Let’s Talk About Sex: I’m Afraid Of Sex After Pregnancy, Please Help!

Q: I had my first baby about four months ago and since then I have been scared to be intimate with my husband. I feel physically fine but when we start to touch, I get worried and comfortable.

Is it normal to be afraid of sex after pregnancy? I want to be with my husband but everything just feels different than it was before. How do we move forward?

A: Having sex after pregnancy can feel like losing your virginity all over again mostly because childbirth does change you to some extent.

For one thing, you look different. If you had a natural birth, the sensations in your vagina may feel different. If you had a C-section, you now have a scar to be concerned about. Plus, childbirth changes your body in that you may be carrying a little (or a lot) more weight than before.

The point is for you and your husband to acknowledge that things may be the same as before. Talk about your fears to him. Help him understand what you’re really concerned about. Chances are, he’s probably nervous about what’s changed now that you’re parents. Opening up about your...Read More...

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I am not a woman but will speak from spiritual insight and discernment. You should control what you feel from your spouse view point. What I mean is your husband is a man and nothing has change in him. He may have been married to you some few months back or a year, so he stills see the beautiful woman he got married to or perhaps he only had sex with you only a few month back and has been starve for a while now due to the period of child birth, so he may likely want to begin from where he stops. In such case try and suppress you feelings, if possible try things, materials, tapes etc to increased your urge so that that feeling is restored. Because the devil has tricks and can calculate a man before he or she realizes it. Don't let issues develope so as to push the man out. Unsatisfactory sex marriage are the root of marry problems in marriages today So do not fall for the Devils trap.

Why I say so is that when my wife gave birth to our first child we didn't wait a month and two week to bounce back to action