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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by epelumi42(m): 9:32pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
WORDWORLD: Oh man, where do I start from? Indeed, individual rules will create chaos, and that is why we have society rules to abide by. Yet you can't tell me there are certain rules by the society that are flawed. The grounds of morality for example is a complicated subject and causes dissension all the time. we could go all day arguing, but it won't change the perspective you have. Because humans are dynamic. all I can do is make you see reasons why the cause of feminism is not a bad one. Gender equality and empowering women is not a bad idea. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
epelumi42: THANK YOU! CASE CLOSED. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by AlPeter: 10:08pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
epelumi42:LOL.... like I said you are new at this. so you don't know cocks warn hens and chicks of danger long before the danger gets to them and sometimes die fighting of predators? In the animal kingdom the female provides the food! The male might hunt it out but it is the FEMALES the ultimately decides whether the food is suitable for the young or not. let's even bring it closer in the mammalian class am sure it's the males that carry mammary glands and goes about protecting the little ones. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by epelumi42(m): 10:37pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
AlPeter: Oga, Park well. You're picking irrelevant examples to buttress your point. Cocks warn hens and chicks of danger? Hahahaha. The animal kingdom is diverse. Not all female animals provide for their children. And I'm a graduate of Animal science, in case you want to lecture me on what happens in the animal kingdom. This conversation is over abeg. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Xavier5(m): 10:48pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
tosyne2much, your damn hilarious. no 5, 7, 8 and 9 are so on point most especially the dressing part. #Xavier.
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by tosyne2much(m): 10:59pm On Oct 17, 2018 |
Xavier5:Thanks bro |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:33am On Oct 18, 2018 |
princfred: It's hilarious that you think every man is going to be able to change wives often. Do you think every man is Otedola? How much do you think the average Nigerian man makes a month? Is it Gbenga that's making 60k/month with 2 children from his first wife that'll have the resources to be changing wife often? Lmao! Not sure what country you think you're in, but the actual average Nigerian man is dirt poor and with our economic state, most cannot afford to have families on one measly income. Also not sure what ganja you've been smoking, but no, there aren't an increasing number of women going to babalawo's looking for a man. Life is not a nollywood movie. Many Nigerian men will tell you themselves, that cooking and cleaning is no longer enough. In our current state, a woman that makes a good income will find it easier to find someone than one that has no reputable skills beyond homemaking and places all of the financial burden on the man. Your snarky remark at women giving money to boys for sex, highlights your obvious bitterness about it. Because instead of pandering to the demands of a useless husband, most of these women would rather live their lives alone fulfill their emotional needs with friends and family, and their sexual needs from the virile, attractive men that they solicit sex from. After a woman has been married once, she realizes that men actually get a lot more from marriage than women do and women give up more for their marriages. And suddenly a stress free single life is much more appealing than the burden of a husband (again, statistics on the happiness of single men vs married men and single women vs married women). No one expects a woman to "house" a guy, why should she? But paying half the bills and expenses does give her half the rights and the responsibilities to the relationship/marriage. It makes no sense to take on all the expenses, when it can be shared with someone, which again, ironically, is what a lot of men are now looking for. How many men do you see going to village to find a girl that has no reputable skills beyond cooking and cleaning? Lol. They don't because they too no longer want that sole responsibility of financial providership. The likelihood of a woman becoming financially incapable, perhaps via loss of her job, is just as much as that of a man. But at least, just as you alluded to, women would at least have cooking and cleaning to fall back to if she can no longer contribute financially. It's something she can pick up to balance things out. What do men have to fall back on when they become financially incapable? Absolutely nothing. Once he can no longer provide, he's discarded like trash or routinely disrespected, humiliated and made to feel useless, because society knows that men are only good for one thing. And once that's gone, no one cares about you anymore and no one cares what happens to you. So either way, rant bitterly all you want, but women will be fine. Every man is free to enjoy sexual freedom. Everyone should enjoy sexual freedom. But the days of a man holding it over your head and coercing you to have sex, just because he gave you some money or bought you rice and chicken will be diminishing. Women will have sex with men that they want to, because they want to. And the ones that are smart enough to be financially set will still be more attractive for relationships than the ones sitting at home waiting for some guy to come and pay all her bills. Plus most men are just not hot enough to get casual sex, so tbh, a lot of them will likely still be getting sex in relationships anyway, while some others will be sexually starved when they realize that just because you have some money doesn't entitle you to sex (or they catch STDs from prostitutes - same thing really). All in all, Rome wasn't built in a day. It didn't take a day to develop the patriarchal society that we currently have, and as such, it won't take a day for feminism to spread to the majority part of the nation. But the fact that its already started and affecting the lives of men, is why many men like you are coming to the internet to display your anger about it. We don't need to have more women willing to fully provide for men to prove the validity of feminism, all we need is for them to take on half the expenses, which a lot of them are well on their way to doing. And with that financial contribution, they demand the rights and respect that comes with that. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 7:36am On Oct 18, 2018 |
