Why is it that some women use sex as a way of getting back @ their husbands.what is their mind set?when they do this thing & the bobo seeks the thing outside his marriage,i ask who is to blame?

Obonbo:

Why is it that some women use sex as a way of getting back @ their husbands.what is their mind set?when they do this thing & the bobo seeks the thing outside his marriage,i ask who is to blame?

The man is to be blamed. . . . and before someone gets back at you, you must have done something unwholesome. Yes! I think she won't be comfortable doing it as a duty, so she declines. It's more than a physical activity = = so think beyond d physical.

^^^^ so, if the man refuses to fund your shopping spree you will say you are right to refuse him?

Sex should not be used as a weapon in marriage,but at the same time you wouldn't want to sleep wit som1 u re totally unhappy wit until the issue is resolved,cos a woman can't deliberately deprive her husband,there must be a reason.