My Goodness!! See what some of my fellow ladies are typing? I am so ashamed, I seize to be a woman as from today. Chai
So nothing wrong in what the so called girlfriend did? Ah! Op you really tried Wallahi, spending so much on a girlfriend, a gold digger for that matter.
It shows you really loved her but pls quit the relationship ehn God will bless you with your kind of woman who will love you sincerely and support you.

Ah! The ladies comments here are so ... if you quote me to insult me, na to just ignore you Las Las.
The way some ladies reason here most times is so annoying.

*faints*

TonyeBarcanista:
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Only a deluded mind would think men can't live without sex. What am I even saying sef? The so called sex is overrated and cheap! Beside, sex is not favor done to men by women, it is one thing that is mutually beneficial. Unfortunately, this is the only thing most Naija women has to offer!

And in case you don't know, there is substitute to sex, which is MASTURBATION! ironically, it is safer and cost nothing yet gives same ejaculation! MORE LIKE SELF-HELP!

A lot of you are leech, unproductive, parasitic and have sense of entitlement of another man's sweat- shamefully, we have media and entertainment industry that aren't helping matters.

Relationship between a man and woman is 100% scam, remove money from the equation and most women will have no reason to "love". You see relationship as employment opportunity due to your leeching mentality. You keep praying for a man in your life that will become your burden bearer without contributing anything to the mix. God knows majority Nigeria girls, whether employed or not are ingrained with the idea that being a leech is their entitlement.

Anyway, I blame most guys that fall into the scam of such manipulation. If you can't be productive stay in your lane, NO man owe you anything.


This comment is without prejudice to the few productive and virtues women.

one minute man spotted

OfficialDad:


Look at how stupid this thing sound!....

Aside that fish smell hole, what can you brainless kids of nowadays offer?

Poor peasant

baba, no Dey answer these type of girls, all they have to offer is their stupidity

LightQueen:
My Goodness!! See what some of my fellow ladies are typing? I am so ashamed, I seize to be a woman as from today. Chai
So nothing wrong in what the so called girlfriend did? Ah! Op you really tried Wallahi, spending so much on a girlfriend, a gold digger for that matter.
It shows you really loved her but pls quit the relationship ehn God will bless you with your kind of woman who will love you sincerely and support you.

Ah! The ladies comments here are so ... if you quote me to insult me, na to just ignore you Las Las.
The way some ladies reason here most times is so annoying.

*faints*

you see, that's why I want to marry someone from the north.

Saff:
Men can’t live without sex? I laugh! How many of you can stay without sex for two years? Two years is too much, how many of your kind can stay without sex for a year? If you belive you cannot live without sex, speak for yourself. It is statistically proven that men in general prioritise sex even higher than money, so what are we walking about? If it’s so cheap and overrated, why is it the most talked about thing even on this site from your gender? Why do men spend millions of Naira per year just to release Akamu from their penis? It’s very clear that you do not know much about your gender.

You say sex is mutually beneficial. Well newsflash, most women do not even derive pleasure from penetrative sex. YES. Most women pretend to enjoy it, but realistically 90% the time it is only enjoyed by one gender. MEN. You see, women can live off masturbation alone, men can’t. The male anatomy is not designed to masturbate 24/7 and that’s the reasons why you start developing major issues when you’re addicted to masturbation. Even as a gay man, you must penetrate in some kind of hole, so please miss me with that whole masturbation bullshit.

If you are going to call Nigerian women leeches, fine. But what else do you offer besides the small pennies you call money that you so much brag of? What will a women gain from dating a man who she cannot gain financially from. To me it’s a win win situation. Men place high importance on sex, women place high importance on money. Man and woman come together and they both gain what they desire. What’s the problem? Or are you upset that women are actually smarter than men and gain something more substantial that can benefit them for more than 5 minutes?

