Having a baby comes with a full package of responsibilities and challenges and research has shown that couples are more likely to feel burden and awkward once they start having children. Mothers are often occupied with the physical care of their kids while neglecting their partner; similarly the fathers are occupied with meeting up financial demand of the family, thereby unconsciously leaving a gap in their relationship.
Parenting styles are a growing cause of concern in marriage, Perhaps your partner is in favour of sticking to a strict parenting routine, while you prefer to be more flexible. Maybe you disagree on whether you want exclusive breastfeeding for the baby or not. Whatever the issue, it can become a source of stress in your relationship, particularly if the problem is brought up repeatedly without reaching to a compromise.
Communicating effectively is key, so be sure to schedule some time to discuss parenting due to changes in intimacy. The new moms’ body and hormonal changes affects her desire for intimacy thus leading to reduced sexual desire after birth. While intimacy is an important part of sustaining healthy relationships, it’s really important for couples to discuss how they feel considering the fact that both of them have different sexual behavior, arriving at a middle ground with no sense of judgement will help you restore intimacy back at whatever level. Note that the physique of your partner (wife) may not be as attractive as before. She needs some time to firm-up and look attractive after birth.

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