During our relationship, I was always self-conscious about voicing my opinion, or God forbid, not agreeing with You on something. That was not allowed. Well now, after enduring so many years of suppressed emotions, I can happily say I don’t give a crap about what You think I deserve. I am SO MUCH more than Your sorry ass made me feel. I am more than You will ever know, and now that I know that, I will never let myself be mistreated by anyone in any way. So, thank You.

2. I learned that it is ok to say no

I was always forced to agree with everything You decided and was never allowed an opinion. You always made it seem like You were doing it all for my benefit and I was not capable of making a decision about anything regarding us or myself even.

Those days are over. When I freed myself of You, I realized how much I was being denied and how much more in control I can and SHOULD be of my life. After all, it is MY life, and who are You to tell me what I can or cannot do? Luckily, I am done with that, and today, I enjoy saying, ‘’No,’’ immensely. Whenever and to whomever.

3. I don’t need to justify myself to anyone

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