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Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by DavidEsq(m): 6:30pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Switup:
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Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Switup: 7:55pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
DavidEsq:sorry for thatm honestily i felt ure a witness.. Really sorry. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Austin234(m): 8:31pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Invariably, u do same to ur spouse. Too bad to be an accepted norm UyaiIncomparabl: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by DavidEsq(m): 9:44pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Switup:O yeah I am |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by KanwuliaExtra: 1:58am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Psoul: I don’t know what kind of sadistic love you mean o. Na so Jesus love you? :DOr na so you love Jesus reach, you nail am to “cross”.? Tufiakwa to love “that hurts” o! I nor want that kind! I believe in true love. But true love is something humans can NEVER achieve! I DON’T LOOK FOR IT! and I DON’T TRY TO GIVE IT. A waste of time and energy. Please, call it a marriage based on convenience, compromise or desperation. More like a “settlement contract”! |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Psoul(m): 6:25am On Jul 07, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra: Go through ur comments once again (this and previous ones) concerning this topic. You keep contradicting urself. Seems u don't knw what u beliv in. Pls make out time to re-organize urself. Like u have a lot running in ur head. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by DECENCY3: 8:47am On Jul 07, 2018 |
I married my hubby ten years ago when he had nothing. I actually love him and thought of aarting life with him. Due to working and schooling in different states I didn't join him immediately after marriage. His character changed to direct opposite o the person I married. It dawn on me that I have just made the biggest mistake of my life. He became vwrbaljy abusive . womanising and dodging responsibilities. He finally moves on with his gïrlfriends . I have three kids for him. I decided to press the ignore button and concentrate on me and my kids. After a while he said I have started dating someone else. That the marriage is over. His family and mine have tried talking sense to his head but he wouldn't listen to anyone. Rather he aais the only condition for the marriage to still hold is that I must follow him to a native doctor for findings and cleansing that he sees vision and dreams of me having s.x with other men. Meanwhile this is a year and seven I had swz last. But he wouldn't believe that. I feel like divorcing him and moving ahead. Sometimes I fwwl line having like one or two flings but my conscience wouldn't lete be. . Married couples only please advise me |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by sainty2k3(m): 10:09am On Jul 07, 2018 |
danberg:Yinmu What if the woman likes another mans money And the men likes another woman's Body How do you practically avoid this two major cause of loss of self discipline amidst married folks |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by KanwuliaExtra: 11:44am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Psoul: You went off the topic and I replied you. The topic is not about loving someone and cheating. It is about resisting sexual pressure. What you raised has nothing to do with the topic. I repeat: If all is well in your marriage, sexual tension or temptation to cheat will never be an issue. I know what I believe in, but that is a different topic entirely. Read topic again. Stricker321: Why is there the temptation to CHEAT? Why is “the presssure too much”? You are married and you have the urge to cheat? DO YOU LACK FULFILLMENT at home? Answer: Staleness in the bedroom and lack of self control control. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Psoul(m): 12:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra: I still insist that u may be confused or may be u talk and forget what u just said. Even the quoting u brought up did not show hoe I derailed from the topic. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by nemynely(m): 1:05pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Zoharariel: Balderdash! How will you feel when you find out your wife has been ministered to by another man? Whatever is good for the goose is also good for the gander. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by KanwuliaExtra: 1:08pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Psoul: Ok. Thanks. Let’s stick to the topic. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by nemynely(m): 1:24pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Dear op, Good question. Real question. Any man who doesn't face this challenge is either gay or an eunuch. What I usually do at such times are: *Flee from the source of temptation. *Become extra close to my wife, arrange dates with her, spend more time with her, buy her things, just generally make sure that till the temptation storm passes, my wife is almost always around me, menses or no menses, pregnant or not.if she has gone on a journey, it may have to be cut short etc *If wifey ain't around and really far away for legit reasons, then I must ,after fleeing, pray more, fast, study the word more, listen to messages that center on temptation, worship more, fill my mind with only good and pure things, desist from playing with my body etc. *Remind myself of the covenant I entered into with my wife 12 years ago, that it's her alone - her breasts, her lips, her vagina, her body alone will I nurture and cherish till death do us part! *I tell myself "why do something you know is bad only to end up saying sorry" , so to avoid the guilt trip and free my conscience, I choose to do right always. *Who is in control of my body? My hormones, my desires or me? If it's really me, then my hormones and desires are subject to me. * 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by IamPlato(m): 2:29pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:... Hmmmm... I Don De Fear You O babe... Someone Like You, will Wake Your Boyfriend At 1am to Pour Him Acid |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 4:49pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
