a life time in lag but her sist is terribly ill, nobody to look after the kid. . . She's faced with a dilemma. . . What should she do? Should she make another sacrifices that'll probably cost her future and probably get no thanks or should she think of herself? Her mom says she's selfish by leaving, her sist says she wicked. . . She's lost. . . Show her light. . .

What do you mean by NOBODY to take care of the sister's children? What about her sister's husband? His family memebrs? She has given in enough already, I think it's time for someone else to take over!

Besides, it's not her responsibility to take care of her sister's children. She was doing it all the while as a 'favour' and I don't think she should be held at ransom for that!

If your story is true, then I dont know they are treating the girl like that, it's unfair! Let her sister take charge of her responsibility and leave her to live her own life!

What about her sister's husband? His family members? (

Yeah, that´s right, her sister´s husband is the one who must take charge of the children and wife or his relatives.But if they do not do it, then the mother should help her instead of making the other daughter sacrifice her life, which she has already done.

Ujujoan:

What do you mean by NOBODY to take care of the sister's children? What about her sister's husband? His family memebrs? She has given in enough already, I think it's time for someone else to take over

The husband works and travel alot. . . He's barely in town and he doesn't trust his family members. He warns his wife not to get close to them.
Her mom said she can't care for the child cos she's busy wit stuff and she's too old to care for a little child. . . The other elder sist says her house is filled wit kids can't take another in.
It all leaves it on Kayla. . .

What about hiring a babysitter? It could be someone close to the family, but the girl has a right to make her life. If her sister decided to marry and have children she should have known what she was getting into instead of trusting that responsability on the younger sister now. SHE REALLY IS SELFISHHHHHHH, GUYS

I think enough sacrifice has been made.

Let her sister look for another help.

African_queen:

The husband works and travel alot. . . He's barely in town and he doesn't trust his family members. He warns his wife not to get close to them.
Her mom said she can't care for the child cos she's busy wit stuff and she's too old to care for a little child. . . The other elder sist says her house is filled wit kids can't take another in.
It all leaves it on Kayla. . .

That is their problem isn't it? Why does it have to become hers

So if she wasn't available they wont figure out a way to take care of their family?

Why are they exploiting her? Is there something you are not telling us? Because where I come from, NOBODY does that!