75% of girls are already doing it. Most guys go on a date with a lady a cant tell if she's in a relationship cuz she doesn't say so.

If you are with a girl, she receives a call and tries to whisper or excuse herself to receive the call. My guy you are dating someone's girlfriend.

Some girls will even change their guy's name from "HONEY" to "H"or best friend. They know themselves. They are already reading this.

Worst part is that she would claim to be single.
Jesus!! I don see them many. All hail the girls. Only few girls will own up to be in a relationship. But the rest will deny like Peter. ALSO THE LIES SHE TELLS U. IN ALL HER PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS ITS ALWAYS HER EX'S FAULT.

I MEAN WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS CLAIM TO HAVE BROKEN UP OR BROKE UP BECAUSE HER EX DID SOMETHING WRONG. For me i have once date a girl that was actually in a relationship cuz she told me but fear still catch me small

UyiIredia:


So I have to pick one to be in love. That's wrong. One can love more than one person. And I won't like it if she's fucking who she sees but don't claim to know my mind on it. Me sef never sabi mind well. And yes engagement is a promise that's why you don't see others during engagement and it is wrong to date at that time. Haba. Before engaging you should be sure and have known that you'll won't take the other guy. Marriage too is a promise if you don't know.

just say the truth going by ur initial statement that girls are free to go on a date but should inform the bf.(1) if ur gf tells u she is sleeping over in the house of her male friend will u agree, (2) if ur gf tells u she wants to go and bleep one guy like that, will u agree?

No it is not.infact that cheating

Not even guy; na guys...... Issorite, Happy dates-going

Luciferhimself:

I can never be tempted

are u the devil

Question should be: is it proper to ask MTN to pay you if you work for Glo.

Ladies if you’re looking to get married, (I don’t know if every lady wants this) But if you want it, please feel very free to go on dates with other men until you find the person you’re looking for. The men who hold you captive in these so called relationships for three to seven years will come online and anonymously say that all single ladies over 30 are disgusting and whatever else they can find to disparage you. They are also present on this thread trying to discourage you from moving ahead with your life. Don’t waste your time with time wasters.

Not every relationship must lead to marriage but if that’s what you’re looking for, be proactive about your own wants. Sitting there waiting for him to ask you to marry him will not favor you. You should be in charge of your life.

You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. So by all means, please do.

How is the word “ethics” being here in actual fact in what capacity?
Morals, religion and social norms is what governs relationships not ethics.

69MissedCalls:


The problem is most of you are confused as to what a relationship is.

Relationship means nothing.. you can tie a lady with ur so called relationship and no intention of marrying her. What will be of her faith when it happens?

Evince:


just say the truth going by ur initial statement that girls are free to go on a date but should inform the bf.(1) if ur gf tells u she is sleeping over in the house of her male friend will u agree, (2) if ur gf tells u she wants to go and bleep one guy like that, will u agree?

Am I the girl's father, a spy or God that wants to know everything she is doing? We will simply agree that we can both date other people, in case you don't know I can work with the other arrangement where we will see only ourselves. I don't need to tell you what I think on other issues. Why I said she should inform the boyfriend.is for no deception. Personally, if I find out she goes behind my back I will be disappointed. I am not like other that won't say anything then when yawa gas they will start taking or leave like that. Let's make the matter plain, will we date.other people or date alone. Simple. Many relationship problems won't happen if people were just honest.

ItzBIM:
To do what ? When u have your man. Nothing in this world is free, I spend on you I must reap the benefit.

You don't even allow him to land....bros you dey vez

ItzBIM:


I bet you’re single as fuckkk

Stop using in appropriate word on ladies. You should at least appreciate the fact that a female contributed because they hardly come out of their shell to participate in online fora. How do you think you could encourage more to air their opinion with your use of word?

XhosaNostra:
If the nature of the relationship is platonic, I see nothing wrong with someone going out with people of the opposite gender. Now if she knows the guy is interested in more than just a friendship, then it's problematic imo. Because it's encouraging in a way to go out with someone who has feelings for you, unless you spell it out to them, in no uncertain terms, that you're IN a relationship. Personally I think something like that should only be said once. If a guy persists regardless, then you probably shouldn't be friends with him, because he's disrespecting your boundaries/ relationship. So yeah, going out with friends is not an issue. The issue is only when you're aware they like you, but you still sleepover etc.

Really?

UyiIredia:


I am liberal in that regard. As far as I am concerned it is not wrong because she is not engaged or married to her boyfriend yet. So at that stage she needs to meet with other guys to have options for marriage.

What w



ill make it wrong is if she lies about it or if she is really close with her boyfriend and still does it because in such situations there is deep emotional involvement and other relationships can hurt. The best thing is to sort out this issue on a first date whether the girl can go out with other guys. If you as a woman want to go out with other guys while at the boyfriend stage make it clear to him and don't hide it, that's also bad.

all these lies in social media is boring to me how many ladies on this forum dates only one guy??