I think that is your problem. That’s the problem with most of you guys. It’s jealousy. If we had the opportunity to come back in a second life, most of you men will come back as women. You can’t understand that a woman can just lay down on her back and have money coming in from all sectors. That’s why you have so much resentment towards us. Well blame God for wiring your brain with your penis

LightQueen:
My Goodness!! See what some of my fellow ladies are typing? I am so ashamed, I seize to be a woman as from today. Chai
So nothing wrong in what the so called girlfriend did? Ah! Op you really tried Wallahi, spending so much on a girlfriend, a gold digger for that matter.
It shows you really loved her but pls quit the relationship ehn God will bless you with your kind of woman who will love you sincerely and support you.

Ah! The ladies comments here are so ... if you quote me to insult me, na to just ignore you Las Las.
The way some ladies reason here most times is so annoying.

*faints*

Another sensible comment !!!

Aswear some girls get problem....

Oya wake up

Saff:
But really the question is, apart from money what can you offer us in realationships? Even that money sef, most girls can make it on their own. Shior

"most girls can make it on their own",then start working/hustling and stop begging ur boyfriend for money

LightQueen:
My Goodness!! See what some of my fellow ladies are typing? I am so ashamed, I seize to be a woman as from today. Chai
So nothing wrong in what the so called girlfriend did? Ah! Op you really tried Wallahi, spending so much on a girlfriend, a gold digger for that matter.
It shows you really loved her but pls quit the relationship ehn God will bless you with your kind of woman who will love you sincerely and support you.

Ah! The ladies comments here are so ... if you quote me to insult me, na to just ignore you Las Las.
The way some ladies reason here most times is so annoying.

*faints*

Girl wake up and smell the coffee, men do not know how to love. it is not part of their home training. If you go into a relationship expecting love and marriage, you are playing into the hands of chop and go ministries. Like men dont manipiulate women everyday.

since you are tired of being a woman, you are free to be a man

Saff:
Women are nothing without men really? Loooooool

The only reason why women want to get married is for the societal status , pressure and children. Nothing more and nothing less. Most divorced women in Nigeria over 35 after they’ve tasted marriage, fend for themselves financially, cook and clean and take care of their children by THEMSELVES by CHOICE. How many men can do this, if not that they’ll be looking for a 3rd 4th 5th wife to take care of them? Men are more dependent on women if we are going to be truthful, but society likes to paint the picture that you men are needed to boost your fragile masculinity. NEWSFLASH: You men are becoming more useless as the times are evolving. Shiooorrr

We men are simply marrying women for what they are for.
Sex, making children and cooking. Apart from that, They are utterly useless.

DanDeeBoss:
Another sensible comment !!!

Aswear some girls get problem....

Oya wake up

I refuse to wake up anytime soon

DanDeeBoss:
This is entirely true.... If I as a guy spends on you, I should expect sex and as a lady vice versa.... Many relationships are based on money and sex that's why we have many broken marriages and high number of breakup.. Advice is there is more to sex and money in a relationship....

Lol.... This is why you may never get more than sex from your woman. You have given her the impression that sex is the only way she can show appreciation, the only thing you need in her and her role as a woman in your life. When you get tired of sex you become frustrated, you begin to seek for something else that you have not input into her. Most times you guys are the architects of your problems. You unconsciously create a pattern in a woman's mind, for example most hang outs, dates, shoppings these days ends in the bed room. So after surprising a lady with a gift, the only thank you most guys understand involves taking off panties. Why not ask for something else? Is you life all about sex? Start demanding other things. If you can't see, relate and discuss with your girlfriend like your mother. Then you are only wasting your time.


Men should start demanding more than sex from women. Those who can't stand the heat will leave the kitchen! If a woman has nothing to offer, she has no business being in your life! Shikena!

JjBankys:
you see, that's why I want to marry someone from the north.

MariaLavina:

Men should start demanding more than sex from women. Those who can't stand the heat will leave the kitchen! If a woman has nothing to offer, she has no business being in your life! Shikena!

