The concept of the nice guy is that of a man
who makes woman his mental point of origin.
Now been nice is not same as been a good person,
a good person can literally help someone in need of
help irrespective of the gender because it's the right thing to do.

A good man helps a woman without expecting
sexual reward or be seen by the woman to
expect sexual favors from her. No. He does it
because he feels it's the right thing to do.
The nice guy does everything for a woman just
so he can get laid or to be seen by the woman
as worthy of her affection and to be rewarded with her sex.

Origin of the Nice Guy

The nice guy was not born this way but
conditioned by single mother or feminized
parents. Now, the nice guy created by the
mother and a feminized father is taught by his father
that been a shiny knight will get him laid because that's
how he got his mama to say 'yes'.

It was difficult and took
a long time to get his mother to say 'yes' though, and when
she did say 'yes' after many years of his waiting; he knew
she will was the 'one'
(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/)
and he was right all along.

Single Mother

The nice guy created by the single mother is the vicious type,
he's so conditioned he lost his masculinity before
he knew he even had it.

The conditioning of the boy
by the single mother to put women on a pedestal starts
as early as 5 years old, put women needs above his own,
never work away from a woman, chivalry, open the car
door for her, ladies first, don't make her feel inferior,
make her your number one priority,
treat her nicely and if she want you to wait
after asking her to a date just wait because
she need time to think and trust you enough before going on date with you.

The nice guy is fed lot many of this lies all his life
and the single mother makes sure the boy is raised
and conditioned to behave and emote like a woman
(doing so is the only way he get in touch with his feminine side)
so that he doesn't end up like his dead beat or absent father
who don't know how take care for a woman because he just
pumped and dumped her.

So this nice guy is brainwashed
by the home, the church and society to put women
on a pedestal and hate his own masculinity but embrace
his feminine side.

Now the nice guy is grown and enter the dating world
with this mindset, his inter sexual relationship is colored
by this conditioning and when he see a woman he admires,
he start performing all the nice things, say all the right
words ( never daring or seem offensive), he remembers
her birthdays, buy her flowers and gifts, he thinks he's
lucky for getting her attention, he invite her on a date
and does his best to make it memorable for her even
though he end up making his life miserable on the date.

Rationalization

The nice guy do the thinking process for the woman
he's attracted to by assuming that should he go now to
ask for her number, she may get angry because she's busy,
should he ask her for a date this weekend maybe she will say
no because she's a church programme to attend.

He does all the thinking for her because he doesn't want to
offend her and that will go against what mommy
and the society conditioned him to believe.

He's afraid to ask for sex because she hates premarital sex
and the Pastor preached against it last Sunday, the nice guy
tell himself I'm willing to wait because this is an indication
that she's gentle and an angelic woman worthy of waiting for.

The Hard Fact And Why Nice Guys Get Laid

In this rationalization period by the Nice guy,
the special woman is actually carousing the bad boy coc*k,
and when this asshole is not ready to commit and abandon
her for another woman, then she remembers the nice guy
who has been waiting patiently and doing all the nice things,
he's the christian brother, the loyal friend to listen to her share
her emotional pains.

She comes back to the nice guy, complain
about how men are wicked and then have the nice guy comfort
her and tell her he's not like the other guys, he's different and
the good one who will treat her right if she agree to date him.

Overtime, she start riding the dick of the nice guy and nice guy thinks
he finally got her to say 'yes' after so long and now he has her to himself,
he failed to realized that she's only taken a break from the asshole who
treats her badly and only a matter of time before she returns back to him again.

When this happens the nice guy go violent because he can't control his emotions
and feels that after all he has done, after doing what mommy and society told him
was the right thing to do to get a woman she still left him for an
asshole who treats her like shit!

Women actually hate the nice guy because they know that the
nice guy is not really nice and all he does is in expectation of a
sexual reward. She would like it more if he's man enough to go
for what he want instead of doing it indirectly.

She hates that the nice guy want to trick her to have sex with him
by doing her favors.
She is like, why do all this nice things, why not just tell me what I
want to hear that will massage my ego because I can be your LovePeddler!
She want a man who knows what and how to go for what he want and
not the man she need to tell how to go for what he want.

So it's a big No from the woman because she want you to be man enough
to go for what you want because that is what the asshole bad guy does,
he goes for it and if she rejects he works away and next her, then focus
on another woman and saving himself time and lot more opportunities to
meet other beautiful women.

The nice guy is rooted in the myth of the special one, the fantasy of the soul mate
(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/).
There's no soul mate or a special one that require you to just be yourself and
overtime the universe will align and bring you together. This is false,
it's just a creation from a movie narratives.

Women say they want nice guys, this is a lie because they don't
know what they want and the feeling of what they want changes
as their emotional body makeup changes. They want nice guy but fu*ck
the bad guy always because what they say is different from what they will do.
Basically, the act, mannerisms and ways she say it matters a lot than the actual words.

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