Dear OP,

Yes it is ethical, just like it is ethical for a pastor to be seen at night, coming out of a whorehouse by himself, after going to ‘evangelize’.
Are you kidding me? This makes front page?
You know the meaning of ethical in the context you used it here is ‘morally good or correct’ right?

Here is an example of ethics in a somewhat extreme context; Imagine that you are the CEO of a public firm, and you need to hire a lawyer for your firm. Your sister is the best lawyer in the country, she easily meets the requirements for the position.
If you employ her, it may be seen as nepotism, so in most properly run organizations, she’ll be excluded because it may be perceived to be nepotism. They aren’t just fair, but they must also appear to be fair.
And you ask if it is ETHICAL for a lady in a committed relationship to go out with other guys? If you ask ‘is it bad’, that becomes open for various perspectives/opinions but not if it is Ethical.
Here are some synonyms of the word Ethical, try substituting it for any of them
moral, right-minded, principled, irreproachable; More
righteous, high-minded, virtuous, good, morally correct;
clean, lawful, just, honorable, reputable, respectable, noble, worthy;
praiseworthy, commendable, admirable, laudable;
whiter than white, saintly, impeccable, politically correct;
@seun/mods
A lot of Nigerians wouldn’t always remain in this present shallow level of intelligence, you are in a position of influence, to promote intelligent, educative, informative and beneficial discuss in the public to help pull us out of our present state. Even as a joke, this topic, in my opinion, is a bad one. I’m not sure if the OP communicated exactly what he/she intended to, but the MODs can up the quality by censoring topics like this.

PUSSYHOE:
Is it a sign of good virtue by a lady in relationship to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc? if wrong tell us your reasons.

Ere kini Aja nb'Ekun se?
If I allow you to go on date with other men, be sure I'm not planning to marry you.
How would you feel as a lady if you go to your Man's and find another lady that slept over night there?
Unless it's very late in the night and you can't get home, I can't allow any lady not my girlfriend to sleep in my house.

kennygee:
Relationship isn't marriage, I'll marry you isn't marriage. Do things the way that will please God.

Shalom.

Yes, my sister, being in a relationship and sleeping around with every guy in town will please the god of thunder.

ItzBIM:


I bet you’re single as fuckkk

Savage

Yes, it is ethical. Just as it is ethical for a pastor to go on a pilgrimage to mecca while still being a pastor! God should have left us with our complete ribs!

ItzBIM:
To do what ? When u have your man. Nothing in this world is free, I spend on you I must reap the benefit.

walahi i must reap the benefits too.
either in this world or hereafter

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AZeD1:


This is not true. I have gone out with different ladies to movies, dinners and the likes and nothing happened. Same way my fiancee goes out with guys and I don't care, heck half of the time I encourage it.

Stop hanging out with broke people. When you go out with real ladies, they'll foot their bills. They make their own money.

Maybe you should question that your fiancée more. You never can tell

MissRaine69:
How is the word “ethics” being here in actual fact in what capacity?
Morals, religion and social norms is what governs relationships not ethics.

Again you aren't making sense because ethic is a good/right behaviour standardized by religion and social norms. isn't relationship a social act, didn't religion pry on husband and wife relationship?

what Is exactly your problem?

Liberator007:
Maybe you should question that your fiancée more. You never can tell

There's nothing to question.

People that will cheat will cheat, nothing you can do about it. Your girlfriend/fiancee/wife spends 8 hours working in an office with different guys 5 days a week, if you think stopping her from hanging out with guys would prevent her from cheating, you are just deceiving yourself.

No

stewpid questions.... stewpid questions everywhere

UNETHICAL

Dearie, the best time to enjoy ur life is when u r single.
Going on date with other guys does not mean u have to become their bed prey.
In as much as u r not yet engaged to a monitoring spiritz, why not?

All this experience of urs will not make u do otherwise when u have fully become a registered MRS cuz u will know u have done all that.

Take it or leave it, majority of the married ppl out their now live n wishing to live like a single person but it's late cuz if u do otherwise then, it's cheating!

Be plain to urself, enjoy ur single life n stay true to God.

So the guys are saying they can't have it and the girls are cool with it.�
I'm an introvert so I don't go out much... but sometimes when I'm bored, I take myself out... MYSELF. I don't think I fancy the idea of someone I'm in a relationship with going out with other girls.
I don't do it, so don't do that to me. Dassol!

itsCornie:


You've sat all my dear,umu nwoke this days can't be trusted

when he finds out and dumps you, don't complain o, maka adi ama ama, Onitsha gwara Obosi.