Only sensible guys will understand.....

LightQueen:
I refuse to wake up anytime soon

Lol.... I am bringing water and ice soon

DanDeeBoss:


Lol.... I am bringing water and ice soon

Go bring am I dey here dey wait kampe

Bloooody:

We men are simply marrying women for what they are for.
Sex, making children and cooking. Apart from that, They are utterly useless.

Sex, making children and cooking is useless? That’s all three necessities that most of you cannot do on your own, so I don’t think we are as uselsss as you claim

highqueen:

Hehe babez how you Doing?

Kikikiki I hope you went to church today sha... that's the first step to your savagery redemption.


I'm doing good ooo, I love Sundays. No work . How are you doing too?

LightQueen:
Go bring am I dey here dey wait kampe

*Faints too*

Saff:
Sex, making children and cooking is useless? That’s all three necessities that most of you cannot do on your own, so I don’t think we are as uselsss as you claim

Read what I wrote again.
'without those abilities they are useless'

DanDeeBoss:

*Faints too*

Lol you no serious
Abeg I'm out of here

LightQueen:
Lol you no serious

Abeg I'm out of here

Alright safe journey to literature section

DanDeeBoss:
Only sensible guys will understand.....

Exactly! My words are only for the wise.

All women have a vagina for sex. 90% can give you children and 70% can cook. So what’s your point? What can you provide apart from the chicken change you call money that most women can provide for themselves? Please tell me.

Bloooody:

Read what I wrote again.
'without those abilities they are useless'

Lemskey:
I ve this girlfriend of two years and I ve been very faithful to her.I always provide all that she needs,even for members of her family sometimes.We have been very intimate with each other.Though I realised that she has been very demanding such as requesting for the latest iphones which at various times I have bought three brands of iphones for her;6s+,8+ and x which she uses presently.Rather than cook,she prefers to sit out eating barbecue, drinking and lot of fast food products.She loves expensive clothings jewelries, bags shoes and so on.I ve spent so much on her running into millions just b'cos I love her and do not want to loose her to another man if I don't provide her lavish needs.Despite her extravagant lifestyle,I ve been spending more and more and even in various debts b'cos of her as if am under a spell.What then blew my mind recently,despite my provisions for her is that she has been sleeping with another man for a while now.She has begged for forgiveness and I am still with her but I still feel d pain every day of my life that I see her to know that she could sleep with another man despite my efforts to satisfy her and make her happy. And am still with her,even still spending on her b'cos I love her,but I feel she does not love me,but the gains of the relationship. However she has claimed several times that she loves me but I doubt her claim. The truth is that I love her & don't want to loose her to another man,but at d same time still can't forget that she cheated on me.Pls,what can I do?

Are you still waiting for an advice?

ImaIma1:
I don't understand why you are complaining. You have the money and you have decided to spend it lavishly on her. Did she hold a gun to your head? Have you been tied to her that you cannot leave?

You probably wooed her with these pretty and expensive things and showed her that you have plenty money to spend. And now you are complaining that she is a golddigger.

You don't need advice. Advise yourself.

... Spot on. I myself is still wondering why he is complaining. She didnt force him to buy her those stuffs nor forgive her cheating escapades.

MariaLavina:
Exactly! My words are only for the wise.

Why did I read this post... I don't even know who is more dumb... Me that read the post or the person that posted it.... Op u are dumb aswear... Haba the babe charm u.? U spend lavishly on her and she still cheated on u and u still confused cause u love her... Hehehe dump her
Well maybe she don't enjoy sex with u

Saff:
Men can’t live without sex? I laugh! How many of you can stay without sex for two years? Two years is too much, how many of your kind can stay without sex for a year? If you belive you cannot live without sex, speak for yourself. It is statistically proven that men in general prioritise sex even higher than money, so what is your argument oga? If it’s so cheap and overrated, why is it the most talked about thing even on this site from your gender? Why do men spend millions of Naira per year just to release Akamu from their penis? It’s very clear that you do not know much about your gender.

