1StopRudeness:


U seff know say I get u..she never ask for too much....
Na them dey lose pass, a man hardly ever feels used after sex like women.....so them dey try get some gain incase u start to form James bond after sex...

Guy....pay for the hair....no Biggie..if it no even reach 7k seff for that kind babe..some times, expression weave 3k + 1k5 hairstylist charge.

u never jam confirm thief wey go tell u say her mama or brother dey hospital say she need N76,950 for bills....Omo...I don waka small...

LINTUNE:
Most ladies have dated are broke, but never disturbed me for money that much.. Infact they spend the little ones they have on me.. I don't think it's about her being broke.. I think it's just mentality

dairykidd:
That was how I met one prisons abi customs babe
Not that the money to fill her gas na problem but the baby she dey call me no just sweet my ear at all. A
Any girl that calls u baby on a without knowing u.. Borrow leg & gbes

LegitGirl:



Thank you. It's purely a mentality thing. A girl that's got pride and realises no man owes her anything would never go about asking.

I've been broke severally and I had friends and toasters who have more than enough to sapre, but hell would nearly freeze over before I ask them for money. When I'm freely given without my asking, depending on who's giving, I accept. Otherwise, I respect myself and wait for month end.

There was a day a former colleague and I were discussing, and I said my account was next to empty. She screamed and asked me what all those toasters in my life are there for... that I should better ask them. She said I sure needed a man.

lammylam:


bro! I got what the guy wrote there!
what I meant was 'the first impression'


if you still don't understand me! then I dunno how to explain better

LegitGirl:


Lol. Where did you get that figure from... why so exact?

Bamz:


What kind of advice is this? they are not in a relationship yet. He's just hanging out with her and she's making those demands. You seem like you're trying to justify the girl's actions. If she was your daughter, would you condone her behaviour? be honest.
Economy is hard bla bla bla, it's no gender sensitive.

Your notion on this issue is skewed.

A decent girl from a decent home would not behave like this.

sweetrace:


You forgot a valid point: that there are ladies who do NOT do this at all. I speak for myself and others I know who earn a good living and take absolute joy in paying our bills. We fill grown up, independent, accomplished and like nothing can hinder our progress.

1StopRudeness:


Justify her actions?? U are making it sound like she tackled the guy at gun point... She didn't ask for his one year salary, they r just hanging out, ladies like to cared for even when they are richer than u...no Biggie

A decent girl cannot ask a friend to make hair for her.??it's just hair oga Ade....I don't know ur definition of decent jare....grab a sense of humour..No take life too hard ooo
Help the economy.
As we enter the weekend, pay for someone's hairdo..
It won't kill you, and it won't make her hoe. Just to add..it on a lighter mood

1StopRudeness:
Guy na just hair...no be iPhoneX.....

Those kind babe wey dey lap no dey do hair pass 7k....

I know it's annoying being a parasite...but that's what the nation has become..alot of our ladies have become unconcious prostitutess...some are even proud of their prostitutee state.....it has even become a trend, something to brag about
Play ur part in helping the economy...last last..u shaa no go Straff for free....
U are too calculative...we go all become maga eventually, weda stupidly in casual relationship or legally with the ring on the finger..u go pay last last.

1StopRudeness:


U seff know say I get u..she never ask for too much....
Na them dey lose pass, a man hardly ever feels used after sex like women.....so them dey try get some gain incase u start to form James bond after sex...

Guy....pay for the hair....no Biggie..if it no even reach 7k seff for that kind babe..some times, expression weave 3k + 1k5 hairstylist charge.

u never jam confirm thief wey go tell u say her mama or brother dey hospital say she need N76,950 for bills....Omo...I don waka small...

