^^^^see match making don start

lol.

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fantababy:

Am still rereading all the posts and am laughing. Let me clarify some stuffs:

1. Thank you kabukabu for the pictures, am a 5.4 and my shape is similar to the number 2 picture.

2. My fiance is not marrying me for my papers, I am a canadian citizen, and he is a british citizen. He recently relocated back to Nigeria to set up an interior decor business which is doing very well.

3. I asked for the opinion of Nairalanders because I wanted to see things from different angles and get various views.

4. Am actually very pretty, I won 2nd runner up Miss Fego while  at secondary school.  

5. We both love ourselves sincerely, but I think he likes a trophy girl that he can show round to his friends.

6. I had suitors from canada, but none of them matched my standards. Am a christian and I wanted some1 with the same faith and values as me.

7. And am not a desperado. He was the one pushing for marriage this yr cos he wants to settle down before his 28th b.day in March.

Case closed! Now good and best of wishes to you and your marriage.

funkybaby:

exactly!

for all we know, she might have massive thighs, big upper hands or a big backside which might not be porportional to her body/height.

Big backsides and big thighs are for men who can handle a real woman, like our ancestors of old, not the sack of bones which , *make I no talk.

Bones are for dogs, meat is for men!  

@OP: I am glad ure smiling at least, just keep doing that and keep a positive mental attitude, do u know how many people would love you for you? Jeez, selling yourself short u are!  

follypimpi:


Hater    

Abi folly?, she ask for advise, we gave and now she claims she is laughing at our comments, Good for her now she needs to look in the Mirror and smile to herself.

Me I no get problem, my hubby can't keep his hands off me, why do u think i born 3 pikins in 4 years, abeg. and I am still a size 4 US with no Stretch marks and a flat belly. so to each his own, I am out!

Since you said you prayed about it before you said yes, I believe you must have received conviction from God that he is your 'Mr. Right'. I would advise that you go back to God and first sort it out through prayers because " what God ordains, He sustains"

Also, you would need to go for Counselling to sort out the underlining issues at hand. And if you don't mind here is a link
www.bisiadewale.com or call +23456457013

Yme mind yoursef oo, na crime make I help my sister wey one yeye guy no appericate ?                                                                                                      

fantababy:

@
rita@NL, I live in Ottawa. LOL!

  Fanta I live in Toronto, maybe you should come to a place where we have higher concentration of our najia broda, that means i'm invisiting you to Toronto but no problem still just take it easy on yourself  love will find you. Am a lady oo n I no dey toast you ooo,  But you can holla whenever you are in Toronto and if you need a friend to talk to, you gat me.

There are many solutions for fatty body. Adyys products will slim her 100%

Haba Tolutara,
did u read my previous reply, I appreciated u all for ur advice.
You have all given (especially u) really good advice.
Your various advices have actually made me stronger and now I know what to do.
Am not laughing at all ur posts, there are some really funny posts (about 4 of them) that kinda amused me.

rita@NL:

Yme mind yoursef oo, na crime make I help my sister wey one yeye guy no appericate ?

lwkmd
i am sure the guy wey you go give her go complain say her b, oobs or a, ss too big
abeg look for one swahili guy give am must it be naija?

While typing this post yesterday, I was actually crying.
But after reading all ur comments, I actually feel stronger.
I know I had self esteem issues when I balloned to a size 18, but I have overcome it.
Some ladies are not so outspoken. I am one of those.
Am learning to speak up my emotions.

Yme you harsh no be small, you better start to dey contact all the single handsome dudes wey you know for our sister b4 I grab your husband give am nao

SamMilla (Wherever you are), abeg work on this and move to the JOKE section. Your style  




As for you OP, I hope you remember to do some bre.ast augumentation and tummy tuck on your way to slimming down  

Can you also post your pictures while you were sizes 10, 14 and 18 and how come all are in even number Aint dere a size 17

follypimpi:


Don't tell every1 why i dey hammer u each time sumfing drops on the floor

Silly man, if your wife catch you, na outside you go sleep for 3 days  

chika98:

Case closed! Now good and best of wishes to you and your marriage.

