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Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by Nobody: 4:58pm On Aug 24, 2018
bluemanice:


Guy respect yourself, is it a crime to ask question. I didn't force you to comment. Pls respect ur self

Ask any real nigga around.


When it comes to the some matters of the heart.
Only confirm insults can make the victim see the light.


Judging by those crap you wrote up there.
If you be my person for real life.
The kind talk you go hear from me ehnn.
Wise up G!
Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by milemimi93(m): 4:59pm On Aug 24, 2018
bluemanice:
Sorry is a little bit long
But please i really need your advice. Pls palz...
I meant this girl online which happened to be my old neighbor, but have not seen her before, we chart for few weeks, all of a suddenly she text me on messenger saying she need a boyfriend that I should help her out. I told her if looking for boyfriend for you is not possible, I never knew she was referring to me. So later on she text that she don’t need boyfriend again that she has gotten what she is looking for. I ask her who is that lucky one, she reply saying am the one. So I told her until I meet her before I decide whether to date or not. So we became friend for a week and then we started dating, things were moving well for us, she come to my house and I go to her house too. One day she called me, she told me she is travelling to Ibadan, I asked her why, and she said she lost her uncle that she is going with her mum. So I wished her journey mercy. So the following week I travelled to ogun state for a conference. Although we call each other everyday. One day she called me she said want to travel back to jos, so I told her am not coming to jos now till next week, she said the reason why she called is that she is short of transport that she needed 3k to add to her tp, I sent her 2k thinking she is going back to jos the next day. The next day she called and said her dad sent her the tp money, so I started rejoicing with her sayin she is lucky to have double tp, after that in the evening she called me and said her mum collected the tp money to treat her aunty that she fell sick. I muted for a second. So I was angry. To cut it short, after that day i notice she will call me everyday telling me she have headache, stomach pain or teeth problem. Well I sent her 3k installmentally to buy drugs.
One day I upload her picture and I tag her and I also commented “love is like a wind I can see it and I can feel it” so the next day 2guys commented saying “windy love”. So I checked the guy profile and I found out that she is dating the one of the guy, immediately I called and asked her “do you know mr so so. She replied saying “is my cousin but he likes me” I reply saying how can your cousin like you is not possible, she end the call and started saying all sort of things that she is disappointed in me, later on I called her back and apologize for what happened. She accepted, so the following day she blocked me on Facebook, I called her why did she block me, she said she did not, that is as if they hacked her facebook that she is unable to login since tester night. So I kept quiet and started suspecting her.. So the following day was Wednesday I went to the church and decided to branch her house. With a greatest surprised I met mum outside their house, so I prenteded and I did not greet her mum, and I quietely entered their house to buy pure water. So I became surprised and confused how comes her mother is in Jos. So Immediately I called her and told her "I saw your mum at Angwan rukuba" then I end the call, immediately she called me back I did not picked until the fourth call. She said " where did you see my mum, that was how I went to one place, I saw someone like mum so I rushed to tap" then I told her I was just playing, she became angry, I just use some excused shaa. So the next day I called and told her if there is any way she can get 3k to add to tp, she said she don't know but she will look for it, then she replied saying "send d one u have now, pls send it now now" so I didn't send her the 4k. So immediately I called a friend of mine and I told him to follow me to the girl house, we went there, I pointed the house for my Friend, he went in and ask of her, she came out so he told her "brother Johnson sent him to tell her she has been trying to call her she is not picking that she should call him back, she told my friend "I don't know brother Johnson" so my friend scope her shaa. So after my friend came out I asked him if he saw her, he told me he did, I did not believe him and I called "babe howfa sorry I did not send the tp, so how is Ibadan she said is fyn" we talked shaa, after d call I still did not believe not until we planned to call her as brother Johnson, she was carried away, she came out of the house and I saw her, immediately she saw me she turned back, I called and called her she didn't picked not until the fourth time, she told me am stupid, and she end the call.and she went ahead and block me on WhatsApp and so that I will not text her. In the evening around 11pm she unblocked me and text me "now I know you are very stupid, team work is the best" then block me back. So the next day she unblocked me, check my status and block me back, she did for 3days sha. Please palz I need your advice, I so much love this girl and also pretended to love me very well but I don't understand now is like a firm, please palz tell me whatcan i do now, please guys help me out

Bro I really feel your emotions.

This is what happens when you go into a relationship and leave your brain behind.

I'm gonna tell you the bitter truth then leave you with my advice.

The truth are:

1. The girl never liked you not to talk of love.


2. The girl saw you are the kind hearted person so she thought should could take advantage of that.

3. She telling you she wanted a boyfriend was a big red flag. No black girl does that. Rather they give green light.

4. When you first suspected her when those guys commented on your fb page, you wouldn't have let go so easily. You would have persist to know who this guys were to her. Maybe from there things wouldn't have gotten this far.

5. You are so into this girl even if she shows you an apple and tells you it's an orange you'll believe her. It seems you say amen to every prayer she made.

6. The reason why the girl is blocking and unblocking you is this, she wants you to feel the guilt for monitoring her then dropped her an apology text.

7. She knows u really love her and you will come begging.

8. That guy on her fb is her boyfriend..
For the benefit of doubt, add the guy on ur fb and chat him up.

9. The sicknesses the girl told u were all lies. Just a means to get money from you.

10. Her mother never collects any tp from her.


Advice :

1. Don't call her or send her text.

2 block her from your social networks.

3 channel your energy and emotions into something else.

