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Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Cumtroller: 11:09pm On Dec 02, 2018 |
This is all I have to say.
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Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Hybridz: 11:07pm On Dec 03, 2018 |
First if all,i commend your patience and perseverance to still be in that marriage. What you've endured is more than what you might still have to endure,only if you make yourself happy. The reason why you this depressed is coz you've kept this sadness in you for too long,you simply need someone to talk to,someone you trust who's got your backlit confide in. I suggest people like your family members (the wise and reasonable ones),your mum or even a counsellor/therapist. You own your life and only you can make it worth living.just ignore him and see him as just someone you living with. You're even lucky you got a Source if income. You should take succour in that many are going through a lot worse but they aint depressed, not coz they're cheating, but coz they've learnt ways of purging out their worries. You could take inspiration from the love you have for your first child. Start by thinking what a strange woman is gonna do to him/her If u ain't there. Wake up every morning and say to yourself....IM STRONGER THAN MY CHALLENGES AND I'LL BE FINE. Stay healthy young woman! 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Seahawk: 12:29am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Leave him. You guys can co parent but you don’t have to be with him. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 04, 2018 |
From your wright up, you knew this man was this way but you still wriggled your way in to answer Mrs. You have two options: 1. Leave the animal 2. Stay and endure with him till old age when his waist gets really stiff to chase anyone. Then you can have him all to yourself while you nurse all his baggage as a result of his bad life style. Pray hard that you don't contract HIV/aids. The choice is yours. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by freda506(f): 2:50pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
yettymuse:The die is never already cast. Divorce and separation are a thing, you know. Op, you need to leave this highly toxic relationship and seek therapy. Depression is no joke; and it, talk more of the abuse and risk of contracting an STI from hos philandering ways could literally kill you. Don't mind those that will feed you with the "marriage is not easy" crap. Your personal happiness is key and you clearly are not getting any in that relationship. So, leave while you're still alive. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by momokiddies: 3:02pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
marriage , to me is not a must or "we die here together" if your happiness is being sabotaged, then leave ! who says we all have to remain married forever. good you have a source of income, take care of your babies and damn that marriage. life is bae do not let someone turn you to nothing all in the name of staying married. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by seyigiggle: 4:12pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
search your heart. your intuition would guide you. divert your attention to your child and remember your baby needs you alive. discover things that makes you happy, and focus on them. it could be social events, reading, develop your skills, crave higher for more education and professional courses, and if you are into business, start planning to expand your business, engage yourself in something productive. most importantly understand that human being are bound to disappoint and only God will not. Once you start finding your feet know that their would be resistant. he could start claiming you are cheating, ignore him until he involves a third party by himself. PastorPaul1: |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by victorian(f): 9:35pm On Dec 05, 2018 |
Wow! Am short of words with what the Op is tolerating, all to stay married. Hmm, na wa o Mehn am short of words. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Hybridz: 8:00am On Jan 10, 2019 |
Justwantafriend:Good morning! how is your baby now? |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by chii8(f): 8:10am On Jan 10, 2019 |
If you're sure you're telling the truth,find joy from within. #modified |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Justwantafriend: 10:38pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Hybridz:Thanks for checking on me. My baby is doing fine. I gave birth to a boy |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by tabithababy(f): 10:47pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Hybridz: 11:28pm On Feb 04, 2019 |
Justwantafriend:Hmmmmmmmmm! how sweet? may God make him the coolness of your eyes and guide him. my regrds to the little soldier! stay strong woman! bye. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Flambo02: 10:51am On Feb 05, 2019 |
Justwantafriend: Have u left him yet? |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by YOUNGELDER1(m): 2:12pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
Justwantafriend: Congratulations |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Avidtags: 3:00pm On Feb 05, 2019 |
you are not happy. you are depressed. you are considering suicide. you are at the risk of getting an incurable STI you are being mentally, emotionally and sexually abused. you are bringing innocent kids into a dysfunctional family. you have two options, you leave or stay. your choice. p.s, I'm really scared for your kids and the kind of environment you are bringing them into. just terrible. |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Justwantafriend: 5:32pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Flambo02:Hmmmm No am still with him. He has apologised and promise he wont do it again(i guess he did that because he's broke and am the only one that can cater for him now) have been the one feeding and clothing him. Am doing it for the sake of my kids sha |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 7:22pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
tabithababy: MISS INDEPENDENT. The type earthquake2 and fellow alpha males are hoping to marry |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 7:27pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Yea especially not a prostitute in her late 30s forming feminist on social media I avoid that |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 7:27pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: Why getting emotional? |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 7:30pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Sorry for your tears Crush your kneecaps with a baton sweetie, it'll help |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 7:32pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: Now you are sounding really emotional. My heart goes out to you |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 7:36pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Yea I can feel you, maybe Shiloh this year will get you a 'male' So you quit searching for keywords 'pregnant' and 'wedlock' on nairaland |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: Lol, so much personal attacks. Typical of people that are hurting. Is "shiloh" and old age the only thing you got? Be creative nah, surprise your brain |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 8:08pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: You are trying to divert the initiative to me Typical of dumb, menopause driven bitches Bye Felicia |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: The initiative has always been on you. You always this slow or you are faking it? AntiBrutus: |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 8:12pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Bitch you quoting everywhere are you Hot or what? I don't do 50 yr old pussies Bye Felicia |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 8:15pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: Now we agree the initiative has been on you. You seem to be the aggravated one. I can imagine veins on your head...while you struggle to put together words you think would hurt. Take PCM for the trouble. How many times will you say bye? Amnesia? |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 8:17pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: It seems you are really h0rny tonight Pay through my pm and I'll handle your disheveled pussy Don't mention me if your not interested |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: You said bye twice, yet you are still here. Why are you telling me not to mention you? Is it so difficult to be a man of your words? |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Earthquake2: 8:51pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: You won't have the last word you b1tch I would Now fvck off and don't mention me again |
Re: Pregnant And Depressed by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Earthquake2: So you didn't mean the "bye Felicia". Why were you trying to act like you call the shots and you are actually brave enough to walk away? Here you are, trying to call the shots again. You failed before to keep to your own words, how then can you give me orders? You are losing it baby. Keep trying, don't give up... |
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