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Re: Dear Guys!! by Jayslicky: 11:44am On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
how many thing sold in the market do u sample before buying.

besides our fathers did it. so how are you different from them
Have you ever heard sexual compactibility?

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Boxer007(m): 11:45am On Nov 14, 2018
IamPlato:
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She Is Not Crazy


Brother. What is your favourite type of diKugawa and wot size makes you happier? Banana?
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 11:45am On Nov 14, 2018
Jayslicky:
Have you ever heard sexual compactibility?
that is not the main thing one considers in a marriage, if not virgins wont get married to non virgins
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 14, 2018
cooluzi:
many psycho and depressed lady on this section, I wonder which house they came from
you cant even diagnose depression if it slapped u in the face
Re: Dear Guys!! by samysmoothfresh: 11:47am On Nov 14, 2018
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Saff(f): 11:49am On Nov 14, 2018
I like you. I like this, but let me tell you this. The pressure that men receive compared to women is not even up to a forth, and that’s just me being realistic. Society will always over look a man who is not married compared to a woman who is even single above 25. How can we even compare the two?

Despite a woman making money and being successful in her own right, she will still be “incomplete” without a man. Yet a man can have money, yes he might receive pressure but not nearly as much as his female counterparts.

Don’t bring my parents into this, this has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. That’s all I have to say to you.
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Boxer007(m): 11:50am On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
you cant even diagnose depression if it slapped u in the face


Darling may we please quit this boring thread and discuss gay porn? Please
Re: Dear Guys!! by Jayslicky: 11:50am On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
that is not the main thing one considers in a marriage, if not virgins wont get married to non virgins
I think that is a topic for another day, you know men have a lot offer.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 14, 2018
Jayslicky:
I think that is a topic for another day, you know men have a lot offer.
And u haven't said what it is
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 14, 2018
Boxer007:



Darling may we please quit this boring thread and discuss gay porn? Please
see. this is what most men think about. one wonders why they remain broke
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 14, 2018
Saff:
I like you. I like this, but let me tell you this. The pressure that men receive compared to women is not even up to a forth, and that’s just me being realistic. Society will always over look a man who is not married compared to a woman who is even single above 25. How can we even compare the two?

Despite a woman making money and being successful in her own right, she will still be “incomplete” without a man. Yet a man can have money, yes he might receive pressure but not nearly as much as his female counterparts.

Don’t bring my parents into this, this has nothing to do with anything I’ve said. That’s all I have to say to you.
how lower can he go. some men don't deserve the balls they have. honestly
Re: Dear Guys!! by Jayslicky: 11:55am On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
And u haven't said what it is
What your father offered your mother.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Alepa(m): 11:56am On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
i have a question that has been bugging me and it is frequently asked to ladies and never asked to you. WHAT DO GUYs HAVE TO OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS OF VALUE TO THE OTHER PARTY?

Your answers will be highly appreciated. arguments are welcome. insults are not.

Cc
highqueen
missraine69
saff
iamD18
iamPlato
lefulefu
resurgent4oodua
Lamentations of a gold digger

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Alepa(m): 12:00pm On Nov 14, 2018
truthsayer009:


No you are not. You are either a Student of Medicine who hasn't finished or still in progress.

I'm 100% certain that you have never earned a living.
She’s a nursing student. And she’s 22 year old

