SA Goddess:

. . . . .and you forgot to tell that little brat to not piss me off? I will not apologise, don't see what for!

MOBO444:

SA Goddess i am not happy with your behaviour, maybe you putting up a charade, it not fair you know,Mutter is a decent lady and has always handle things with limitless maturity.

MOBO444:

SA Goddess i am not happy with your behaviour, maybe you putting up a charade, it not fair you know,Mutter is a decent lady and has always handle things with limitless maturity.

jennykadry:

What maturity? encouraging people to stay in abusive relationships for the sake of money? labelled all single mothers prostitu, tes that sell their bodies for money? feels a man is allowed to cheat as many times as possible and be forgiven but a woman should be stoned to death the minute she looks outside

What a waste of human being

jennykadry:

What maturity? encouraging people to stay in abusive relationships for the sake of money? labelled all single mothers prostitu, tes that sell their bodies for money? feels a man is allowed to cheat as many times as possible and be forgiven but a woman should be stoned to death the minute she looks outside

What a waste of human being

Sagamite:

If anybody ever said all that, then the person is a retard.

SA Goddess:

They think alike hence he does not see anything wrong with what the fool has said to me, let them be!  

The  grown  fool (mutter) is actually trying so hard to act classy and mature but she failed dismally!  

jennykadry:

And she is talking about menopause @38 even when 31 yr old women are beginning to experience menopause, if she was so intelligent she would have known that alot of women experience early menopause

SA Goddess:

She is just a fool who tries to act knowledgeable but of course gets exposed. . . . .she must just give up and crawl back into her dark corner, fool!

jennykadry:

Mutter said that millions of times on the family section, she imagines herself to be a successful woman but does not believe that a woman can make it in life without an abusive husband. She reckons all single mothers are slu.tss that slept with men for financial help. She said she will encourage her kids to stay in an abusive marriage as they get to appreciate life more. seriously sweetheart i could go on and on about what that retard's been passing on to the single ladies and its all balderdash

I am not a feminist, I believe in complete and totoal submission in marriage but at the same time, women make it this days without satisfying the sexual urges of them men

jennykadry:

Sagamite she also believes that the men in europe dont go to school. Seriously that woman is sick

She claimed to have studied in germany and believes that you cannot get into the uni without an A level, I saw her post it somewhere and i was like WTF   the same germany where I studied with just my high school certificate? is she really kidding me or does she believe telling all sorts of lies to prove a point will do her any good?

mutter:

Jenny, and Godess.
You need to quote me or reference the thread where I said such things.
You are putting words into mouth.
I do not think we can trash out all threads in one thread.
Open the threads and we can continue from there and anyone interested can question me there on y views.
We do not all need to have the same opinion in life.
I certainly can never say that all single women are love-peddlers that would be absurd.

i never said men in Europe do not go to school.
I said that in Germany very few Nigerians study here. In America and the UK it is different.
I still claim that you need to have A levels to study in Germany. Apart from that you need the language certificate.
Please where did you study and did you get a degree. I can look it up and see the requirements.
Then we ca link it up for all Nairalanders to see.
Another option apart from A levels is having a further education.
I do not have a levels but because I had studied in Nigeria, I was able to take up studies and schooling here.
I guess you know that everyone can check this up in the internet today.

mutter:

My point?
Let the truth be told finally.
Most women in Nigeria that appear from the outside to be independent and self sufficient are nothing more than love-peddlers.
Selling their bodies for contracts, deals, favors and money.
It is not only the woman that stands on the road that is selling her body.

mutter:

yes the children will see what their mother is going through and appreciate later in life.

You know Jennykadry calling this lazy is an insult to most people living in poverty. Poor people very often work allot harder than rich ones. They just do not have the same opportunities. I know allot of very hard working women in Nigeria who cannot maintain a family. Your comment is callous, unrealistic and insulting to such women.

You want a woman to protect her kids from a husband slapping her and then what:
move to a district where the kids fall into bad company, bad education and so many other disadvantages. Bringing in many men to provide for her. We know how many hard working women get contracts in Nigeria.

Please be realistic. It certainly is not okay for a husband to maltreat a wife but sometimes women have to endure it because the price of leaving is too high.

mutter:

@jennykadry
if my husband leaves me today, who knows? I probably would be better off financially, because his extended family would fall out of the picture.
You just seem to be looking at a minor percentage of women who are able to fend for themselves. You are not looking at the vast majority of women.
YES if I could not give my kids what they need to make it in life, I would stay with the man no matter how bad he treated me. I would stay with the man to make sure my kids get a better chance in life.
That sacrifice I expect every mother to make.

mutter:

@iyabasira.
call it backward.
Already in the schools, money and sex is being exchanged for good notes.
The hostels are the biggest prostitution centers.

You intend to work hard?
What are you studying and tell us what is the starting salary?
Now tell me about what kind of job you can get in Nigeria without connections or bottom power, just by hard work that will enable you maintain a good standard of living in Nigeria.
@ jENNYKADRY I know you find it difficult to imagine that a submissive woman can achieve anything.
I pray God will help you to achieve your own goals in life, maybe that way you might stop bitching about other peoples own
SO tell me how much was or does a lawyer earn in Lagos to maintain a family. I mean a married woman at the beginning of her career.
My ex was a military officer and we lived in VI. If I left him without being to care adequately. ,
Do you know how easy it is to loose child custody as a woman in Nigeria? In fact he would have done what he wanted without even regarding the courts.

jennykadry:

Sagamite you sure say you go school for Uk abi na backyard runs you take enter as naija pple no sab skool

Sagamite:

She must have self esteem issues. Submission (which I think to most people imply "amenable" to husband is good, but for one person to persist with this under an abusive spouse and even have the guts to preach others follow the footstep, especially her kids, the person needs deliverance with holy water from multiple pastors at an all night marathon.

Now for me to advocate such is rather strong, considering I am an iconoclast on religion. But the issue is too severe.

Maybe a single mother took her man, hence the moronic, cretinous vitriol on single mothers.

You need to ask her which part of Tejuosho market her oga's stall is in.

She never leave Naija before, all na mouth.

mutter:

http://www.study-in-germany.de/english/1.120.320.3.html

Jenny nur für dich!
So, wo genau hast du in Deutschland studiert?
Wir können uns doch in deutsch austauschen, oder nicht?

Sagamite:

Yes o.

I went to  University of Ikorodu's UK campus in Peckham.