Its not!
you can make it easier by writing her a letter that starts thus:

dear xxxxx,
how are you and how is your heart,i hope all is well with your rosy heart, if so DOXOLOGY,  Grin Grin Grin
I have been admiring your swagga for a while now and would not mind if we go bumper to bumper ,im sure you know the implication,


so guy, just flow like that and walahi!she musto gel! Grin Grin Grin

@reideer, lol , reminds me of the sec. school days of toasting. Also, such phrases (if thus, DOXOLOGY) were common amongst candidates in WAEC (English) exam.

I wanna believe the above post was sarcasm? Else, that would be the wussiest and dumbest so-called love/toasting letter I've ever read. Most girls (even gays) would bitch-slap the hell outta you for that rubbish.

@OP,
Attraction isn't a choice, it just happens, always act/do cocky and funny things when you're around her but don't make yourself too available; just give her the gift of missing you. If she's really into you (i.e has feelings for you), you'll notice it like a prophesy or revelation. When this happens, I'm sure you'll have a testimony. Cheers

It's not degrading. But then again, you do what feels natural and comfortable for you.

which is to move on with my life and studies. . . . will do that. . .

well as long as you do not have more than 5 babes at a time, 5 is the limit

Someone give Slap1 1 slap for posting this topic.

in our society theres nothing degrading asking out a girl, dnt try it in sharia states oooo, bt my advice is: tell her how you feel about her at the right time, in the right place and in a good atmosphere,

beware of y*rima

Parnassuss:

Someone give Slap1 1 slap for posting this topic.

Drab!

@poster,

except u want to walk up to her and say, ." baby, I like u. I want to Zap U. come let's go to my room",  there is nothing degrading about toasting a girl.

If u luv sb walk up to her and tell her u luv her, havent u heard the song? If u dont act fast, u could lose ur woman to a faster broda.

I concur with this poster.

I wan once in same shoe with him some years ago before i learnt the rules behind successful relationship with women. There're two classes of ladies, those in search of new adventures, and the other class belongs to those in search of their knights in shining armour. So, first you have to be able to find a class the lady belongs to, before you take a decision.
Girls in the former class will prefer guys not to let their feelings known to them, once that is done the guy will become a wussie to them. They prefer the guy not to run after them, cos they are used to several guys running after them. If a guy decides to call less often, they think maybe they aint pretty enough for the guy, or the guy doesnt seem attracted to them, so they will keep looking to getting his attention.

So guys, if you aint looking for any serious relationship, never open yur feelings out to a lady. I have never opened my feelings to woman before, and before i do that, i usually make sure i've gotten to the promise land where milk and honey overflows.

I have not seen the lady i wanna marry, and i aint even looking for one at the moment.

^^^ Oga~madam, how ur own no be na? which 1 u no dey? u be man abi u be woman?

if u be man correct ur mistake for ur profile. thanx!

By all means TOAST HER
But, not inside a TOASTER
Because then, the law will TOAST,  
The TOASTER

Pafuri:

By all means TOAST HER
But, not inside a TOASTER
Because then, the law will TOAST,
The TOASTER

Weak rhymes.

Check this:
Dear my POSTER
By all mean TOAST her,
But not with a TOASTER.
Because the law will ROAST ya,
On Facebook you may POKE her,
But that will make you a JOKER.

@Poster

It's degrading if she does not want you to begin with. Besides, can't you just be friends with her and if there is a compatability, then you can take the friendship to the next level? All this boyfriend/girlfriend from the satrt is the reason why people loose interest in the other person quickly. Learn to get to know someone first and then take it from there.

@ okija juju : Strong rhymes. But you and I are not competing, Mr. Jay Z.

Poster, na rejected one dey come for you. act like a man mehn!

Thanks, teacher.

@ Nakedall : Thanks, Amebo.

@ Babzilla, i lyk ur advice.e make sense die! (LOL)

Hey smally, ask your papa if it was degrading toasting your mum.
it think Seun and co should ban juvenile incursion into nairaland.
degrading? hahahahahahaha

Make una no blame the poster.

After I gave his post some thought, I understood his angle.
Some girls act like retards. I mean, they are beautiful, dressed really fly, and a guy walks up to them and starts flirting with them, then they start behavin like idiots. They give you this look like you just insulted them. Yeah!! I think this is the angle the poster is coming from.

Mr. Poster, No it isnt o!! Its just that some of these girls just dont know how to behave when they are being flirted with. When you see a girl react rudely to your advances, she just has acute inferiority complex. Maybe she feels intimidated by you.
Think about it.

i ve always been a victim to such post, girls coming my but guess what? i always let go, i dont get stick to them making them to wider within a short time 

Nothing wrong with toasting, it how you do it that matters.

Take the bold step and be reay 4 its consequence