4. Listen to music, go hang out with friends.

5. Get a hobby and focus on it.

6. When you don't call or send her text, she will want to call and either blame you or apologize. Which ever way. Make sure you don't pick her calls or read her msg. The moment u do, u might fall again for her.

7. Don't tell her u are done with her. Just ignore her completely.

8. If you want her to loose both games, text her boyfriend and let the guy knows who his babe is. The guy will dump her real quick if he isn't a cooch toaster.

9. Kneel down and thank God for dodging a bullet from a crazy leech.

10. Never ever fall in love again without a parachute. Whenever you go into a relationship, carry your head along and drop your heart in your pocket...


Let me up and let me know how it goes.

DON'T LET WHAT THIS GIRL DID MAKES YOU SEE OTHER GIRLS AS SAME. WE STILL HAVE SOME GOOD SHARKS IN THE OCEAN.

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Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 24, 2018
bluemanice:
old enough to be a father
and one small girl is doing u like this.
Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by lenghtinny(m): 5:00pm On Aug 24, 2018
You don't [need an advice angry
What you need is a flogging deliverance

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Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by ayokellany: 5:25pm On Aug 24, 2018
bluemanice:


Your brain as collapsed if this is the kind of idiot you desire to waste love on.
Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by sekem: 5:30pm On Aug 24, 2018
dingbang:
Ha.. At a point I got fed up in reading this that I even stopped half way.. Nonsense

Absolute nonsense

I couldn't even read it at all

I can't believe someone who must have gone through secondary school will just sit down and write all those thrash without using even a single paragraph

Our standard of education has truly fallen so low embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by kus4fame(m): 5:58pm On Aug 24, 2018
bluemanice:
Sorry is a little bit long
But please i really need your advice. Pls palz...
I meant this girl online which happened to be my old neighbor, but have not seen her before, we chart for few weeks, all of a suddenly she text me on messenger saying she need a boyfriend that I should help her out. I told her if looking for boyfriend for you is not possible, I never knew she was referring to me. So later on she text that she don’t need boyfriend again that she has gotten what she is looking for. I ask her who is that lucky one, she reply saying am the one. So I told her until I meet her before I decide whether to date or not. So we became friend for a week and then we started dating, things were moving well for us, she come to my house and I go to her house too. One day she called me, she told me she is travelling to Ibadan, I asked her why, and she said she lost her uncle that she is going with her mum. So I wished her journey mercy. So the following week I travelled to ogun state for a conference. Although we call each other everyday. One day she called me she said want to travel back to jos, so I told her am not coming to jos now till next week, she said the reason why she called is that she is short of transport that she needed 3k to add to her tp, I sent her 2k thinking she is going back to jos the next day. The next day she called and said her dad sent her the tp money, so I started rejoicing with her sayin she is lucky to have double tp, after that in the evening she called me and said her mum collected the tp money to treat her aunty that she fell sick. I muted for a second. So I was angry. To cut it short, after that day i notice she will call me everyday telling me she have headache, stomach pain or teeth problem. Well I sent her 3k installmentally to buy drugs.
One day I upload her picture and I tag her and I also commented “love is like a wind I can see it and I can feel it” so the next day 2guys commented saying “windy love”. So I checked the guy profile and I found out that she is dating the one of the guy, immediately I called and asked her “do you know mr so so. She replied saying “is my cousin but he likes me” I reply saying how can your cousin like you is not possible, she end the call and started saying all sort of things that she is disappointed in me, later on I called her back and apologize for what happened. She accepted, so the following day she blocked me on Facebook, I called her why did she block me, she said she did not, that is as if they hacked her facebook that she is unable to login since tester night. So I kept quiet and started suspecting her.. So the following day was Wednesday I went to the church and decided to branch her house. With a greatest surprised I met mum outside their house, so I prenteded and I did not greet her mum, and I quietely entered their house to buy pure water. So I became surprised and confused how comes her mother is in Jos. So Immediately I called her and told her "I saw your mum at Angwan rukuba" then I end the call, immediately she called me back I did not picked until the fourth call. She said " where did you see my mum, that was how I went to one place, I saw someone like mum so I rushed to tap" then I told her I was just playing, she became angry, I just use some excused shaa. So the next day I called and told her if there is any way she can get 3k to add to tp, she said she don't know but she will look for it, then she replied saying "send d one u have now, pls send it now now" so I didn't send her the 4k. So immediately I called a friend of mine and I told him to follow me to the girl house, we went there, I pointed the house for my Friend, he went in and ask of her, she came out so he told her "brother Johnson sent him to tell her she has been trying to call her she is not picking that she should call him back, she told my friend "I don't know brother Johnson" so my friend scope her shaa. So after my friend came out I asked him if he saw her, he told me he did, I did not believe him and I called "babe howfa sorry I did not send the tp, so how is Ibadan she said is fyn" we talked shaa, after d call I still did not believe not until we planned to call her as brother Johnson, she was carried away, she came out of the house and I saw her, immediately she saw me she turned back, I called and called her she didn't picked not until the fourth time, she told me am stupid, and she end the call.and she went ahead and block me on WhatsApp and so that I will not text her. In the evening around 11pm she unblocked me and text me "now I know you are very stupid, team work is the best" then block me back. So the next day she unblocked me, check my status and block me back, she did for 3days sha. Please palz I need your advice, I so much love this girl and also pretended to love me very well but I don't understand now is like a firm, please palz tell me whatcan i do now, please guys help me out






@OP, PLS COME AGIN

Re: Please Guys Advice Me Wisely by JONSYN7154: 6:07pm On Aug 24, 2018
Another "olila" on the loose.

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