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11 Terrible Mistakes You Should Never Make After A Breakup by Seegistmedia: 2:40pm On Jan 17, 2019
In this article, you will learn about the 11 terrible mistakes you should never make after a breakup. If you can avoid these mistakes, you are less likely to be in depression when your partner breakup with you.

1. Contacting Your Ex Immediately After The Breakup
Trying to contact your ex immediately after a breakup is one of the terrible mistakes that you should never make. When your partner breakup with you, try as much as possible to give space.

In fact, try not to reach out in the next 30 to 60 days. This will enable you to cope with the unnecessary feelings that come with it. But when you try contacting an ex immediately after a breakup, it is always very messy.

Sometimes, they make you feel so inconsequential that you feel like committing suicide. However, when you try to blank them out after the breakup, you tend to heal from the heart break easily.



2. Don’t Communicate With Your Ex More Than Necessary
Sometimes it is almost impossible to stop contacting your ex completely. Again, it depends on the circumstances surrounding the breakup.

If it becomes necessary to communicate with your ex, be very moderate about it. Otherwise, it may affect your new relationship, especially if your partner isn’t comfortable with it.

Constant communication with your ex is likely going to ignite the feelings you guys had before. This could be unhealthy especially if both of you are in new relationship.

Silence is still preferable during the early stage of breakup. When it becomes necessary to reach out with your ex, be very brief, direct and formal.



3. Try As Much As Possible To Avoid Your Ex
One of the terrible mistakes people make after breakup is not avoiding their ex after breakup. As a rule, try to avoid your ex in real world. Avoid going to places where you are likely to bump into your ex.

If you are in the same city with your ex, it is actually advisable to leave the city for sometimes. Take a short vacation, this will hasten your healing process.

However, if you finally bump into each other, try to be very nice, police and act formally. No hard feelings, don’t allow your emotions to make you look stupid.



4. Not Taking Good Care Of Yourself
Most people tend to neglect themselves during breakup. Don’t do this, it is only a breakup and not the end of the world. Remember, they are several fishes in the River, all you need is to set your hook and line properly. Click Here to Continue Reading
Re: 11 Terrible Mistakes You Should Never Make After A Breakup by Seegistmedia: 3:14pm On Jan 17, 2019
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