It is unfair to one's self to stay with one sex partner for life.

Cheating in this context is a wrong use of word.

Biglittlelois:
Easy, whatever attracted you to that person, tell your partner to do same e.g

For the men
You like her makeup, tell your wife to make up,
Her style of dressing, buy it for your wife,
She is fit, tell ur wife to hit the gym, join her to make it fun etc.


For the women
You like his cologne, buy same for hubby
You like his dress sense, buy or encourage him to buy for himself etc

..
it's not even about all this it is about ego of a man who thinks of conquest

Its allowed but just know it that no secret is hidden forever. If your spouse is not meeting up to expectation dont die in silence or give yourself prostrate problem. Go on and satisfy your urge but be discreet about it. Life goes on.
Only women should avoid it completely because they are women. Once they are caught thats it, they must return to their fathers house.

Its a man's world.

You are pervert and filled with spirit of lust. Dirty mind.

Sometimes it's not about greed. It's not even about the fact that you actually want to cheat. Sometimes, it's just down to the nonchalant attitude of spouses after marriage. Marriage changes people cos of the work in it that you forget the fun you both used to have when you were dating. Marriage sometimes just reduces ur sexual urge and that affects the other spouse. Now tell me, how do you actually cope with that?

is this suppose to be a question? My husband doesn't cheat so don't generalize

UyaiIncomparabl:
Cheat if you want to. It's a free world.

correct u my sister

Its a seed, bad seed. You need to remove that seed. Have a clean mind and confess every minute that you will not cheat. Live a free life devoid of corrupted lust

Patrinus:
Peeps who cheat on their partner on the regular will also come here to give advise, abi?

Vigilante mode activated for the usual suspect. . . If you've given advise on this thread and you are a serial cheat on your spouse, the thunder that will damage you is presently receiving annoiting from the devil!!!

Abi, I Don see like three cheats Wey give advice. All females.

Anybody can be tempted to cheat.
Inside or outside marriage.

Cheating is a choice.

Those that don't cheat value their religion, their family and their personal health and well-being.

Everyone isn't cheating.

Cheating is a choice

It's hypocritical that people desire emotionally fulfilling marriages, but refuse to pay the price for achieving it. Or rather insist that only one party pays the price while they continue in their randy and entitled ways. It can't work. What you invest in your marriage is what you will reap.

Think of every other lady you feel attracted to as someone's wife. Every other man is someone's husband. Run away from adultery.
It destroys families and careers. The OAU Prof is still a recent example

Zoharariel:


What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

Oil dey your head. Correct

Reasons why men cheat on their wife....
https://momsall.com/girl-child-girl-child-discrimination-tragedy-people-ignore/

UyaiIncomparabl:
Cheat if you want to. It's a free world.

pretty dumb hoe

weyreypey:

So you are using two monikers on a single thread? You sound very disrespectful to the female gender... What kind of reductionism is this ... describing the entire female gender as a pucci?
You obviously have a low self esteem.


#walksoutof thread.

devil beans indeed...

Hmmmm. As a married man I still get good advances from female staff. My ex of ten years came back n request we continue. I cannot afford that kind of lifestyle because it will crash the day.

Some women are possessed. Only a wicked soul will want to come between a couple. Self discipline is the key. Don't go where your life n personality will get puncture. Women are not fools.

The first chance they give you is called testing. after that u get to pay heavily.

very dumb advise [qquote author=Zoharariel post=69074923]

What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.[/quote]

Biglittlelois:



You are damaged beyond repair then

Exactly!!
as buhari always have something/someone to blame, i blame gold circle{for not designing condoms that can resist hairy dicks}, mtn{for providing
#100 data} and china{for making cheap phones}.
the damaged boy is the dirtiest and most stupid creation to grace mother earth...

Zoharariel:


What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

Guy if u are wise you will add 'Hu' to the 'man' there. I used to think like u until I discovered that even in those olden days, almost all females in my hometown have kids out of wedlock. How manage? Polygamy flows in human blood bro, if ur father/mother was prosmicios it can affect male & female kids. Many unfortunate guys are fathering other niggas kids

blackgold2018:
No they ain't same. It may be annoying and unacceptable but it's the hard truth..

