I apologise then if that were the case. I dont play mind-games in real life though, I lay things out on the table.

Ebonyeyes:

I apologise then if that were the case. I dont play mind-games in real life though, I lay things out on the table.

hold on, i am offer to get me 10 very long tables are u have alot u have to lay out to me

OOOkay what do you want laid out?

Ebonyeyes:

OOOkay what do you want laid out?

oya lay out ur undying love for me asap!

Na2day I loff you very much

Mama G, did you leave your sense of humor in the freezer?

Ebonyeyes:

Na2day I loff you very much 

love u too dear, now how many kittens kids are we gonna have? 

mama-gee:

*Mama-gee pukes heavily and wonders how someone would love a fat skunky guy like Na2day*

love is blind

We gonna have 2 kids, need to regain my figure so you dont start chasing 26yr old girls

Ebonyeyes:

We gonna have 2 kids, need to regain my figure so you dont start chasing 26yr old girls

even if u give birth to 12 kids, it wont affect ur kettlebell figure, and why chase others when i have the jackpot

na2day?:

even if u give birth to 12 kids, it wont affect your kettlebell figure, and why chase others when i have the jackpot

They say if its too good to be true, it probably is. Why the extra niceness all of a sudden? You were my nemesis a few months ago

Ebonyeyes:

They say if its too good to be true, it probably is. Why the extra niceness all of a sudden? You were my nemesis a few months ago

who said anything about "extra niceness"? i am only making sure that my babies dont come out traumatized

na2day?:

who said anything about "extra niceness"? i am only making sure that my babies dont come out traumatized

This old girl is quite strong ya know, no amount of negativity you throw my way will affect the babies

Ebonyeyes:

This old girl is quite strong ya know, no amount of negativity you throw my way will affect the babies

good 2 know, so why didnt u reply me on yim?

na2day?:

there is nothing wrong with what he has done, i do the same alot, if the guy is anything like me it means he is watching your reaction to his coldness, whatever action u take here will be crucial. there will always be a time a guy dont need u in his space and for some unknown reason girls take offense to this. my advise 2 u is simple, give him room, stop calling so often, if u have to call, call once in a month just to keep base, make it short too. don't make the conversation about u as u girls tend to do alot, focus on him, his family, career etc and just a little about u or your goals for the duration of the conversation(preferably 10mins or less but no more than 15mins, he has to understand u have a life of your own u are building). if he starts to take interest in u and calls, for every 2 or 3 calls he makes, only return 1 or 2 max, never return every single call, this will prevent u committing unnecessary emotional energy into what is not certain. the rule of thumb here is make sure u are evasive but available, easy to reach but hard to pin down, this is totally different from playing hard to get (which in my opinion is silly!); before u know, the lion in him will be out and the prey will be a willing one

Definitely he is not ur type
leave him and continue with ur life

meanwhile, i'm not hooked yet,

nnaemmy:

Definitely he is not your type
leave him and continue with your life

meanwhile, i'm not hooked yet,

dude! i am a guy, i was only replying the OP

A-yo Im back from the ehemmm from you know what

Ebonyeyes:

A-yo Im back from the ehemmm from you know what

are u receiving my msgs at all?

@Poster,
No guy is that shy.
Guys can be shy when toasting but not when they haven acquired their target(Forgive me for sayin that)
He's either not that interested like you are or you're evading his space and he wants to take things slow.
But i no say naija guys no dey take things slow. Na to score dey for their minds.
Unless maybe the guy don score come dey use style dey dump you.
You no yarn the full gist.

cantell:

@Poster,
No guy is that shy.
Guys can be shy when toasting but not when they haven acquired their target(Forgive me for sayin that)
He's either not that interested like you are or you're evading his space and he wants to take things slow.
But i no say naija guys no dey take things slow. Na to score dey for their minds.
Unless maybe the guy don score come dey use style dey dump you.
You no yarn the full gist.

well said!it could not be better said than from a player himself

adamse:

well said!it could not be better said than from a player himself

I for like use that ur small head break palm kernel.
Abroko!

@ poster he's not much of a christian as such,afterall almost everyone says dey r christians dis days.i remember a time i wanted 2 spring a surprise at him,i decided 2 prepare a locally made meal n take it to his house.as soon as i gave him,he dint even say thank u,it was his friend who thanked me.however,he's a good lover but not a friend dis makes me feel rilly confused

He does not know the value of what he has till he losses you. Take a time out, care less about about him and watch his attitude, if he does not do any chasing after 1month, Better Move On.

cantell:

I for like use that your small head break palm kernel.
Abroko!

So because the guy has self control around he it makes him shy? U dey find wetin U dey find. Ask and U shall receive.

Na wetin dey trip me with people be this. U have a problem with some dude who probably doesn't know about it and U haven't bothered asking him clearly but U want us advice U on what to do?

U need to talk to him about Ur expectations from Ur idea of what being in a relationship includes.

it starts like this , later we will hear of "he beat me he smoke he drink he doesnt answer my call" BUT I LOVE HIM
A woman is supposed to be woo. For you there is simply no chemistry between the two of you.

I'm confused here! Don't know what to advise.
I think this poster has not told us the whole TRUTH.

I'm confused here! Don't know what to advise.
I think this poster has not told us the whole TRUTH.
[quote][/quote]Owanlen, which truth again? 4me i think the guy is just an independent guy.and mind you that doesn't mean he didnt love u.

@ cuteconec u r absolutly ryt.i think u have a point there and i'll adopt dat.thanks a whole lot
@oisehumen if u read my post u'll understand beta.d post is just a summary of my experience in my relationship.i only poured my heart out in a way i could
@ochendu y'ryt n 2 all nairalanders i appreciate ur words of advice,scolding n somewhat pun lolllll.i'm grateful

funny enough i have the same qualities with this guy of yours
its not a crime been shy
mostly shy guys are introverts

there comes a time where we all need to crawl out of our shells of shyness and face the real world

it is ur attitude towards us that keeps us goin on rather abate the exposure and crawl back into our shells

He probably doesn't know how to handle women. Take heart. But it's great to know the only guy in the world, whose mind isn't always on the pepperoni.

Ummm have u ever spoken 2 him about it?

Yu seem just 2 be keeping a lot 2 urself & hoping he will notice?or that things will change?

R u sure he asked u out?or asked u 2 go cinema wif him d next tyme?