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Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 2:07pm On Aug 14, 2010
Most often i see/ hear people talkin about their various ex- in an awkward manner,4gotten that this ex- thing is vice versa ''u 're somebody's ex too'' And for the fact that people often go into various relationship for two obvious reasons ''Love or Fun'' thus, i personally believe that some of our various ex- are worthy of a life-time friendship cos no one is flawless. ( My ex-, now happily married told me this somes days ago)

My reply;I think anyone that apparently went into any relationship just for d fun of it has no reason or whatsoever to lament,nag or call names when his/her partner that otherwise initiated or accepted it for d sake of luv discovers incompatibility and decide to cleverly kiss it gudbye, u are right.

Though she's married and faithful to her hubby, but said she can't stop reaching me via fone or keeping my pics for reasons best known to her.

Meanwhile, as we all know, d Truth they say is bitter and it equally hurts, but it remains one of the virtues that i live to uphold. Not long ago, i realized that i was un-necessarily steering this once upon a time relationship for the very wrong reason ''fun''until it rocked, whilst this young lady was virtually there for d other reason''Luv''. Now that i'm matured i realized she wuld hav made d best wife i culd ever think of but my level of immaturity,ignorance and playboy manner then caused me this. What a world!

However, since that hour of reckoning, till she eventually got married, and till date never intend to do or use more than platonic terms in our frenquent convos, but one thing for sure is that we might really end up as friends for life, just gud friends cos i equally feel like hearing her luvly voice at times, but when i recall that she's married i sigh and conclude that i missed a gr8 target, Now, i hope 2 settle down soon as i'm seriously searching all over again,

considering how married-life functions, is this kinda friendship wise and healthy for it?
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by mylove4him(f): 7:55pm On Aug 14, 2010
Nothing is wrong but you have to respect her marriage, that serves you right.
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by double08(m): 8:20pm On Aug 14, 2010
jUST Passing
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Gbemyte(f): 8:36pm On Aug 14, 2010
@posta. Wil u mary me?
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by 5p1naz(m): 8:40pm On Aug 14, 2010
double08:

jUST Passing

stop passing men!!! u dey block my view. . .
angry angry angry

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Gbemyte:

@posta. Wil u mary me?

[color=#000099]lemme answer for him. . . oh yea, i would marry you. . . oya sharp sharp!!!
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by slex(m): 8:41pm On Aug 14, 2010
eyahh sorry guy-man. well when you see a good girl keep her this time. Theree are some ladies you only get to be with  just once in a lifetime 4get that one that says ladies plenty outside na half true. there are a lot of ladies outside but few wives sad. Just pray you see anoda good girl. good-luck
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Agibecky: 8:43pm On Aug 14, 2010
Most women go into relationships for love, sex or cash.

Call a spade a spade.

If your ex was bad say so and if your ex was good say so too.
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 9:03pm On Aug 14, 2010
@ Gbemyte. Kidding? grin grin grin

Well, how are u there?

@ Slex; Word!
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by sugarpp: 9:36pm On Aug 14, 2010
u guys dnt sound like exes jst bein friends. The relationship is nt healthy
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Gbemyte(f): 12:19pm On Aug 15, 2010
@mora. Am doin fine.
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 2:25pm On Aug 15, 2010
Gbemyte baby,
Are u back 4rm church, Happy Sunday!
hope is life, nd where exactly 're u?
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 2:33pm On Aug 15, 2010
Gbemyte baby,
Are u back 4rm church, Happy Sunday!
how is life, nd where exactly 're u?
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Gbemyte(f): 3:06pm On Aug 15, 2010
@mora.Yeah am back. Am in Lagos. Nd u
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 3:21pm On Aug 15, 2010
I'm in Singapore 4 now.
do u have yahoo id?
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Gbemyte(f): 3:47pm On Aug 15, 2010
grecheal@yahoo.com
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Moralistli(m): 4:56pm On Aug 15, 2010
Noted. Hope 2 reach u soon,
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by IyaBasira: 5:13pm On Aug 15, 2010
I like honesty and someone who can admit to making mistakes. That's a good trait.
Yeah you messed up . But don't make a second mistake. It seems that you guys are a bit too close .
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 16, 2010
This kind of friendship is not healthy for both of you.you are both human
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by kobikwelu(m): 3:37pm On Aug 16, 2010
hey,
whatever rocks your boat
Re: Is This Kinda Friendship Healthy? by honeric01(m): 3:53pm On Aug 16, 2010
Hehehehe, e be like say the guy don hit another one asap

Goodluck bro with gbemyte cool

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