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Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by supero13(m): 6:20am On Nov 09, 2018
very nice for us.

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Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by pansophist(m): 6:24am On Nov 09, 2018
Qsscruz:
Too many rules for the poor..Make money and watch everything you do turn to fun for the opposite sex..

True.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by 24hoursreporter: 6:28am On Nov 09, 2018
Watch out for slayqueens, dem go finish ya money
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by computerglobal(m): 6:34am On Nov 09, 2018
MJBOLT:
7.bringing all your friends without informing the guy


grin grin Ebina
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by QuickStandard: 6:37am On Nov 09, 2018
shocked
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Sadiqali24(m): 6:40am On Nov 09, 2018
VIPERVENOM:
Op the heading and the content of ur topic don't match at all
I though as much
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by tunary(m): 6:46am On Nov 09, 2018
Is this some sort of interview
People place too much value on less important things
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by dingbang(m): 6:50am On Nov 09, 2018
The one that annoys me is when a lady starts pressing phone.. The next time I spot a lady doing that, am walking away from that scene
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Eaugusta(f): 6:51am On Nov 09, 2018
joyfullyjoyous:
Some ladies can be funny. I remember a lady that had a date with a new guy she met. When they got to the joint and was asked to place her order,she quickly got up n went to the barbeque stand. When she got there,she ordered the biggest fish that she couldn't finish. Her date was surprised when the fish was brought and asked if she could finish it to which she said yes. Not quite long a man selling bitter cola passed by. She called him and took bitter cola worth about N300. Rather than pay herself, she asked her date to pay. He handed her N500 note n when the balance was given to her,she quickly put it in her purse. According to her friend that was there,she could not finish the fish barbeque and had to ask for a take away pack. Funny enough when she got home,it was her dog she gave it to as she was staying alone. A working class mature lady at that that was always complaining she had no man in her life.
That's the last time she saw the man as he was pissed off.
I find it difficult to believe this story.
What! shocked shocked shocked
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by forreelinc(m): 7:00am On Nov 09, 2018
MJBOLT:
7.bringing all your friends without informing the guy

8. grin don't use the kind grammar wey you no understand e.g: using decimate as a synonym for total destruction.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by OgahBohz: 7:01am On Nov 09, 2018
niggi4life:
Do people still have dates?

Gone were those days when you meet a girl and take her out on a date. Just like love letter era faded so is dating fading away.

Your first date with a woman should be when you guys meet on Fb, Twitter, IG and then you bring her to WhatsApp. You guys chat and get to know each other better, exchange pictures and constant calls and more chats follows.

As a sharp guy, 90% of your homework should have been done online, so that when you guys are meeting,good sex follows.... Shikena

..guy better olive oil dey your head....


why will I go on a first date whithout knowing the category of girl I going with... before anything , I must have known if she be hungry mutherfeker..


mostimes na me de make oder for my dates ..
ND d only reason I won't fuk her on dt day is if I am seeing MY OWN PERIOD ... LOLZ
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by AleAirHub(m): 7:05am On Nov 09, 2018
I just tire for the Op

Those rules are for broke guys not rich guys.
Well done cheesy cheesy cheesy
Qsscruz:
Too many rules for the poor..Make money and watch everything you do turn to fun for the opposite sex..
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Nobody: 7:13am On Nov 09, 2018
only fools enjoy taking a lady out on a date.

broke dudes pretending to be wizkid to impress the oloshó

50% of his attire was borrowed
100% of the money in his wallets was the proceeds he made from selling his mother's wrapper and jewellery.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Tonytonex(m): 7:16am On Nov 09, 2018
But on second date.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Nobody: 7:18am On Nov 09, 2018
Pavore9:
How a lady feels so entitled to go on a date with an empty wallet still baffles me! cheesy


I do not think ladies do that
I know I keep at least 5K in my jeans pocket, even when I don't go out with a bag/purse (it has been 2K though)
It's called "vex money" cheesy

So that when a date starts going sour, I (with the money)can pay for my meal, offer my date some for his trouble/plain dash it to him, even get a cab with it as the case may be!

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Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 09, 2018
chenzen:
only fools enjoy taking a lady out on a date.

broke dudes pretending to be wizkid to impress the oloshó

50% of his attire was borrowed
100% of the money in his wallets was the proceeds he made from selling his mother's wrapper and jewellery.