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:01pm On Nov 14, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
The sole truth... most of them no just want date... They feel men have nothing to offer... tongue
smiley
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 14, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
The sole truth... most of them no just want date... They feel men have nothing to offer... tongue
dem no wan date? Brotherly dats not truecheesy. Even asexual ppl(ppl who feel no sexual desire) even engage in relationships with their likes. The thing be say u have to understand human psychology. There some ladies wey some guys don do strong tin hence cos of that heartbreak they might feel bitter and air and voice their distaste for relationship. But inside them dey yarn to be loved,they want to feel the warm strong arms of a man around them,they want to feel protected. They hate it when they go to their cold empty bed at night and feel more sadder when they wake up in d mornin to dat same cold empty bed. Na the same way wen u see some guys saying they hate women and hate relationships. So forget all these militant stuffs u see here exhibited by some chicks herecheesy. When they meet the right guy they will fall and fallcheesy.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:07pm On Nov 14, 2018
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.
smiley smiley Cool
Re: Dear Guys!! by DanDeeBoss(m): 12:11pm On Nov 14, 2018
lefulefu:
dem no wan date? Brotherly dats not truecheesy. Even asexual ppl(ppl who feel no sexual desire) even engage in relationships with their likes. The thing be say u have to understand human psychology. There some ladies wey some guys don do strong tin hence cos of that heartbreak they might feel bitter and air and voice their distaste for relationship. But inside them dey yarn to be loved,they want to feel the warm strong arms of a man around them,they want to feel protected. They hate it when they go to their cold empty bed at night and feel more sadder when they wake up in d mornin to dat same cold empty bed. Na the same way wen u see some guys saying they hate women and hate relationships. So forget all these militant stuffs u see here exhibited by some chicks herecheesy. When they meet the right guy they will fall and fallcheesy.
dem just capitalize on the strong things wey guys don do them.... No wonder they blow hot...... Sure when they meet the right guy,,,,, they will fall cheesycheesycheesy
Re: Dear Guys!! by Raalsalghul: 12:22pm On Nov 14, 2018
Jayslicky:
3weeks without sex is not hard to do but can you stay without money for 3weeks.
Ignore earlier post. Not meant for you.
Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:35pm On Nov 14, 2018
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.
gbam! Gbam!!! Gbam!!!!.. Nothing truer can be more saidcheesy
Re: Dear Guys!! by DanDeeBoss(m): 12:36pm On Nov 14, 2018
pryme:


Nothing.

However if you are lucky to find the few good ones, you will understand the true meaning of companionship, friendship.

Most parents don't give their daughters to men who "have something to offer" they give their daughters to men that have to whole package. To put it more elaborately - man that can take of their daughter financially, emotionally, physically and psychologically.

I don't remember women being charged with these responsibilities while growing up, all they are told is to be submissive, tolerant, and supportive.

However the tables have turn, most men can no longer pass the integrity test in taking care of a woman as stated in the 2nd paragraph.

Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
hahahahahahaha!!! you are funny. trust me i cant glow nor is my heart at peace when i have things to worry about.
what tins do u have to worry about? Its the normal tins u will to worry about dat we all worry about naucheesy. Stress at ur place of work,stress of looking for a job at other day to day stress. But having said that its good when u have a partner that completes u and gives u fulfillmentcheesy.
Re: Dear Guys!! by Mikkylounge: 12:51pm On Nov 14, 2018
The question is reasonable to me. Things have so changed now that most women want to get something physical (money and material) out of every relationship. Women no longer value being wooed, they'd prefer men just dump money in their account and get it over with. The thing is, men now want sex as a benefit since they're spending money, or will eventually spend it whether it happens or not!
But, what do women really want? No man alive or dead, has the answer to this question.
Sex..there are all manner of alternatives!
Money..they can work and make tons of it for themselves!
Companionship..when there's social media and all that!
Security..you know na!
The truth still remains, there's nothing like getting home to a smiling, warm hug from someone who makes your heart soft
Nothing can take the place of having someone to call (when you just got the promotion, or successful result or you just got a big account) to share your awesome news with!
We are not at war, a war of the sexes, we just need to understand that we need each other, one way or another!
And ladies,try not to attach money to sex as you won't feel comfortable with the thoughts in the guy's mind, even if he's a gentleman and refuses to put it into words!

