epelumi42:
I feel offended by this post and here is why:

Many Nigerian ladies don't understand the concept of feminism and that's fine. A plus for your post, but the fact that you chose to create a stereotype is crazy.

feminism does not indicate men-hating, it means giving women equal chances and opportunities as men. That women should not be assigned tasks just because they are women and men should not think they are superior because they are men. Feminism tries to remove the concept of man's world.

It is evident that many men here are threatened by the idea of having women who believe in gender equality. Feminism is about empowering women, not making them subjects. But does that mean you can't spend on a woman? So because a woman wants gender equality, you shouldn't help her out? That's basically what lovers should do for each other. They don't do it because they think they are superior to each other, but that they love each other.

This post is practically insinuating that feminism is nonsense and judging by the way people responded here, many men are threatened by the idea of women not submitting to their wills. jeez...

EmekaBlue:
u seem right!

fadedvoiceds:
Fake thread by an alpha male to glorify his ego.

Feminist this and that ,is feminist the reason for your problems ?

The way y'all men behave whenever you see or hear the word "feminist" is enough to justify the movement.

Any man who hate feminism hate and doesn't mean well for women.

LordKO:
Ambiguity of the word and movement feminism have made it possible for small-minded women to gloss their toxicity with it, and by extension makes it to appear toxic itself. What you posted depicts a headstrong woman - whether she identifies with feminism or not - who's financially emancipated/or suddenly became financially emancipated. One who's either not in love with her husband or has fallen out of love with her husband or the once well-to-do husband is battling economic recession. A strong-minded woman (good and no nonsense woman) - whether she identifies with feminism or not - cannot exhibit those attitudes.

Yet, as bad as a headstrong woman is, she's better than a quiet and submissive but hypocritically disingenuous woman. With the former, you openly know that you have an enemy, but with the latter you have a frenemy - unless you're discerning enough to dissect people without hassle.

I doff my hat for all strong-minded women.

pocohantas:


But the thread is for guys that have dated feminists OFFLINE na, same guys that say feminists do not exist in reality.

If these ladies are different in reality, that means they can't exhibit the qualities highlighted by the OP and co.

So, who did they date...seeing that feminists do not exist offline?

Rukkydelta:
I will go and give thanksgiving in church the day tosyne2much and gang understands what feminism is really all about and not about being pompous and having shit attitudes claiming feminism

fadedvoiceds:
Fake thread by an alpha male to glorify his ego.

Feminist this and that ,is feminist the reason for your problems ?

The way y'all men behave whenever you see or hear the word "feminist" is enough to justify the movement.

Any man who hate feminism hate and doesn't mean well for women.

Zionista:
When a Bini feminist is married to a man with many landed property and she wants him to show her love in a way that will make her take over the property very fast

frozen70:
Lol,
women makes the world go round

A man will be dying for a lady and tries hard to woo a lady

when she accepts you let her handle the relationship, leaving her dying for you

What a world.

frozen70:
Lol,
women makes the world go round

A man will be dying for a lady and tries hard to woo a lady

when she accepts you let her handle the relationship, leaving her dying for you

What a world.

pocohantas:
I thought feminist do not exist in Nigeria.

I thought it all ends on the pages of Twitter and Nairaland...

I thought after ranting online, they all logout and submit to the men in their lives, 100%.

So, where una dey see feminist date biko?

This is contradictory... , albeit expected.
Please, there are no feminists in Nigeria.

deedy111:
I can personally relate with the last one, I met and dated one like that for few months, I almost gave up with all her rule and regulations and always perfect attitude, but I later liked when I finally bleeped her.

Hmm when I was bleeping her, was surprised how she couldn't manage or regulate the way she spoke in tongues, she was so carried away I had to slap her butts hard severally as a revenge of her earlier insult but she didn't even noticed
After the whole show if dare try to mimick how she did, only her face go tell me how far.

I love em more on bed

epelumi42:
I feel offended by this post and here is why:

Many Nigerian ladies don't understand the concept of feminism and that's fine. A plus for your post, but the fact that you chose to create a stereotype is crazy.

feminism does not indicate men-hating, it means giving women equal chances and opportunities as men. That women should not be assigned tasks just because they are women and men should not think they are superior because they are men. Feminism tries to remove the concept of man's world.

It is evident that many men here are threatened by the idea of having women who believe in gender equality. Feminism is about empowering women, not making them subjects. But does that mean you can't spend on a woman? So because a woman wants gender equality, you shouldn't help her out? That's basically what lovers should do for each other. They don't do it because they think they are superior to each other, but that they love each other.

This post is practically insinuating that feminism is nonsense and judging by the way people responded here, many men are threatened by the idea of women not submitting to their wills. jeez...

franchasng:
hahahaha....let me fire more bra

Feminists are a curse to today's world! They cause more harm than good!

How many feminists do you hear that they gave scholarships, empowered their fellow women financially or career-wise

It is after a man somewhere have helped them become financially okay as a woman that they remember feminism because they are so wicked to give back to the society that made them!

