Hey guys I want to get your opinions on standards. What I mean by that is that Ive met some people that feel that if a person is fat or ugly then the person should only expect to date or Bleep people that look the same way. I think its a shitty outlook myself but it seems to be a wide spread vibe. I just want to get some other views from people.thanx.

Im totally with you on this one, if a guy looks like truck, he shouldnt expect to date Miss World and should look for a lady that looks like a truck unless his money is long. And vice versa for women as well.

Ebonyeyes:

Im totally with you on this one, if a guy looks like truck, he shouldnt expect to date Miss World and should look for a lady that looks like a truck unless his money is long. And vice versa for women as well.

shocked at this answer^^^
so your perception of ugly people need not date who you percieve as being beuatiful unless they have money that is so shallow this is the reason why the worlds divorce rate is ridiculos because people are more superficial and materialistic than actually looking for the quality in people. Physical attraction is important but damn you will over look that for some money thats serious

omega25red:

shocked at this answer^^^
so your perception of ugly people need not date who you percieve as being beuatiful unless they have money that is so shallow this is the reason why the worlds divorce rate is ridiculos because people are more superficial and materialistic than actually looking for the quality in people. Physical attraction is important but damn you will over look that for some money thats serious

Good gosh you have to read between the lines, that obviously was a sarcastic comment. Although we do have so many guys with faces only Jesus can tolerate punching above their weight to get with beautiful girls and insulting Ugly girls.

Ebonyeyes:

Good gosh you have to read between the lines, that obviously was a sarcastic comment. Although we do have so many guys with faces only Jesus can tolerate punching above their weight to get with beautiful girls and insulting Ugly girls.

i guess my bad but sarcasim doesn't always translate well over the net

What happened to the saying that "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".

omega25red:

i guess my bad but sarcasim doesn't always translate well over the net

I agree I must remind myself not to do it anymore

@poster
it all depends on who you're asking. . . . .  a fat/ugly person has all the rights to go after who they bloody wish JUST AS MUCH AS a fit good looking one would decide never to date a chubby fugly woman.

everyone has their own priorities/requirements in a mate, some will put more emphasis on good education, good looks, good physic, good manners or good finances. if the said person has got what you need/desire in a mate then its all down to:" to each their own"

what would be wrong is for you to go for a mate that AINT got any of your priorities/requirements simply because of peer pressure/body clock/money or whatever.

Why should i date a dangote truck when i don't look like one?

If you are okay with your size, then you should be okay dating your size too

Obj look like a pig but his wife was kinda fine (may her soul rest in peace)

What're we talking about here? Standards are long dead, man. Ugly guys get cute chicks all the time and you know it. Blame it on we ladies, cute or not quite, that generally perceive things way beyond our door posts. Like good character and blah blah. This is not so evident in many cute guys and so we fall prey most of the time, to the other half.

Yez, I agree wella.
Date/approach Your kind. 
It's on NL You see Fat toads, smeagol-looking dudes criticizing people 10 times
better-looking than themselves.
Thank God for the 'net sha.

If I don't see past the physique when looking at the man and I don't like what I see, it simply won't work. . .