Please advice, wish to get married, live in a self contain but working for a salary less than 80k. Is it reasonable to live with a wife in a one room?

No bro , you have to build a duplex before you get married bro.

Not advisable. Save more and get a better accommodation.


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Not really. A 2 bedroom is better, especially when you get a kid and either your mom or mil comes over

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Not really. A 2 bedroom is better, especially when you get a kid and either your mom or mil comes over

Why can't he get married now since he can't afford two bedroom for now , they can do family planning and put heads together to work on a brighter future , if you wait until you save enough for two bedroom my guy u may end up getting married 3years later than intended .

If ur girlfriend is OK with it go ahead marry her my guy. If she can marry u cos u dey self come free her. I wonder why people don't know who they are.

always coming behind me.
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Op, at the end of it all, you will be left to your fate.
Don't live above your means.
The grass isn't always green at the other side.






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It all depends on you and your wife to be.
Its not the people here that will dictate to you how to start your life.
You won't be living in the self contain forever innit?!
We don't know you and your bae background.

I know a guy who did that thing about 4 years ago. Till date, he still lives in a self contain while popping kids like champagne

Don't do it. It could make you desperate for money irrespective of who you married. You might end up considering doing rituals sef You don't need such pressure in your life

no don't marry her now.
Wait till you build a duplex.

When you build a duplex you will come and ask us again and we will tell you to wait till you can afford a mansion.

When you finally own a mansion come and ask us again so we'll tell you to wait till you own an estate.


You're asking us because it's us your getting married to :[

I don't know how to advise you...

But am of the believe that we know the answer to some questions troubling us...

I'm not being rude to you OP but i want you to ask yourself this question(s)






Which apartment were you raised by your parents?


Was your mom contented with what your dad gave out to her?


Was there love and understanding?



Oga OP never allow your emotional feelings to rise upon your DIGNITY, INTEGRITY AND YOUR REASONING because those are the things that make you a man




Live within your means

Cut your coat according to your size and available material.

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A room self con is OK when you don't have visitors

yeah, The sex is always extra ordinary.

Abraham got married to Sarah in a hut

Adam was homeless when he married eve.

My great grandpa got married while still living with his father, my grandpa.

as long as there's enough space for bed, get married and pump those kids.


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people stay in ordinary one room sef and they go born reach 6 pikin

So self con. Is better

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Useless question. My dad and mum get married in face me and slap you house �. Today they are living comfortably in there apartment.
Its not about how you started but how you finish the race. Rome is not built in a day. I have seen so many couples that live in face me and slap you. Today there case is different. Wise up bro.

Bro! To avoid gossip and "I told u so", look for a flat.. it's best that way.. cos in that kind of room setup, gossip must de and she must join one team

What matters in marriage is understanding and vision. Some started out in a room (face me, I face you) and are living in their personal apartments today and some started out in mansions and they're no where to be found now. Some are now divorcees despite the glamourous grand and executive starts. Money is important but planning, contentment and vision to be better are more important. Note: Don't marry a slay queen insite a self-contain because she will kill you with depression after slaying away your future. Just make sure your wife-to-be is ok with your corrent status and believe in your dreams. Happiness in marriage is incomparable even if you don't have ability to live in a duplex.
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These days material things have taken over and the economy is so bad that 100k can't rent a room again in some places in the country.

I blame the economy and our rulers. finish!

i stay in a room self con, and planning on getting married this year, am saving up for another accommodation already, at least a room and a parlor self con, with a space for dinning. Not that she cant stay with me in a room self con, but i dont want that, in my own little way, i want her to be comfortable living with me, so it all boil down to what u want, and the partner involve and what u can afford, that's why is good to open up very well when u are in a relationship with anyone, dont be claiming omo Dangote and Otedola, when u know say u dey hustle ni.

So it boils down to what u want and what u can afford.

Why not?

Is not a good idea. If you don’t have enough money at the moment to rent a spacious apartment, kindly wait till you are financially buoyant enough.

Marriage is not a do or die affair... marriage is a scam and is highly overrated.

Lmao...how is this even a question? I know many married couples with kids in this Lagos living in self contain apartments.Starting small isn't a bad idea as long as you know what ure doing.

Since you want validation we Will deny you..

No you must get a 4 bedroom flat ensure before you marry..

It's not an ideal situation but at least you can Manage.

Start the way u and ur wife are comfortable with!
As you grow you shift level..

Don't allow anyone or anything make you live above your Capabilities ....

Life is not a Competition...

But if u can get a one bedroom that has its own Restroom and Bathroom.. that would be great

Why not

Dude a self con as a newly married couple is a no no!
Who ever made marriage compulsory in the first place is one hell of a conman.
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed, not to continue wallowing in want and ‘suffering and smiling’.
Pull resources together and get a better abode, if it can’t work out now then patience is going to be your watch word.
Make a befitting abode for your coming generations so they don’t curse you.

Even a mad man living under 3rd mainland bridge got a life partner.

Cut your coat according to your size