@poster, i wont blame u for being confused. When a guy doesnt really knows what he wants it certainly will make u to have other decisions like getting another guy. Ur old bf loves u but i think he has something he is not telling u. Confront him, ask him questions abt u and him of d way forward b4 u decide on wht to do. U aint a slut nor a LovePeddler. My best advice to u is talk to ur old bf b4 u take any decision.

U simply do not love both..if u loved ur bf of 4yrs u wudnt av evn thought abt goin 2 dis oda guy's house. As 4 d 2nd guy,u r both lustin afta urselves..so gal, rethink and be a little patient wit ur boyfrnd of 4yrs cos dia wil probably b a reason 4 his delay in introduction