Now you see that her post has confirmed what i was trying to explain to both you and dayokanu that :

Her boyfriend might be financially buoyant than her
That he might not be in the relationship for any personal or selfish reason
That he might have decided to stay in Abuja not because he can't afford to leave anywhere else but because he preferred Nigeria.

as for fantababe, like some said, you are the only one with the answers to your questions and i wish you good luck in your future and marriage.

honeric01:

Silly man, if your wife catch you, na outside you go sleep for 3 days  


Now you see that her post has confirmed what i was trying to explain to both you and dayokanu that :

Her boyfriend might be financially buoyant than her
That he might not be in the relationship for any personal or selfish reason
That he might have decided to stay in Abuja not because he can't afford to leave anywhere else but before he preferred Nigeria.

as for fantababe, like some said, you are the only one with the answers to your questions and i wish you good luck in your future and marriage.

Even if the above is true; Still doesn't make any difference in this case. She's in for it but like you said she's the only one who can make that decision.

my dear believe me I know what you're talking about, sometimes it's difficult to accept yourself because some people will compare to another or you don't enter to beauty stereotypes like being ultra slim or having thing features on your face or for some people you are too dark for example. But guess what my dear sister, we are like we are, we just have to cultivate our difference and make them a strengh. I tell you something I'm the darkest one on my family but my relatives doesn't care about it but one day a friend of mine told me: you would have been much more beautiful if you were very light skin as your sisters,and I responded "If you notice my difference then thank God that makes me unique" and she was ashamed, you have to accept as you are and believe in yourself without thinking about the others. Now if you want to get slimmer for your healh i'd say I'm with you but if it's to have a guy or look like what a guy want this is a mistake

rita@NL:

Yme you harsh no be small, you better start to dey contact all the single handsome dudes wey you know for our sister b4 I grab your husband give am nao

single brodas full NL here o
i swear if the poster add her yim you go see as them all go rush her
btw i dont have a particular hussy but as a good samarithan am willing to let one to her if she needs it

@poster
life is too short
live your life and Bleep off whosoever does not appreciate u
but i still say lose the weight for your own sake but if you are cool with what you gat then no quams

fantababy:

While typing this post yesterday, I was actually crying.
But after reading all your comments, I actually feel stronger.
I know I had self esteem issues when I balloned to a size 18, but I have overcome it.
Some ladies are not so outspoken. I am one of those.
Am learning to speak up my emotions.

wtf!!!  

that is a UK size 20  

btw: be honest. what is your real size now?

think before you say i do!

chika98:

Even if the above is true; Still doesn't make any difference in this case. She's in for it but like you said she's the only one who can make that decision.

We cool, we cool  

@Funky baby,
Am a UK size 12, US Size 10. I still fit into some of US size 12.( UK 14) clothes.

funkybaby:

wtf!!!  

that is a UK size 20  

btw: be honest. what is your real size now?

am as shocked as you too
and that is the reasoin why i said the fiance did nothing wrong
i mean that is too much fat nah(no offense)
even if she doesnt want to do it for the fiance but she should try do it for herself
i mean a U.S size 4 like me dey complain say i fat talk less of 12
but she did try tho from size 18 to 12 that is one hell of a weight loss

A wise man build his house upon the rock. This marriage will surely fall because it is founded upon the sand - looks, outer flesh etc,
Maybe as you come from Canada, he's holding on to you for that, to get into Canada.
If I were you, I would call it quits.

fantababy:

@Funky baby,
Am a UK size 12, US Size 10. I still fit into some of US size 12.( UK 14) clothes.

How long ago were you a UK size 20?

so you want us to believe that you shrunk from a UK size 20 to a UK size 12    

no man will ever complain/tag  a UK size 12 as fat.

sorry. but i think you are not being truthful with your true size.  

y me:

am as shocked as you too
and that is the reasoin why i said the fiance did nothing wrong
i mean that is too much fat nah(no offense)
even if she doesnt want to do it for the fiance but she should try do it for herself
i mean a U.S size 4 like me dey complain say i fat talk less of 12
but she did try tho from size 18 to 12 that is one hell of a weight loss

A size 4 is fat right? Are you just saying that to get attention or you really mean that?
Why don't you go ahead and lose weight so that you can be a size 0. That is certainly more sexy.

honeric01:


We cool, we cool  

Yes that we are.

looooool now people are revealing their size ohhhh!! lol I don't really have an idea since in France this is completely different it's about S for small so 34-36 then medium 38-40  large 42-44 abd XL extra large 46-48

Fanta abeg show me your picture cos me I no no how size 12 take be oo, be like say I fat pass you sef. I wan see your pix to know whether I get hope or not .  

y me:

but she did try tho from size 18 to 12 that is one hell of a weight loss

which is the very reason why i think she is not being honest about her present dress size

if really she shrunk from a UK size 20 to a UK size 12, her bobo should be praising her to high heavens and not the other way round

a UK size 20 is massive