All pucci are the same, you only fuvk face.

Continue cheating now. Just make sure you are protecting yourself, don't use your own misfortune to affect your wife. The person you are having affair with might be having STDs or UTI... So dot let your spouse unsaid curse come to pass

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

Bring your own let's confirm na
quote author=Colourich post=69125526]All pucci are
the same, you only fuvk face.[/quote]

KanwuliaExtra:
Sexual pressure should not exist if all is well in your marriage!

Wrong assertion. Ppl don't cheat because there is problem in the marriage. Even a very good loving couples can still see themselves cheating.

So there is pressure to cheat in a marriage or relationship? Sounds like u r not ready to be with that person,u can as well leave than to cheat. Don't be in a relationship or get married if u know u r going to cheat.

Zoharariel:


What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

You were making sense until your last paragraph

Made up my mind never to cheat, also I never stay in same room with a member of opposite sex, i never watch porn.spend free time with wifey also

Ishilove:

Oyb is well [/b]versed[b] in the art of conquering so I'm inviting him here so the op can sip from his fountain of experience

Vast

Stricker321:
Please for those married out there, how do you cope with sexual pressure?

So much temptation to cheat.

The pressure is just too much.

Your post suggested you're married.
First convince yourself that cheating is wrong thing to do.
Revive communication with your partner, there must be a problem in that area already.
Try increase your contact time with your partner. Avoid secrecy, be open to him/her. If possible limit your exposure to those 'others' that always make your heart 'beat'. Try to create a better family atmosphere in your home. Increase and explore different ways of 'love making'(not just sex). If the pressure is intense you may need to discuss with your spouse and solicite for his/her help.
Believe me, your feeling is 'trancient' it will soon go naturally but if you cheats you may find it impossible to stop!
You may need to be 'Born again' and seek counsel from mature christian.

Everyone in one time or the other may have found him/herself at that point u may be tempted to taste the water. We are all humans. Having such feeling may not be too bad, but allowing yourself to fall for that may be where the problem lies.

To successfully fight the pressure, you must make sure u love your wife and family so much that they mean all to u. Have mutual respect.
When the feeling to cheat comes to mind, ask urself, if eventually my partner got to know about this my intended action how will he/she feel about it? What will be the condition of my marriage. Even if my partner happened to forgive my, will i still be able to redeem my trust?

With the above questions, you may withhold yourself from that action. This can only work for partners that have respect for themselves and don't want the society to talk bad about their relationship. Ppl that have name to protect. Responsible pple.

In summary, try to see the end of the action you wnt to take even before taking it. This will reset ur brain and restrain many things u want to do.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Cheat if you want to. It's a free world.

Exactly, what's pressure to cheat?

Colourich:
All pucci are the same, you only fuvk face.

Big fat lie

Zoharariel:


What you're feeling is normal. Men are polygamous by nature. It was religion that brought about these man-made marital restrictions.

In spite of some people's beliefs that polygamy is morally wrong, the majority of men know that it is not natural to have only one sexual partner at a time - even though they will never come out to say it in order not be ostracized & stripped off their social statuses in their churches & social gatherings.

Psychologically, it is impossible for any man to be limited into eating only Akpu & Edikaikong soup decorated with Goat meats everyday for the rest of his life. A day will come when he would crave to have Pounded Yam & Egusi soup laced with different specie of fishes & edible reptiles such as crocodile.

My advice to you is to be smart about it and do not make a habit of it.

Pay no mind to all the people that will come on this thread telling to hold on for Jesus & the holy spirit - with their lying tongues & deceitful lips. They know how to speak peace to their neighbours but inwardly setting an ambush for them.

Do not allow man-made laws written & compiled into a book by some Roman charlatans under the influence of alcohol in the 6th century deprive you of your natural instinct & liberty to explore all the good things that life has to offer.

u get estates ND mansions for heaven