I'm just curious, I want to know if you get beatings from your parents and tell us about the worst beating you got from your parents and why?

that should be 5 years back

@poster
what are you? 12?

@ spoilt,i said that I'm just curious, I'm not even going to say anything else because some people are going to say that I'm been rude

Sexyabby:

@ aloib,i said that I'm just curious, I'm not even going to say anything else because some people are going to say that I'm been rude

lol, who is this aloib that you're talking to. Seems you're on the wrong thread

lol,I'm so sorry,I'm always mixing up their name, I'm talking to spoilt.

Sexyabby:

lol,I'm so sorry,I'm always mixing up their name, I'm talking to spoilt.

well, good you cleared it up before someone else that you didnt mean to talk to bounces on you

i thought so too, that was why i made the comment

Hey! is that legal in ur location? If it's no longer acceptable in Africa where parents are known to instill discipline with rod, it should not be in any other part of the world.

There are better ways of correcting kids these days. Bytheway, if you know any kids whose parents still beat them, you can cantact me and we will sue their ass off, cos i am a lawyer.Lol

Sexyabby:

lol,I'm so sorry,I'm always mixing up their name, I'm talking to spoilt.

Sexyabby:

@ spoilt,i said that I'm just curious, I'm not even going to say anything else because some people are going to say that I'm been rude

of course i understand you are curious but this is a forum for adults. i dont think most people here receive beatings from their parents. a lot are parents themselves! i wrote that response before checking your profile. i then saw that you are indeed 14. now i understand!!!!! it wasnt meant to put you down or anything dear.

and no i dont get beatings from my parents.

the last time i got slapped was like 5 years ago

i told my sista that i was doin to kick her ass and as soon as i said that a slap came to my face from the right

havent made threaths since and i havent got beat either

@spoilt, ok thanx for making it clear

@ifezue,no its illegal here but i know dat some parents still beat their kids.

ummmm, I got beaten last about 5 years ago. Never again.

I've was slapped by my mother a few years ago during an argument. Twice.

I didn't feel it. I kept on saying what she was trying to prevent me from saying. I was so cool that day!

i had the beating of my life 4rm my in law(sister's husband), five months ago in ATLATA GEORGIA, couldnt belive my eyes when he started whoopin my ass,kicking,hittingme so hard, that i got to work the other day felt sick and weak, but praises to God ve relocated

Why didn't you kick him hard back or report him to the police? I'm sure that's how he whoops his wife too.

I can't be whooped by anyone who is physically weaker than me o. Especially not a woman or an older man.

Seun:

I can't be whooped by anyone who is physically weaker than me o. Especially not a woman.
Why didn't you kick him hard back or report him to the police? I'm sure that's how he whoops his wife too.

its a long story, i simply don't want to go to that extent, u know we nigerians(mentality too low), if i do such am pretty sure , no good thing would come out of their mouth, but i took the right step by leaving his house, up till now he hasnt realise his mistake to SAY "HIS SORRY",

He would have been sorry if he got a good ass-whooping from his junior, or arrested by the police. Very sorry.

if u were in my shoes will u do such?

I will defend myself (with non-lethal force) if anybody I can handle attacks me, uncle or no uncle. That is my own.

will defend myself (with non-lethal force) if anybody I can handle attacks me, uncle or no uncle. That is my own

Which one be non lethal force; Oga Seun

bulala, cain, belt, kicks, blows, plates, slippers, elbows, sticks. Anything I can use to defend myself, I will use.

against ur peeps.C'mon,u dont expect uc to beleive that.Do u?

i use to get a lot of beatin from my mum and my older brothers ,anyway i was really a big pain when i was growin up

No, you were not a big pain, but the beatings made you feel that way. A happy child cannot really be a big pain.

Being a tom boy whilst growing up .
i always got beaten by my mum
for running off toplay with the boys when i should be at home
for riding my bicycle in the  Government motorway
for playing football in the rain
i cant remember it all but i received lots of slaps and 3-6 strokes  of a cane

i think i was last beaten by my mom (my dad doesn't) when i was in jss3, and thts like 12yrs ago. The only beating were from school teachers on general punishment cuz i never get in trouble. And my bros or uncles or aunts dare not lift a hand on me(none has ever even tried it except my siblings- and its more of fighting each other as the eldest is just 3 yrs older than me. My dad wont have anyone beat his daughter except my mom.

Hmmm, I love your dad's philosophy, but I wouldn't even allow my wife (if any) to beat my child at all.
It will be in our marriage contract. If she wants to beat the child, she must get a divorce first. That's my own!

@topic sure! lets just say i have an adventurous spirit in me! 

but that was eons ago ,as soon as my parents found out beatings do nuffin to me(c o s  i will definitely go back to what i was beaten for)  they stopped   

Seun:

Hmmm, I love your dad's philosophy, but I wouldn't even allow my wife (if any) to beat my child at all.
It will be in our marriage contract. If she wants to beat the child, she must get a divorce first. That's my own!

Haba seun, why would you divorce your wife because she beats your child, afterall she gave birth to the child. She went thru the nine months and labor pains and she won't be cruel to her own blood, she's only trying to correct him/her in her own way, you can only advise her against it.

Seun:

Hmmm, I love your dad's philosophy, but I wouldn't even allow my wife (if any) to beat my child at all.
It will be in our marriage contract. If she wants to beat the child, she must get a divorce first. That's my own!

LOL!

This philosphy is what has got UK into the state of lawlessness that exists now.

I have a child and he does get a smacking.

He can also be told to hold his hands up or sent to his room.

Abusing your child is illegal, smacking is not but currently it is all down to the interpretation of silly social workers.

I also notice that the people with the most to say about not smacking a kid are those who do not have any.

Let me share today's headline in the sun with you.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/topstories/tm_headline=asboy-%2D-boozy-yob%2D-10%26method=full%26objectid=18972170%26siteid=89520-name_page.html

Come to the UK and see kids running wild without any fear.

I have taken the law into my own hands a few times at great risk. People are clamouring for old school discipline to be brought back.

LOL, indeed.

It is my opinion that the philosophy represented by Seun's last comment  is dangerous to say the least, and irresponsible in certain situations.
However, given that the idea of administering smacks is for correction and direction, I suppose that any sensible (note, sensible refers to - legal, acceptable, non-threatening, non-harmful, etc!) method that actually achieves the goal cannot be dismissed as impractical and unacceptable.

well, for me, i still get beatin by my dad, u know, those old school father that doesn't understand wat it felt 2 be a teenager in america, well the worst one so far was when, i don't want 2 go 2 my middle school graduation, so i told my parent that the school ran out of money so we are not havin one that year, welll, let me cut the story short, the beatin was on unimaginable,my parents take turns,  i slept in the hospital for 4 dayz,  , that was a day i don't even want 2 live, 2 sec of [color=#770077][/color]