Can't Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie start a prized writers competition in Nigeria and Africa to help discover unknown African writers

Can't she start a publishing company to target helping fellow young and financially handicapped Nigerian female writers get discovered globally

Isn't that the kind of cause she ought to be pioneering than coming to destroy Nigerian women with a useless facade that the western world is already regretting ever starting

Bunch of wicked women hiding behind feminism to display their hatred and wickedness to humanity

pocohantas:


Hmmm, they won't understand this. Break it down...

I am actually surprised some of them have dated "feminists", I was beginning to believe their words that feminist do not exist in Nigeria. Maybe these ladies are not Nigerians

The highlighted shows you are wise.

monex:


feminism is conflicting both in definition and practice. I have heard many definitions of feminism myself.

And I am sure if you define feminism, There would be those feminists that would disagree with your definition. For instance I can ask:

Can I be a feminist and expect that the woman I marry will be responsible (or at least accountable) for cooking?

vivie01:
The alpha and no.8 though.

dumahi:
Now, why is nobody talking about no. 5? d nyashes of those beasts are actually look-alikes of the nyashes of those bloated, arrogant, slothful, slutty, stretch-mark-ridden-bodied, feminist, divorced ladies who often own shops to have little boy & girls to lord (lady) it over at work & gigolos to service their time-&-tide-wearied aged but ever eager holes. Publicly, they look formidable but whining babies in bed with under age boys/girls. Share this until it is read by every empty headed beast wearing transparent swim-suits outdoors & thinking it's classy of her to not regard men. Whether anybody likes it or not, manhood will remain the pride of womanhood 4 ever.

franchasng:
all what he wrote are 100% true of so-called feminists all over the world!

US President Donald Trump himself hates feminists!

If given the chance he will jail them all!

Feminists are enemies of humanity and natural order!

Feminists disrespect God!

Feminists are bitter women who have been severally heartbroken and used and dumped by toxic men they attracted into their life out of their stubbornness and stupidity!

All feminists end up as either divorced bitter women who end up gracing the beds of small boy gigolos forming handsome dudes with 12 packs!

Or they end up as single mothers/babymamas

The very toxic ones end up as forever bitter single aunties who no man finds attractive or worthy to be a wife.

Virtuous women are the salt of the world and they don't need to form or become toxic women in the name of feminism and they always meet amazing men due to their uprightness, openness, purity in heart and respect for mankind.

All the divorced, aged single white women patronizing internet romance scammers are feminists because their white guys have rejected them, so they look towards Africa for love!

Any lady u meet that gives you rule you must follow to date her or be her friend is toxic and not worthy of your time, discard her!

Virtuous women attract great men who worship them without them fighting for it! How many happily married women that married successful great men all over the world are feminists

Feminists if at all they find a man to marry temporary, they end up marrying weak men who are usually unheard and unsuccessful! Those are the only type of men they can attract; failed sissies!

White guys are no longer interested in marriage due to their women turning toxic in the name of feminism.

The few that marry when young divorce them when they open eyes to their useless feminism nonsense aimed at destroying men!

Nature has a way of balancing things and rewarding us for our rebellion, that is why nature sends internet scammers and playboys to all the feminists after they have ruined the lives of good men.

Nature pay them back by giving them gigolos who deal with them ruthlessly because they love handsome boys with big dick a lot, very corrupt set of women deceiving themselves with the facade called feminism!

All they care for is money and dick!!

epelumi42:
I feel offended by this post and here is why:

Many Nigerian ladies don't understand the concept of feminism and that's fine. A plus for your post, but the fact that you chose to create a stereotype is crazy.

feminism does not indicate men-hating, it means giving women equal chances and opportunities as men. That women should not be assigned tasks just because they are women and men should not think they are superior because they are men. Feminism tries to remove the concept of man's world.

It is evident that many men here are threatened by the idea of having women who believe in gender equality. Feminism is about empowering women, not making them subjects. But does that mean you can't spend on a woman? So because a woman wants gender equality, you shouldn't help her out? That's basically what lovers should do for each other. They don't do it because they think they are superior to each other, but that they love each other.

This post is practically insinuating that feminism is nonsense and judging by the way people responded here, many men are threatened by the idea of women not submitting to their wills. jeez...

spiritedtete:


Forget that thing feminism don't exist in Nigeria...

What we have in woman who tend to claim such is just arrogance that your money can repair.

pocohantas:


A typical Nigerian man, using money to induce submission and respect. Without money, lots of you are absolutely useless to an empowered woman. I say that with no disrespect in mind. Just the bitter truth.

Mind you, lots of rich men are battling with disrespectful wives.

Martin0:

pocohantas:


LOL, I hope that didn't come off rude. It is the reality anyway. Thanks to hypergamy in women, men can get away with a lot, so far he has money. Makes lots of them very uninterested in working on, other aspects of their lives. Which is why when they see a woman who wants more, they tag her an arrogant feminist... rather than telling themselves the truth. They suck.