mimimile93: Mod didn't ban u... She report u then the atuo ban u. After quote, u will see 'report' under comment } enter report just read d rule number 2 deal on abuse... Scroll down in inbox and write 2. Instantly ' if that write contains abuse word' that profile is ban. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
phenom666:Ive never reported him. Someone else did |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by NoToPile: 7:21pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
All these palava on top sex One can get tempted yeah especially by what you see but allowing the thoughts to linger that you even start considering the temptation to the extent it becomes a pressure (abi I am not getting what pressure means again?) is what I find alarming The most annoying statement I have read and still read on nairaland is the 'Men are polygamous by nature' statement. Wait first who even started brandishing that lie up and down around here. Temptation is temptation it can happen to any man. Pressure is on another level entirely abeg meaning you are constantly being moved to cheat on your wife. Ka ma ri ooo 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by NoToPile: 7:31pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
newoffer: Bros no vex but I just had to quote you for emphasis sake Apart from the moral and religious part of it, cheating is very expensive ke. I don't know how men reason sha. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by milemimi93(m): 7:37pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
phenom666: thank u sir. That means it was NwanyiAwkaetiti that reported me.. Fear women.. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 8:35pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
milemimi93: Anybody can report u. Even me can report u without u insulting u. Any comments that contain abusive message any profiles' can report u. Thank u. Happy I can be of help. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 8:39pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
milemimi93: Anybody can report u. Even me can report u without u insulting u. Any comments that contain abusive message any profiles' can report u. If u want to insult someone put dot inbtw word example- I.d.i-o.t. with that u can't be block but, ur comment will b removed. Thank u. Happy I can be of help. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 8:41pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:I did not said u reported him, any low life feminist like u would have. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by milemimi93(m): 8:51pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
phenom666: Ok thank you. Let me start reporting my haters |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 8:55pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
milemimi93:No problem especially women who are feminist. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
milemimi93:Nope. I never reported you after all I was dishing it hot back to u. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
phenom666:Ohhhooooooooo! So i serve a guy hot and I'm a low life feminist? Anyways, na u buy data so u can post whatever. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by milemimi93(m): 9:09pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Ok mama! But that doesn't mean I won't report u anytime I see you post trash here.. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
milemimi93:Real niggas don't snitch. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 9:30pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Y can't u serve him hot meal's that y many girls like u are still single. Waiting for rich man to sleep u off ur feet with money. Better help any man u c n build a home with him. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by milemimi93(m): 9:41pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Ok chocho! |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
phenom666:My dear don't believe everything you read here. I could b a dragon on NL and timid as a sheep in real life. So don't judge anyone merely by what they post here. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Pressure To Cheat On Your Spouse? by phenom666(m): 10:07pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Bible say "what d mind thinkth ur mouth sayeth". Believe me when I say u are rubblish, most women today are nothing to write home l about. Finish from a private university and girls there love money like die, about to write my post umte exam in unizik just hope girls there make sane, can ever marry a feminist, 'fulll of pride'. If a man don't money can't u girls help him, God created women to be a comforter n helper. Stop depended on men start helping them n c if he doesn't marry u. D very reason y rich men are behaving like lost puppy. They c women as leeches. Step up ur game... Reduce ur make up... Increase ur helping spirit. |
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