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Re: Dear Guys!! by tosyne2much(m): 12:53pm On Nov 14, 2018
Here we go again cheesy

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Re: Dear Guys!! by Nobody: 12:55pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
really?! how is that valuiable, is ur surname buhari, atiku, dangote, otedola that can open doors for me. At least my present surname i use can do that for me. if your surname doesnt have the power listed above i will keep my prrsent one. A surname in the hand is worth more than another in the bush.
na wah for this babecheesy
Re: Dear Guys!! by Oyiboman69: 1:00pm On Nov 14, 2018
AmazonTopaz:
cheesy They would tell you it is money.

Many of them have nothing to offer other than that.

When they themselves have no value how can they bring value to their partner.

You can't give what you don't have embarassed
then you don't need what you already have,do you?
Re: Dear Guys!! by AmazonTopaz(f): 1:14pm On Nov 14, 2018
Do not mention me again especially when you cannot read to understand.I have never shamed or broke shame any man with any of my monikers neither have I ever been money conscious about men.I only mentioned money because that is what many guys on this forum claim they have and that ladies are leeches who offer nothing but sex.Oga do not mention my monicker when next you want to misquote yourself.A simple read to understand my post would save you from the pain you carried because of my post.
truthsayer009:


I've been trying so hard not to respond to you, but your Ignorance is just over board. All of you inclusive, funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz and I can see why It surprises you that MissRaine69: responds in a particular way.

I hope you know that as a Man at the Age of 40, You are expected to be married, Financially Stable, at least have a child or one in the way.

I hope you know that Men are getting married as early as 25 - 29 now. The societal pressure for Men comes at the later age of 40 - 45. You need to have all your chips settled & nothing on your table.

The shame on a man who is 40 & does not even have his Life put together is even enough to hide from his friends & family when he sees them because everyone else is prosperous except him. Haven't you seen Men who hide from their class mates, the shame is too much to bear.

There are so many issues tied to gender & it did not start today, There are so many advantages of being a woman/man. If you choose to ignore them, that is up to you.
Men do not have time limits to have kids, Yes.

Finally, The issue is you are trying to compare your life & that of your parents to everyone on here. You seem to assume everything around you is how everyone is, some Fathers are doing fine providing for their Families & it doesn’t take away what the mothers are doing.

I’m not worried about funmisticqueen, highqueen, AmazonTopaz when ever they talk about money this, money that because very soon, they will start earning a living & understand how it's hard to make money. They are still students. So they have a PASS. Oyindidi who lost 250k knows how hard she sweats before she made that money & now someone else can entrust 1M to her because I'm sure she will utilise it properly.

But you are always speaking from a place of Pain & travail when it comes to marriage, obviously because you are either judging from your experience & your mothers experience.

I hope lefulefu, IamD18 is reading, I rest my case. Drops pen.

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Re: Dear Guys!! by AmazonTopaz(f): 1:15pm On Nov 14, 2018
Oyiboman69:
then you don't need what you already have,do you?
I have and I am still working to have more of that.
Re: Dear Guys!! by IamPlato(m): 1:47pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
i am a sugarbaby for now,boyfriends are not good investors
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I'm Still Here For You Queen
Re: Dear Guys!! by IamPlato(m): 1:49pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
hahahahahahaha!!! you are funny. trust me i cant glow nor is my heart at peace when i have things to worry about.
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Come Let Me Be Your Friend... Its Going To Be Fine. Dont Do This To Yourself, we Love You
Re: Dear Guys!! by IamPlato(m): 1:52pm On Nov 14, 2018
Boxer007:



Brother. What is your favourite type of diKugawa and wot size makes you happier? Banana?
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Okada Match Your Balls There, Monkey!
Re: Dear Guys!! by Allaboutkatiee(f): 2:02pm On Nov 14, 2018
IamD18:
We don't have anything to offer. Absolutely nothing.

That's why I keep wondering why unmarried ladies in their thirties keep getting faustrated, crying, sowing seeds, bothering and getting desperate to marry men that can't offer them anything.

Can't you see ladies are being foolish and stupid bothering themselves over nothing?
But it's a must that you offer them money
You know guys like you are the ones thatd always have issues with there wives cuz of there uselessness and selfishness.

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