Good morning...
I wanna share briefly my latest weirdest experience because I haven't been in such situation my whole life (dating an older lady). in fact I've always condemned the act from people who does.
OK so I met this lady sometime last year very young, tall, curvy and fair in complexion. of course I was aware she's older than me obviously from her looks but i wasn't ready to consider that all I wanted was a conversation with her at least. So i summoned courage, walked up to her and said hi" she was just too damn nice and calm when she replied back with a broad smile. I was so excited (I was already behaving like mumu inside tho I was the only one aware) so we introduced each other and exchanged numbers that day. (mind you I'm also a cute, young ,vibrant dude.....go and hit your head on the wall if you like).
We started talking on whatsapp and got closer by the day always calling her to check up on her and her kid he's 16 years old. She told me she's never been married and the father of her kid dumped her when he impregnated her so she has been taking care of the boy alone. she's 36 years old and she's doing fine for her self with a big beauty saloon. so fast forward to the past few months, I noticed she was into me as well considering the way she talk to me and call me all the time to check up on me... even giving her son the phone to talk to me and all that loving you whatever. i became very confident and then I dropped the bomb ( asked her out). She refused and told me she likes me but the age difference is too much and she never had that thought in her whole life dating a younger person. I was worried and told myself repeatedly (I be mumu chai, I don F. K) you know, I started feeling bad about it and felt I've trespassed. but I still maintained the friendship and I never said anything pertaining dating again.
But one day she started asking me tricky questions on whatsapp chat about how I treat a woman, and how what I like and dislike about a woman and all that... I answered her sincerely but I pretended like I don't know it was a tricky question trying to know the level of my maturity.
fast forward to when she invited me to her house one day and we talked joke and she entertained me with nice meal and wine..... so I thought to myself to try asking her out again which I eventually did and to my greatest surprise, she accepted and that's how we started dating and having fun. I just made this brief not to bore you guys...... Now the question is Am I doing the wrong or right thing dating a single mom older than me with 7 years

Did her nunu taste 7yrs older?

Shebi na you ask her out?
Why the right/wrong question at this point?
Biko, carry your wahala dey go.

Nothing is wrong about it, bro. Just make sure you study her more and understand each other. Introduce God into your relationship and you are both blessed.

Neofingerz:
Good morning...
I wanna share briefly my latest weirdest experience because I haven't been in such situation my whole life (dating an older lady). in fact I've always condemned the act from people who does.
OK so I met this lady sometime last year very young, tall, curvy and fair in complexion. of course I was aware she's older than me obviously from her looks but i wasn't ready to consider that all I wanted was a conversation with her at least. So i summoned courage, walked up to her and said hi" she was just too damn nice and calm when she replied back with a broad smile. I was so excited (I was already behaving like mumu inside tho I was the only one aware) so we introduced each other and exchanged numbers that day. (mind you I'm also a cute, young ,vibrant dude.....go and hit your head on the wall if you like).
We started talking on whatsapp and got closer by the day always calling her to check up on her and her kid he's 16 years old. She told me she's never been married and the father of her kid dumped her when he impregnated her so she has been taking care of the boy alone. she's 36 years old and she's doing fine for her self with a big beauty saloon. so fast forward to the past few months, I noticed she was into me as well considering the way she talk to me and call me all the time to check up on me... even giving her son the phone to talk to me and all that loving you whatever. i became very confident and then I dropped the bomb ( asked her out). She refused and told me she likes me but the age difference is too much and she never had that thought in her whole life dating a younger person. I was worried and told myself repeatedly (I be mumu chai, I don F. K) you know, I started feeling bad about it and felt I've trespassed. but I still maintained the friendship and I never said anything pertaining dating again.
But one day she started asking me tricky questions on whatsapp chat about how I treat a woman, and how what I like and dislike about a woman and all that... I answered her sincerely but I pretended like I don't know it was a tricky question trying to know the level of my maturity.
fast forward to when she invited me to her house one day and we talked joke and she entertained me with nice meal and wine..... so I thought to myself to try asking her out again which I eventually did and to my greatest surprise, she accepted and that's how we started dating and having fun. I just made this brief not to bore you guys...... Now the question is Am I doing the wrong or right thing dating a single mom older than me with 7 years

The bolded means you're very childish

She is 36 and 7 years older than you, how old does that make you.

Guy, there are lots of guys younger than you that are father of kids or divorced.

Wake up, you are a full grown adult and can make these decisions yourself.

As long as your relationship is not a crime and it is not built on deceit, then there is nothing wrong with it.

FortifiedCity:
The bolded means you're very childish

yes I know that's why I brought myself here for you elders to put me through so why not ignore my childishness and do what is expected of you as an elder...thank you
as making jokes and trying to attach fun to a thread is childish now God help us o

The fear of single mothers is the beggening of wisdom