dami456:Too bad you are soo out of touch men dont need to be super rich to change wives infact many poor men have more wives and children from different women. Again why do you insist on being so delusional about me feeling pain cos women pay small boys for sex ? Am even a small boy when it comes to that lol Me who is gallivanting for women to be more financially responsible towards the male now feeling pain over the few cases where it happens . Men don't need to go to the villages anymore those girls have moved to urban areas. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:51am On Oct 18, 2018 |
princfred: And how many of those poor men have children living remotely good lives? Most of them are living in poverty and hawking stuff and begging on the street. If you think urban regions where there's growing feminism, would be riddled with a bunch of poor men that have never heard of birth control, and are changing wives, then you're more delusional that I thought. Or as feminism grows and more women are become indoctrinated, they would agree to be a poor man's interchangeable wives, then I laugh in your face. The poor man having multiple interchangeable wives is a testament to an old patriarchal culture and another platform that feminism is changing. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:55am On Oct 18, 2018 |
epelumi42: Well said. Cooking and cleaning is a feminine role because we have humans just decided that it is. There's no cookbook or cooking manual that comes with the extra X chromosome or the female DNA. Women were taught and indoctrinated by society into taking up this role. And as such, can be taught not to. Or can have men be taught to in equal measure, as well. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 8:02am On Oct 18, 2018 |
dami456:You are only making more women to be delusional and arrogant long enough until they pass their prime and start jumping from one crusade to another or become alternative source of income for guys(who consider them as useful or useless as the amount they pay) as they have to pay guys for the service guys usually pay for or join #500 per round oloshos just to survive. The quality of life the children live is a different story the man is just living his life as those women become baby mamas. Hence those children hawking can be considered as victims of women new found feminism and domestic irresponsibility. From your other reply: So much out of touch delusional BS there So what makes you think the man will consider you worthy if after losing your ability to contribute financially, you now suddenly start taking up domestic responsibilities as your role? The very roles you were throwing at him. You really think men to be dumb. Babe, as soon as your money supply goes south you are on your own just like you take the man as useless for losing his financial capabilities. Thats equality, young woman. Feel free to bear the psychological burden which men obligatorily undertake. Who even wants and appreciates a wife whose sense of domestic responsibility is dependent and fluctuates with her financial input anyway? What makes you think 60k/month Gbenga will be stuck with the children when in reality, most times its the woman that goes with the children and become baby mama so Gbenga can still go roll with another woman with his 60k. Cooking is not enough but still important. Do you think the man married you mainly to come help him pay bills or to be responsible in the domestic and sexual front for him and be an emotional safe space and boost for him? If the former is the case, then you become very useless once you become incapacitated to do that. For that olosho part: A mans life is more in danger from gf since most times they make the man believe he is the only one soo overtime he starts bleeping raw (thinking he is the only king of the jungle ) unlike with Olosho where both parties are always careful and on their toes (like a midget at the urinary) to play safe (especially the guy knowing fully well that he is in no man's land). Spiritually, both are bombs range away from righteousness. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 8:12am On Oct 18, 2018 |
dami456:Great. Men can now do the cooking while women cut the flowers and lawn around the house, wash the car and follow up with repairs of home appliances and maintenance of the car just for the love of role swapping and no division of labor. |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by AlPeter: 6:49pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
epelumi42:you are a graduate of animal science? and you don't know this? oga you are a shame to that certificate you hold. In research there are never absolutes but I doubt you will know that. https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/how-much-protection-do-roosters-offer-against-hawks.858130/ https://www.quora.com/Do-cocks-bother-young-chicks |
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by tosyne2much(m): 8:43am On Oct 25, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Ayobami7(m): 10:18am On Nov 13, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Mercylike: 11:35am On Dec 17, 2023 |
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