That men engage in sex doesn't mean they can't live without it, THEY CAN. I love eating Pounded yam and spend my naira on it, but I can live without it 100%...

2. Sex is cheap! With a sachet of indomie or as little as N200 a lot of people engage in sex. Some other people even get sex for FREE. Go to the streets and neighborhood you will see sex being hawked by females.

3. Sex is overrated! Once the man ejaculates that's it. The pleasure is gone and nothing special anymore! Funny enough, masturbation gives same ejaculation/pleasure and comes with no STI unlike intercourse that makes one susceptible to various diseases, especially from unhygienic and philandering lifestyle of most females.

You say sex is mutually beneficial. Well newsflash, most women do not even derive pleasure from penetrative sex. YES. Most women pretend to enjoy it, but realistically 90% the time it is only enjoyed by one gender. MEN. You see, women can live off masturbation alone, men can’t.

Unfortunately for you, a lot of women crave for penetration, even the dildos women used to masturbate are penetrative, fingers inserted in your vagina is penetrative. So saying penetration doesn't pleasure women and at same time saying women masturbate for pleasure, is the highly irrational and illogical to say the least.

The male anatomy is not designed to masturbate 24/7 and that’s the reasons why you start developing major issues when you’re addicted to masturbation.

There is no issues with masturbation and the male anatomy is 100% supportive of it. I advice you to get yourself enlightened on the subject.

The reason most people frown at it is majorly religious dogma

Even as a gay man, you must penetrate in some kind of hole, so please miss me with that whole masturbation bullshit.

Thats to tell you that the vagina has substitutes and people live without it! Thanks for acknowledging that

If you are going to call Nigerian women leeches, fine. But what else do you offer besides the small pennies you call money that you so much brag of? What will a women gain from dating a man who she cannot gain financially from. To me it’s a win win situation. Men place high importance on sex, women place high importance on money. Man and woman come together and they both gain what they desire. What’s the problem? Or are you upset that women are actually smarter than men and gain something more substantial that can benefit them for more than 5 minutes?

Men don't mind paying for sex, after all, a lot of people engage prostitutes for the service. However, the majority Nigeria woman only bring vagina to the table and masquerade it as "love". They manipulate the unfortunate men to spend their hard earned cash in return for emotional torture and frustrate the man's life.

I think that is your problem. That’s the problem with most of you guys. It’s jealousy. If we had the opportunity to come back in a second life, most of you men will come back as women. You can’t understand that a woman can just lay down on her back and have money coming in from all sectors. That’s why you have so much resentment towards us. Well blame God for wiring your brain with your penis.

On the contrary, I have no problem with women, I value the women in my lives (my mother and female relatives) more than anything in life (of course my male relatives are highly valued), I can sacrifice my last penny for my female relatives and mother, because they are my world.

I have girlfriends, I treat them like my own without being a fool. It's mutual and I enjoy it!
Do I think with my private part? Absolutely NOT!

Guess what? I have no preference for choice gender (if I am to reincarnate) but I'm very comfortable with me being a man. If I were a woman, I will be like my MOM or Sisters and not like your kind! Beauties, productivity and Intelligence are their forth.

Unfortunately, same can't be said of your kind! Being a leech is not a virtue!

You need a resounding slap for posting this shit on Nairaland... Ode.

funmisticqueen:
one minute man spotted

Well, I'm actually a 2 seconds man! Sharp sharp things

Saff:
All women have a vagina for sex. 90% can give you children and 70% can cook. So what’s your point? What can you provide apart from the chicken change you call money that most women can provide for themselves? Please tell me.

Your stupidity is amazing me.
A woman can never make it without a man. The richest people in the world are men, Women are just sub humans. They need a man to make them complete.