1StopRudeness:


Shébi that figure looks real to you too....
that's the kinda figure some ladies use that makes a guy feel ...."and she might not be lieing about the hospital thing oooo"
Let me give her like 50% just in case her mum is in the hospital

michaelandre:
so are u saying because it's not iPhonex so d girl should turn him into an atm I wonder were u guys originated from.

ashewoboy:
it is not easy to maintain a glamorous skin. you should chase ladies you can afford. that is not to say I am a pvssy niggar. she was too quick in asking for fund. she would have allowed you to enter the place before making a request. at least you should know how delicious the place is before you invest in it.

LegitGirl:



Thank you. It's purely a mentality thing. A girl that's got pride and realises no man owes her anything would never go about asking.

I've been broke severally and I had friends and toasters who have more than enough to sapre, but hell would nearly freeze over before I ask them for money. When I'm freely given without my asking, depending on who's giving, I accept. Otherwise, I respect myself and wait for month end.

There was a day a former colleague and I were discussing, and I said my account was next to empty. She screamed and asked me what all those toasters in my life are there for... that I should better ask them. She said I sure needed a man.

pansophist:
For me, it is not about material (financial) brokenness but the mental one. Poor people have a predatory mindset developed over a sustained period of scarcity. Any sign of abundance (e.g, rich boyfriend) is seen as a fleeting resource to exploit, ransack and parasite from. Their personal responsibility will be projected to the other party and made to feel guilty if he refuses to accept such conditions in a relationship. Their family problem becomes yours to carry with pressure coming from different angles like sharp bullet forcing you to comply. Poor people usually do not understand the concept of a mutual relationship, its all about what they will benefit only.

Ultimately, the difference between the rich and the poor is their mindset. A rich person going for a broke woman is like throwing foods to hungry fish, you will be devoured. While the smart one realizes to leave poor people alone and let them date each other, seems they understand themselves better. Different mindset.

kingkuntaval:


I partially concur with your point of view, but before you drape the poverty blanket over everybody, you MUST understand that "poverty" is a relative concept. Nothing is ever promised in life, being poor or broke today has little or no bearing in fortelling what your financial status will be tomorrow. I've seen persons who were poor as recent as 2013, but bleeding real cash today (I'm talking abt 9 digit stuff), and vice versa. At the end of the day it's all about the mindset, maturity and understanding btw both parties regardless of who's more financially well to do. If you've probably made some coins, don't go all "RICH for RICH" and "POOR for POOR" mentality, because Life can be a fucking pendulum, If the money dries up, then what's left (definitely not LOVE), because that was never a uniting factor between them in the first place.

NB: Some girls carry oil for head oo..Grace wey some girls get ehnn...bros forget..

kingkuntaval:


I partially concur with your point of view, but before you drape the poverty blanket over everybody, you MUST understand that "poverty" is a relative concept. Nothing is ever promised in life, being poor or broke today has little or no bearing in fortelling what your financial status will be tomorrow. I've seen persons who were poor as recent as 2013, but bleeding real cash today (I'm talking abt 9 digit stuff), and vice versa. At the end of the day it's all about the mindset, maturity and understanding btw both parties regardless of who's more financially well to do. If you've probably made some coins, don't go all "RICH for RICH" and "POOR for POOR" mentality, because Life can be a fucking pendulum, If the money dries up, then what's left (definitely not LOVE), because that was never a uniting factor between them in the first place.

NB: Some girls carry oil for head oo..Grace wey some girls get ehnn...bros forget..

pansophist:


Nice points, but I think you're barking at the wrong tree. Can you point out where exactly in my write up you're trying to lecture me on? Because I can't find where I argue against your points.

kingkuntaval:


The dichotomy of poverty and wealth is quite a complex one, how do you define poverty? Is it the absence of material property, the lack of drive or both?
You might come from a rich family, but if you lack drive and determination, you can be considered poor in some circles.

What sticks out to me in your write-up is the "one size fits all" poor people mentality, that once you're dating a "broke" girl she is hellbent on parasitism, without bringing anything viable to the table (bar Sex lol..), I tend to consider that school of thought to be a very denigratory mindset. Though some persons might financially buoyant, it doesn't mean that can't bring something to the table.