Dear darling you,
I beg (teach/cajole/command even, lol)you- please lose this mindset forever, okay?
It reeks of no hope, envy, negativity and "I will always be poor" Life is surely better than this picture, no?
I wish you a very happy life ahead
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by MOVIC6: 7:27am On Nov 09, 2018
all this shit ain't working
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by plugin4profit: 7:30am On Nov 09, 2018
Qsscruz:
Too many rules for the poor..Make money and watch everything you do turn to fun for the opposite sex..
I agree with you.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by PotatoSalad(m): 7:34am On Nov 09, 2018
The phone one i agree. Press phone while with me, I'll collect it and put in my pocket till when we get home. Ina apu ara?
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Pavore9: 7:35am On Nov 09, 2018
merahki:



I do not think ladies do that
I know I keep at least 5K in my jeans pocket, even when I don't go out with a bag/purse (it has been 2K though)
It's called "vex money" cheesy

So that when a date starts going sour, I (with the money)can pay for my meal, offer my date some for his trouble/plain dash it to him, even get a cab with it as the case may be!

That is commendable.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by checuzb02: 7:41am On Nov 09, 2018
copied ;Dcopied
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by OlaMichael002: 7:41am On Nov 09, 2018
You mean all these things for a lady You mean all these things for a lady A lady should also bring her debit card too oh
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by kenodrill: 7:48am On Nov 09, 2018
There has never been a right format to this as different strokes for different folks will always have its turns and twist..


Which ever lane that rocks your boat keep it up..

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Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by LZAA: 8:05am On Nov 09, 2018
Qsscruz:
Too many rules for the poor..Make money and watch everything you do turn to fun for the opposite sex..
Thou art wise

Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by paix(m): 10:22am On Nov 09, 2018
rexcharlie:
Pls never talk about Buhari on your first date..... Okay?
That is if the situation Buhari has created (hardship) will allow you go on a date.
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by GeeRex(m): 10:42am On Nov 09, 2018
grin lol what if u take her too a restaurant an it isn't what u were exerting. undecided
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by marvinsync(m): 11:19am On Nov 09, 2018
gisthabit:
First dates are always beautiful and mostly filled with a lot of anxiousness especially when it took you so long to secure the date with the person involved.

Unfortunately, most people mess up the opportunity by allowing themselves to be carried away with things that are not necessary on the d-day.

6 Things you should never do on your first date


#1 Don’t Show Up With an Empty Wallet

Yes, but that is the idea thing. Don’t show up without any cash or debit card on you hoping that your date will foot your bills.

Sometimes some people are left stranded and disappointed when their date is unable to foot their bills which can lead to untold embarrassment.

#2 Dress Neatly and Smart

Do not dress shabbily. You don’t need to have expensive clothes to appear neat and smart, all you need do is to make sure that you dress in clean and ironed clothes.

Take your bath 30-mins to the date and brush or comb your hair to help you look and remain fresh throughout the period of the date.

#3 Never Talk About Your Ex

I am once a victim of this, I was so carried away with the story of my ex that my date had to call my attention to it.

You don’t need to talk about your ex except your partner requests to know. And in this case, you should try as much as possible to keep it short and straight so you don’t dwell so much on it.

#4 Be Considerate When Asked To Place Orders

Most ladies are culprits when it comes to this. Immediately they are giving the go-ahead to place orders for foods and drinks they go ahead to place unimaginable orders, some even go to the extent of requesting for take-away packs for their friends and family.

Be considerate, be fair, and be mature.

#5 Keep Your Mobile Phone Away

Do not allow your mobile phone to take the center stage of the day. These days, couples end up going to out for dates without having any quality conversion because they were glued to their mobile phone throughout the date.

Quiet put away your phone and focus your attention on the date.

#6 Don’t Ask For Sex

This might be very difficult for some people. Requesting for sex on the first date can send negative signals to your partner.

For the woman it makes you look cheap while for the man it makes you look deceptive desperate.

Take your time to know each other and other things will follow naturally.

Source:http://gisthabit.com/6-things-you-should-never-do-on-your-first-date/




lol "don't ask for sex"


who actually does that?

it's "wanna head back to my place"?

or "wanna see my dingdong"?

or. " let's go for a RIDE"
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by Ihatelove(f): 11:25am On Nov 09, 2018
marvinsync:




lol "don't ask for sex"


who actually does that?

it's "wanna head back to my place"?

or "wanna see my dingdong"?

or. " let's go for a RIDE"
Are you surprised that some guys do that? What of the ones that the venue of their date is their house angry
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by marvinsync(m): 11:32am On Nov 09, 2018
Ihatelove:

Are you surprised that some guys do that? What of the ones that the venue of their date is their house angry



lol why would u go to guy's house unless u wanna fvck?


if the guy wanna meet u causally then it should be in a public place , going to a guy's house automatically equals sex with only a few exceptions



ps why ur moniker tho?
Re: 6 Things You Should Never Do On Your First Date by CheedyJ(m): 12:27pm On Nov 09, 2018
Don't give her T.fare...

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