Hello nairalanders, have been on this for a while now and I don't know to go about this... There is this girl, I asked her out, though she really like me and she showed it which everyone knows that she really like me. When I asked her out, she din't give me a response at first but she was showing signs she will say yes.. She really confide in me so much, She love being around me, holding and laughing me with me which everyone thinks we are dating.. Fast forward, when we were chatting I asked her for her response, she said she has told me for a long time that it can't work out, i got so frustrated that I burst out and blasted her.. She cried and I left her. But my mind is not at rest cuz I haven't been talking to her for a long time which i know she will not be happy too.. My mind is in double way now, maybe I should call and beg her so we should get back ,still giving her time maybe she will say yes or I should just forget her and everyone should go separate ways.. Am really confused.. Please help a nairalander

Don’t hurt yourself and her. The damage you have done is already enough. She’ll never say yes to you so just leave things the way they are right now. Move on

It's a choice between going back to the friendzone frustration and being free to get someone who cares about your feelings.

Make her jealous

Extend an olive leaf to her by calling her, don't do more than 3 missed calls, if she doesn't pick, send her a text

The message you should pass through to her is :
Tell her you are sorry
Sorry for talking harshly to her
She means a lot to you
It was time that you have a serious relationship and she was first on your mind
But since she doesn't share the feelings, you have to move on

Drop the call, don't let her drag you into any discussions to let out the steam. The more she thinks about what you say without the opportunity to say it, the deeper your image digs into her. It's psychological

Then finally, get involved with some other girl. New girlfriend preferably but not necessarily, just create an impression that someone has taken her place.

Good luck