Hi Guys

So why do some men (most not all) run after another woman?

Ive seen incidences of men confessing undying love for another woman going to extremes flowers dinner dates surprises

Dating for months even getting engaged or even fathering a child

meeting families etc etc

going to extremes to cover their tracks!!

But failing on one little detail, YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP with another woman,

nigerian men, and im one of them, are very immature when it comes to relations with women.

i dont understand it but all my fellow nigerian guys are fucking it up for the nigerian guys with swag that know what's up.

we're getting a reputation for being stalkers, womanizers, and idiots with no game in some circles. some guys need to chill out, a lot of nigerian guys act like they'll die if they dont ejaculate.

it's very simple men are not made to be tied down those of us who stay faithful battle with ourselves each day to maintain that faithfulness. for every pretty girl a man hooks up with their is always another pretty girl around the corner and for what ever reason we have to have her regardless of us having a wife at home or a GF. it isnt until after that insatiable urge has been satisfied that we come back to our senses and then try to get forgiveness.

Sad.

omega25red:

it's very simple men are not made to be tied down those of us who stay faithful battle with ourselves each day to maintain that faithfulness. for every pretty girl a man hooks up with their is always another pretty girl around the corner and for what ever reason we have to have her regardless of us having a wife at home or a GF. it isnt until after that insatiable urge has been satisfied that we come back to our senses and then try to get forgiveness.

it doesnt make it right , and still dosnt answer the question

It is just weakness and lack of discipline in a lot of cases. Whatever the reason, it is a wrong thing to do.

britgirlee:

it doesnt make it right , and still dosnt answer the question

Fox!! When did you get back here?

Siena:

Fox!! When did you get back here?

Hey Hey Siena, how now .I got back last night, back to cause a stir fry then, vamos,

britgirlee:

Hey Hey Siena, how now .I got back last night, back to cause a stir fry then, vamos,

Still got bats in the belfry, I see, lol.

Ikengawo:

nigerian men, and im one of them, are very immature when it comes to relations with women.

i dont understand it but all my fellow nigerian guys are bleeping it up for the nigerian guys with swag that know what's up.

we're getting a reputation for being stalkers, womanizers, and idiots with no game in some circles. some guys need to chill out, a lot of nigerian guys act like they'll die if they dont expel.

please u are on your own on this one, count me out~

a lot of nigerian guys act like they will run out of breath, pass out,run mad, collapse, regress to a vegitative state, loose money, loose their sense of taste,smell, touch and sight if they dont release,cum,ejaculate,spray, expel into every single toto that comes their way----
some men excel at
playing chees
compossing a piece of music that will blow ur mind
building impossible bridges
designing futuristic cars
inventing new technology
discovering cures for dibilitating diseases
creating computer software and mobile appplications
formulating new theories and hypothesis
painting the next master piece
exploring the universe and discovering new planets and moons
some men however excel at telling lies,cheating and jumping from one toto to another,stealing money and encouraging the mass production of shuddy goods and services

britgirlee:

Hi Guys

So why do some men (most not all) run after another woman?

Ive seen incidences of men confessing undying love for another woman going to extremes flowers dinner dates surprises

Dating for months even getting engaged or even fathering a child

meeting families etc etc

going to extremes to cover their tracks!!

But failing on one little detail, YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP with another woman,

oya, tell us ur sad story so that we can sympathize with u, then u can leave us alone and go date a non-nigerian

omega25red:

it's very simple men are not made to be tied down those of us who stay faithful battle with ourselves each day to maintain that faithfulness. for every pretty girl a man hooks up with their is always another pretty girl around the corner and for what ever reason we have to have her regardless of us having a wife at home or a GF. it isnt until after that insatiable urge has been satisfied that we come back to our senses and then try to get forgiveness.

HOW DEN CAN U DIFERENCIATE BTW MAN N ANIMAL WEN GOD ENDOWED HIM WITH QUALITIES LIKE:
KNOWLEDGE;
SELF CONTROL;
DICIPLINE; ETC.
AND WE ARE GOD'S IMAGE SO WHY CANT WE EMULATE OUR FAITHFUL GOD BY BEING FAITHFUL
THAN GIVEN EXCUSES DAT DATS MAN'S NATURE "TO FLIRT"

see all this people o talking as if women don't cheat. Both sexes cheat. U should fu*cking get used to it
Who said women don't cheat? Even the married ones do. Women cheat and sleep around too.
& why did the poster generalise as if every man cheats?
if u don't like my comment then go and jump off a bridge cos i'm not coming back to this dull thread

@poster
because they can!

not everybody stands for the vows they made AND the women they got married to knew it  but decided to get married anyway. some women are  so desperate for marriage that they will accept anything from their man. . . . . . .  if a sneaky man knows that then he will abuse it. if all wifeys out there dropped their cheating husbands then a few less men would go on the act.
   
also we do know that these women that are chased by the married men know FULLY WELL that they are married and still get down with these cheaters so if these skanks wouldnt allow married men then there would be less cheating.

btw last time i checked married women are cheating too.

last but not least, understanding why men/women cheat is stoopid, there are so many different reasons that it could never be avoided. IF YOUR SPOUSE HAS GOT FIRE IN THEIR PANTS THEN NOTHING CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT.

it is not just men that cheat, women cheat too. i just caught one married woman who is cheating on her hubby just this last friday. she sent the wrong text msg to my phone meant for someone else ; the whole experience sent cold chillers down my spine. when i have the time i will make a thread for that incident

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
because they can!

not everybody stands for the vows they made AND the women they got married to knew it but decided to get married anyway. some women are so desperate for marriage that they will accept anything from their man. . . . . . . if a sneaky man knows that then he will abuse it. if all wifeys out there dropped their cheating husbands then a few less men would go on the act.

also we do know that these women that are chased by the married men know FULLY WELL that they are married and still get down with these cheaters so if these skanks wouldnt allow married men then there would be less cheating.

btw last time i checked married women are cheating too.

last but not least, understanding why men/women cheat is stoopid, there are so many different reasons that it could never be avoided. IF YOUR SPOUSE HAS GOT FIRE IN THEIR PANTS THEN NOTHING CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT.

good points , BUT its not stupid to understand why men cheat, they are a totally different species from women, and they just cant help themselves, I know i guy who slept with a woman a day before his wedding and another during his honey moon asked why, "he couldnt help himself

na2day?:

it is not just men that cheat, women cheat too. i just caught one married woman who is cheating on her hubby just this last friday. she sent the wrong text msg to my phone meant for someone else ; the whole experience sent cold chillers down my spine. when i have the time i will make a thread for that incident

true, but its the majority of men that have the ultimate urge to cheat

Omega red, excuse me but it soudns more like an excuse than a explanation, as if guys can't be faithful,

First of all it ain't a Nigerian thing. Men are born cheats even though it ain't right

Secondly women love to be lied to. If you tell a close minded woman all you wanna do is bleep her what will she do? Slap d silly bleep outta ya mouth hence the need why they navigate through the deceit method.

Thirdly, why are some women just too silly to know they are being played? You don't have to open that legs on the first date, Watch him and tick all the crosses before you give in if it worries you that much.

Lastly, it's all about sex isn't it so y'all should stop attaching too much significance to it. It's either you are game or become a celibate until u find that man. Don't go playing sexy games with the hope of using it to tie him down.

britgirlee:

good points , BUT its not silly to understand why men cheat, they are a totally different species from women, and they just cant help themselves, I know i guy who slept with a woman a day before his wedding and another during his honey moon asked why, "he couldnt help himself

would you like me to show you women who did the exact same thing?! times have changed and women are hunters now. believing that only men do these atrocities will have you fail.
havent you read about wife whose sister had a baby with her husband?
mothers who started cheating with their daughter's boyfriends?
girls who slept with their bestfriend man?

some women today have no morals and would cheat just like men. here is something for you:

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MRbrownJAY:

would you like me to show you women who did the exact same thing?! times have changed and women are hunters now. believing that only men do these atrocities will have you fail.
havent you read about wife whose sister had a baby with her husband?
mothers who started cheating with their daughter's boyfriends?
girls who slept with their bestfriend man?

some women today have no morals and would cheat just like men. here is something for you:

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKhZB4BhFzc?fs=1&hl=en_US"[/flash]

thats a good point , but im sure youll search far and wide to find woman who cheap to the same extent of men,,,hence u tube vid dated 2007, lol,

^^^^^since you think its so easy to catch a cheating spouse, on tape, DURING THEIR WEDDING DAY then why dont you give me the video link that you have of a groom caught cheating on his wedding day.

as for common cheaters, you can simply do a "cheater" search on Youtube and have millions of MEN and WOMEN caught in the act.

britgirlee:

true, but its the majority of men that have the ultimate urge to cheat

nope, men are just dumb azzes when it comes to hiding theirs, thats all

cuz galfriend we r born polygamists by nature, variety is d spice of life and besides dr aint many real dudes around. Chicks wouldnt mind sharing the real dudes among themselves so y deny them d opportunity

jay bee:

Secondly women love to be lied to. If you tell a close minded woman all you wanna do is bleep her what will she do? Slap d silly bleep outta ya mouth hence the need why they navigate through the deceit method.

I disagree, I definitely don't like being lied to. Its not a good feeling when you find out the truth, especially if you had to idea.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
because they can!

not everybody stands for the vows they made AND the women they got married to knew it but decided to get married anyway. some women are so desperate for marriage that they will accept anything from their man. . . . . . . if a sneaky man knows that then he will abuse it. if all wifeys out there dropped their cheating husbands then a few less men would go on the act.

also we do know that these women that are chased by the married men know FULLY WELL that they are married and still get down with these cheaters so if these skanks wouldnt allow married men then there would be less cheating.

btw last time i checked married women are cheating too.

last but not least, understanding why men/women cheat is stoopid, there are so many different reasons that it could never be avoided. IF YOUR SPOUSE HAS GOT FIRE IN THEIR PANTS THEN NOTHING CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT.

I totally agree.

Inked_Nerd:

I disagree, I definitely don't like being lied to. Its not a good feeling when you find out the truth, especially if you had to idea.

nobody ever said u were a woman!

very bad state of affairs.

@op

pls tell us some bedtime story. I hope it aint Mercy Johnson like, with promises of a fairy tale wedding

Too much disney.

And i thought nollywood was anti-disney.